If you fall in love with someone, no matter what they do to you, will you always be with them

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

There is no right and wrong in love, only suitable and inappropriate love, true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of each other's hearts and minds of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated. I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation

Hello, honored with your question!

1. Analyze the reasons why we can't be together.

Think about what the reason for not being able to be together is, whether it is the so-called wrong time and the right person, or the helplessness in reality. Don't always think about the pain of not being able to be together, think about the real reason for this situation.

2. Are you trying to change the status quo?

As long as there is the right to love each other, then there is no reason to love each other to death and not be together, so think about what you can do to change it, so that each other still has the opportunity to work together.

3. Let go quickly.

If you really don't have the opportunity to be together in this relationship, such as married men and women, then hurry up and separate, such a relationship is not love but desire, even if there are other reasons to not be together, then you should simply separate directly, give yourself and the other party an explanation, the entangled but not together relationship is the most selfish performance.

This shows that both parties like it, but they can't be together, first of all, it depends on what the reason for not being able to be together is, and whether not being able to be together is temporary or long-term.

If there is a force majeure reason why two people who like each other can't be together, then this kind of liking can only be retained at the level of mutual liking, because they like it, and they can't go further, then it's not a bad thing to like this, let's keep this kind of like, the two can encourage each other and help each other ......It is not excluded that there may be further possibilities in the future, in short, it is the best policy not to force the status quo to be retained, it is "sometimes in life must be there, life is not always forced", it is rare to like each other, and why bother with whether they can be together! There are countless relationships in the world, and not every relationship can end in perfection and comedy, so go with the flow and deal with it calmly!

If this can't be together is only temporary, then don't be entangled, do a good job of the current you, but also do a good job of the future yourself, because since you like each other, then it is worth fighting for, as long as there is hope, there is motivation. Put the motivation into practice and work harder to do a good job of yourself, not only to keep each other, but also to face it with a better attitude in the future, then often at this time, you have to let go of your feelings and put your feelings into meaningful work. It is the best choice for both the other party and yourself.

In addition to this, it is those who suffer or act negatively for this reason are not only not valid choices, but also not wise choices. Smart people, no matter what difficulties they face, are like this, their feelings, their work, and their lives. The most important thing is to know how to go with the flow, calmly, everyone will inevitably experience emotional pain and confusion when they are young, but this is a necessary experience for everyone to grow up after all, so often at this time, we must know how to clear the fog in front of us when it is the most difficult and confused, and look at the long-term future.

This applies not only to relationships, but also to all problems in life!

I will quickly cut through the mess and say goodbye to this fruitless love.

In this kind of love, the pain is greater than the sweetness, and the longer the time, the deeper the damage.

Long pain is better than short pain, end it as soon as possible and start a new life as soon as possible.

If I really know that two people really can't be together, then I will face the reality and stop the loss in time.

Before you sink deeper, let yourself withdraw, because we know that two people can't be together, rather than love deeper and feel uncomfortable, it's better to withdraw and face reality as soon as possible.

So if I know for sure that two people can't be together, then I will choose to let go.

Since you love each other, you have to face all kinds of difficulties in working together to serve customers, and the strength of two people is still much better than your efforts alone. If it is really fate, we are thinking about whether to separate, in this way, at least we have worked hard for each other, otherwise, if we miss it, we will miss our life...Hope it helps.

How can two people who love each other very much be tired together? If there is really such a situation, it can only be said that you don't love deeply enough, or you don't love anymore.

It may be that you think he is a good person, but some of his personality is not suitable for you.

I'm so much like the question I asked! I just broke up with someone I didn't love but had been together for a year, and the breakup was inevitable, even if I was hurt, but I felt that it should have been without a little distress, and the reason why I was together and lasted for a year made me think about it for a long time. As far as I'm concerned:

First, I feel a kind of depraved laziness, and I have not found a satisfactory job, so I simply don't look for the Internet at home and stay Second, it is a kind of love filling, I broke up with my beloved, and his sincere pursuit touched me. Third, he is spoiling and forbearing, listening to me, and trying to make me happy Fourth, the love of each other's parents and the envy in the eyes of friends, this kind of vanity makes me feel that I must be good with him. Fifth, his good habits give me a sense of security...

If I keep talking about it, I've been in a state of self-reflection and I haven't come out yet, I know I'm wrong, I hurt myself and hurt him. But I didn't mean to, if we really got married, we would be happy, but I still didn't love him for a year, I frankly admit that I was with people is a kind of vanity, a kind of laziness, a kind of steadfastness, a kind of depravity, but there is no regret medicine. If I were given another chance, I would not be with him, because if I don't love, I don't love.

