Is that what a guy does to a good friend?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He said he liked you!! If you like him too, it's done.

    Wishing you happiness ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My words will only be like this for two kinds of women.

    One is what I want to pursue.

    One is that I want to remain ambiguous (that is, red-faced).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    like, the words of a friend will not give her so much power, connivance and pampering.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Even a person must have called in his heart, and he tried to find a way to test it.

    For example, joking and saying that you like each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The main thing is that it's good, how good is it?!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This boy must have liked this girl, but maybe he is not confident or has no courage, so he doesn't dare to confess, so he can only get along in the name of a good friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What are you talking about?。。。 It's just playing ambiguous.。。。

    Don't think too much, have fun, be older, play and be prone to accidents...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What the landlord said doesn't seem to fit This seems to be what couples should do, good friends are not, it's okay once or twice, and it should be that the man likes the woman

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will! I'm a man! I have such friends too! I feel like a confidant to him! Good brothers and sisters feel like that.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Between friends and lovers, it's up to you how you want to develop.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    is either a bosom friend or a confidant.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Like her. Otherwise, it wouldn't be like that.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's a bit of a good feeling. I don't dare to say I like it, and it's hard to make up my mind.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's definitely what happens between couples.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A boy will say to a friend of the opposite sex who has an object, which means that the boy likes the friend of the opposite sex, but it is inconvenient to show his thoughts because the other party has a partner.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The reason why a guy is kind to a friend of the opposite sex who has a partner may be because he has a crush on this friend of the opposite sex, or that he likes this friend of the opposite sex. That's why he's so good to him. Sometimes love is not necessarily for the sake of getting, but for the sake of making him happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Everyone hopes to meet the right person in love, and hopes that the person I love will also love me, but not everyone can do it.

    Lucky people will directly meet the destined person, and there are many people who will experience the situation of not being able to love, maybe you have chased him for a long time, you have paid a lot for him, but you just can't get his heart.

    At this time, it is naturally helpless and powerless, but the person you love doesn't love you, what a sad thing!

    But then again, it's really not to blame him, it's to blame yourself, if a person doesn't love you, you can feel it, it's just that you don't want to admit it, you still want to try what will happen if you continue, will it move him, or it will be different after a long time.

    And in fact, the person who loves you, his words and deeds will reveal his love for you, and the person who does not love you, no matter what you do, he will be indifferent, stop deceiving yourself!

    He says he loves you, but he never cares about how you feel.

    What to like; knew that she didn't like to watch art exhibitions, but he dragged her to accompany her parents to watch the exhibition to show respect; I knew she was sick, but I didn't know to rush over to accompany her.

    In fact, from these performances, it can be seen that no matter how much you give, he will not respond.

    What is the most feared thing in a relationship? It must be that one party pays, and the other party does not respond at all, just like when you talk to the other party, but he never replies, then your mood must be very disappointed!

    Sometimes, don't always be moved by yourself, don't think that as long as I pay, I will get something in return, love is the most unreasonable thing to talk about, it is likely that you give everything, and you can't get a thank you from him, at this time you should understand what he means: he doesn't love you!

    Self-touching in love is a very silly act, and usually it will only move you and not the other person.

    He is with you, not necessarily because he loves you, it may be that you love him, he is with you, love or not, you can feel it, the person you don't love, no matter how much you give, he doesn't have any response.

    If you understand this, stop giving stupidly, love without a response is destined to have no results.

    Love is not about one accommodating the other, but about evenly matching, and both parties can give willingly for each other. ”

    If you know that the person you love doesn't love you, then quit calmly, don't struggle in the love that doesn't belong to you.

    Barely can not be happy, if a person does not love you, you can not force it, instead of entanglement, it is better to live your own life, you have to understand that a person can also live a happy life.

    Love is not everything in life, if you love the wrong person, then let go and wait for the right person to appear, he doesn't love you, you can feel it, don't deceive yourself, don't continue.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A boy is good to a friend of the opposite sex who has an object, which means that he has thoughts about this friend in his heart, and he should avoid suspicion when he has an object, this boy obviously can't do this, he should have a crush on each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There's no need to keep your distance, treat him as a same-sex friend, just treat him the same way you treat same-sex friends, don't think too much, people haven't made anything clear, just like this.

    However, there is one thing to note, if you also like him, you can like him silently, don't destroy other people's feelings, so immoral; Secondly, if this man has been in a state of love, but often has ambiguous behaviors with you, then this kind of friend can be broken. Even if you like him, with this kind of character, you don't think you will play ambiguously with others after being with you.

    Although friendship between people of the opposite sex is much more subtle and complicated than between people of the same sex, since he does not have a clear expression, it is better for you to stand still and respond to all changes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The main thing is that this guy likes each other.

    So knowing that the other party has a partner, I can't help but be nice to her.

    I want to fight to see if it's possible for me to be with her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    may be unwilling, or it may be that the relationship itself is good, so because of the different starting points, naturally I don't care.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reason why a boy is good to a friend of the opposite sex who has a partner is because he is a friend of the opposite sex who is very good to him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends. What kind of friend is it? If you've been playing better with friends.

    That might always be good, or a childhood sweetheart. If it's average, it certainly won't always be good to him. After all, people have boyfriends.

    Be good to him, there will definitely be something that doesn't fit.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Not acceptable. Friendships between people of the opposite sex are difficult to explain, and sometimes one partner has to endure the pressure to dress as a friend, because the other party does not love him or her, so he or she has to pretend to be just a friend. It's hard to say that you don't have an idea in your mind, and you don't have an opportunity to do a substitute one day.

    Such a confidant or a good friend of the opposite sex, even if he likes the other party, will not say it, but if he says it, his friends will have nothing to do, and he is afraid that the other party will no longer pay attention to him.

    There is also a situation where there are confidants and good friends of the opposite sex, that is, lovers are not very satisfied with each other, so they will look for or meet blue faces outside, so as to make up for the lack of spiritual communication or life care. If the quarrel with the family is unpleasant, the role of this good friend of the opposite sex outside may be to call out the person who comes out to accompany Lu to have a drink and chat.

    Even if one party doesn't have an idea in their mind, and the other party may have an idea quietly, it's easy for things to go wrong at such times. Because one party has been waiting for an opportunity, and the other party is in a troubled or fragile time, and there is a time when he is dissatisfied with the person in the family, he chats with his confidant about the emotional part, and thinks that this person is better and more sensible, and it is inevitable that he will be really moved.

    Therefore, in the quarrels of many lovers, there is this one: If you are out drinking tea, eating, chatting and playing with the opposite sex, and although you do not actually cross the line, you seem to be better than us together, then what am I? You say you're just good friends, but why am I still so uncomfortable?

    Well, if you can't understand this kind of discomfort, then from another angle, I also have a lot of good friends of the opposite sex outside, and I am happy to meet them for a long time, eat and drink tea and play together, will you feel bad? Will you accept it?

    If we don't care, if we give each other so much space, will we let people who pretend to be good friends but actually like to have a crush on us wait for an opportunity to invade?

    So even if you don't have an idea yourself, do you know what the other person thinks? Those friends of the opposite sex who are in touch with each other at any time and get along harmoniously at any time under the banner of friendship are often a crisis in each other's feelings. Because of their existence, when we quarrel, gamble, and fight, when we are weak and tired, they will come out to accompany us, and at that time, we are weak, can we withstand their hints and warm treatment?

    Does it stand up to comparison?

    So, when I find out that you have a lot of good friends and confidants of the opposite sex, I get upset, and I am afraid that when I have a rivalry with you, those who like you but pretend to be your friends and confidants take advantage of it.

    So, if you have to find a confidant, please don't choose the opposite sex, and make sure that the other person is secretly liking you. Otherwise, my trust will be discounted and I will become weak.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, many boys and girls are just ordinary good friends at the beginning, but as the two people inadvertently spark love in the process of getting along, so that the two people gradually develop from ordinary friends to lovers, then for falling in love with their good friends, I personally think that this is actually acceptable for each of us.

    Because for two people in love, an important factor in wanting to make the relationship between two people really long-lasting, so that two people can really feel happiness and joy in the process of love, is that two people can achieve mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual respect, and mutual tolerance, and two people themselves are only friends, naturally have the above characteristics, so when two people from the stage of being good friends, gradually let the friendship of two people sublimate into a kind of love, Then it will not make the two people feel awkward, but it is a natural thing.

    Of course, if for those who are particularly principled, if their hearts really can't accept their good friends as their lovers, and their hearts are particularly resistant to this, then two people should keep a certain distance in the process of getting along as much as possible, and don't let the friendship between each other cross the line, after all, real love is also based on the premise of mutual inner pleasure and respect for each other's inner feelings. For two people, if they touch the minefield of becoming lovers, it will make it more embarrassing for two people to get along with each other, and they can't even be good friends.

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