I can't deceive my heart The first time I wrote about myself after the breakup, the first time I admitted my naivety, and asked the landlord to think twice about not doing what I regretted.

If you love that person so much, why don't you contact him because you can't give that person what he wants?

Yes, what is money, there is no money to earn together, and the money earned together is spent steadily.

If those faults are not too bad, then you try to change him, people are not perfect, if they are hopeless, then don't count on it.

It's your psychological problem, sometimes there will be a nervous transition period in the human mind, when you don't see that person, it seems that there are a lot of things you want to say to him (her), but as soon as you see him (her), you don't want to say anything, this is a psychological problem, if you can solve this kind of problem, chasing girls will not be a problem.

Love is not about money, money is dead and alive, if a person is trapped by money, then his life is the poorest, only the person who gives up everything is the richest, if you love, don't give up, if you don't love, turn around, first of all, you must be worthy of your heart, whether it is right or wrong!

Didn't you say that you had to separate? If we can overcome it, we may have a miracle one day. If there are no miracles, then accept the reality.

If you love someone very much, it is best to live together, and the husband and wife love each other and grow old together. If he already has a family, he wants him to be happy, can't be together, if he doesn't become a husband and wife, be a bosom friend instead of a third party, sincerely communicate, help each other, get rid of love, a real bosom friend is more important than a lover, longer and happier.

If you like him very much, you will unconsciously be good to him, and at the same time, the standard in your heart is that he is as good to you as you are to him, or you think that he is very good to you when you are not in love with him, and he should be "grateful" to you better when you fall in love with him, but people's energy is limited, and the freshness is also limited.

Generally speaking, men don't pay much attention to these, thinking that this is not a thing, aren't we all together, why engage in those false tricks, and girls are generally the opposite, she will think that after being together, she should be closer than before, when you are not your girlfriend, you patiently accompany me to eat every day, accompany me to go shopping, and now that we are together, we are playing games in the dormitory every day, so why should I be with you?

Love is not just talking, the person who loves you will keep in touch with you, and the person who does not love you, even if you always contact him, will always be appreciated by him. The difference between love and non-love, as described by Mr. Venus, is obvious, love only speaks, and does not show its own practical actions. And the people who really love you are often always meticulous about each other's things and do it themselves, after all, that is their sweetheart.

<> many people think that in love, as long as they know how to give, know how to think about each other, as long as they are sincere, their hearts will be discovered by each other, and they will reap love. But there is a good lyric: "Not always in the commotion, preference always depends".

They say love can make you lose your mind. Some people fall in love and lose their wisdom. Sometimes, when they leave their partner, they lose their minds.

However, the more a woman loves a man, her personality and intelligence will be affected, and eventually she will gradually change back to her original self. When a woman likes a man to say such things, a woman will fall in love with a man and will become what a man likes, slowly forgetting what she used to be over time.

If I love someone very much, and he loves me very much, and we can't be together, I will overcome all kinds of difficulties with him. Because it's painful to love each other and not be able to be together. If I can't be together after a lot of hard work in the end, then I can only keep this emotion in my heart and wish him happiness.

I'll probably stick with it, after all, it's hard to meet someone who likes each other. Try to see what keeps us from being together and try to find a way to solve the problem!

Let go. There may be family factors, economic factors, social factors, etc., and love actually contains these factors.

If we really love each other, it is impossible not to be together, we will overcome all difficulties and obstacles to be together.

I feel like I'm going to let go because it's better not to hurt the other person and it relieves my pain.

Returning to a friend's position and never contacting again is the best and least hurtful way to stop losses, after all, people can't control their feelings.

In fact, we have seen the answer in many film and television dramas, there are many male protagonists and heroines who can't choose between two people they love, and finally wander in pain, which proves that a person can fall in love with two people at the same time.

There will be a regret in everyone's love

Each of us has come from that young age, or is experiencing a young age, who does not have a person in their memory who can't ask for it?

There is also a person like this in my memory, in the end we were not able to be together, after many years, her beautiful appearance is still the same, quietly in my memory, like a beautiful flower in the fog, I stretched out my hand but could not touch.

I didn't express my feelings to him, which is a regret in my life, and I always think that if I had been braver, maybe it would have been a different place today.

However, time cannot be turned back, the years are flying, time flies, I also formed my own family, I love my wife very much, I love my family even more, and the feelings for the person I once had in my heart are absolutely true.

How much love can come back and how many people are worth waiting for

After all, some people can only exist in the memory of this person's existence, I never told my wife, and I will not talk about it in the future, it may always be in my memory, until one day I have Alzheimer's disease, and then disappear with my memory.

Later, I really met her once, and after that time, I was really relieved, I didn't expect that the years had changed people so much, she was no longer the girl I once liked, but a middle-aged woman with a bloated body.