What should I do if my mother dislikes my boyfriend for being short, ugly and dark? 20

I don't think my mother is wrong in this matter, and neither are you. It's just that there are some problems that you don't realize. I'll help you sort it out.

First of all. First, your mother must be selfless and dedicated to you, she has her considerations and the thoughts and actual life experiences of those who have come before, or she and the friends around her.

Second, you don't want to have a detour in your life, because sometimes it's a wrong step, and you will take a wrong step. Maybe you can't think about it at your age. What you realize is that at present, the love between the two of you does not need to think about the problem of bread, and your mother has taken it into account, and thirdly, your mother must want to give you a good life and a comfortable future, because she can't be with you for a lifetime, the cycle of coming and going is the road that life can't escape, and she definitely wants you to be better, better, better.

Fourth, you, to see if you are a filial child from the heart, whether you are screwing with your mother or going with the flow, this needs to depend on your cognition of dear. Even if you end up dying and having to be with him, your mother won't hate you because she loves you.

Fifth, you said that he gave it all to you, that's right, it's all like this when you're in love, all of them can be, because it's not much of all, forgive me for being so straightforward. Whether you want to live a good love in the present, or a smooth and warm future, it depends on your choice.

Sixth, in reality, there are still many examples of what happened to you, you might as well check them out and see what their results are, so that you can refer to their daily life after marriage. Give yourself a clear decision.

Six tips for you, I hope you can treat this one thing calmly, don't get into trouble with your family, and don't need to hurt your parents' hearts. I hope that your family and everything will be prosperous, and Mu Ran will not get lost.

If you are really in love with your boyfriend.

Then you tell your mother that although he is not handsome, he is very good to you, dotes on you very much, loves you, and is very honest. But to put it mildly, a boy of 1.7 meters is not too short, right, your mother asks for 1.8 meters?

If you have money, a car and a house, you will definitely get extra points for your mother.

You need to show your mother that you can't forget him, that he is willing to wait for you, and that you are willing to wait for him. In the future, you will get married and let your boyfriend also express your position to your mother, after all, love is not a person's business.

If you don't love him enough, just go along and say that your mother doesn't approve of you being together. After all, ten years is not short, and it is inevitable that something will happen after that. People will also become, and sometimes parents look at people very accurately, and most of the love that parents don't agree with is bumpy.

Let your boyfriend take practical actions to convince your mother that if he is very capable of you and will take care of you, your mother will slowly agree.

Appearance is the secondary side of a man, a man should have the ability to take responsibility, have a tolerant heart, have career ambitions, and have development stamina, this is the ability that a man should have, as long as your boyfriend is good enough, and his appearance does not bring any value to life, he should communicate with his mother, and if he does not have excellent qualities, he should give his mother's opinion.

As long as you are compatible and love each other and have the same three views, you can convince your mother that people should not only look at appearances.

Maybe thinking that you may still be separated, afraid that you will be hurt, after all, so much time has passed, who knows what has become of others now, this is not the time. I'm afraid that after you are together, you will dilute the good memories of the past, and finally become quarrelsome and unpleasant and leave the scene. I think if you really like it, you have to find a time to talk to your mom and let your partner actively show your sincerity in front of your family.

If you both have true love, then boldly love to get married, I believe you will have a way to make your mother accept your boyfriend, true love is selfless, with the increase in contact, your mother will also accept your boyfriend, go and work hard for a happy life.

The choice of object should not only be based on appearance, and he is not short at 1.75 meters. It is enough for a man to be responsible, self-motivated, and have a heart that loves you. I believe that everyone is full of love in their hearts, and no matter how many years apart, they will wait for each other.

You describe your boyfriend like this, I don't think he looks good, no wonder your mother dislikes it, I think if he is very talented, good-minded, and very good, and you are also very good, you two have feelings, I think you can still continue to get along, this emotional matter depends on you.

Mother will guide you to find a love partner based on her life experience and experience, and I think you should listen to her.

After seeing your problem, I feel that you have encountered the only one, no matter what the result is, he is your only one, and he is irreplaceable.

I think your mother thinks your boyfriend is ugly and dark, but you still like him, then he must have something you admire, or something outstanding. Your mother may have misunderstood.

Emotional matters can be put aside. One is to listen to your mother, and the other is to test your boyfriend.

If this is the case, your feelings are not very provincial. Big Ball listens to his mother. Let's find another one.

How can you tell if he doesn't want to get you for a while and says these words, because he knows in his heart that you are different from others to him, if he makes your mother unhappy, either his character is not good or he doesn't really love you, parents are the most real in love, and it will not be you who suffers from listening to your parents, and you can't rule out the suspicion of a scumbag.

Your boyfriend 175 is not short, do you have to find more than one?

If you and your boyfriend love each other, don't listen to your mother, you just insist that your mother will compromise.

When you meet someone who is both in love with each other, you must cherish it.

As long as you don't dislike it, 175 is not short, as long as you like it, it's important to be happy for a lifetime. aqui te amo。

Looking for a boyfriend, in addition to many conditions, the most important thing is to see if he is kind-hearted.

Of course, it is best to obtain the consent of your father and mother, but after all, it is a lifelong event, and your parents can't live with you for a lifetime, so it is most important to make up your mind in the end.

It is necessary to look at the internal talent, and it is not important to talk more about the appearance, but to look at the person's moral ability.

Now that I have broken up, 175 is okay, it should be that the family conditions are not good.

His family is rich, and he and I are in true love.

Would you mind then?

If you both love each other deeply, why can't you be together and do the ideological work of being a mother.

Exude your own charm.

Ask your mother if your father isn't ugly.

Summary. Hello dear, your boyfriend's condition is poor, this is his own business, if your parents dislike him, then you have to communicate with him, if your parents don't like him, then you have to make it clear to him, after all, marriage is not child's play. Your boyfriend's conditions are not good, and your parents dislike him, so you have to tell your parents and let your parents stop embarrassing your boyfriend, after all, your parents should respect your opinions, if your parents don't respect your boyfriend, you can take your boyfriend home and talk to your parents.

What to do if your parents dislike your boyfriend and have poor conditions.

Hello dear, your boyfriend's condition is poor, this is his own business, if your parents dislike him, then you have to communicate with him, if your parents don't like him, then you have to make it clear to him, after all, marriage is not child's play. Your boyfriend's conditions are not good, and your parents dislike him, so you have to tell your parents and let your parents stop embarrassing your boyfriend, after all, your parents should respect your opinions, if your parents don't respect your boyfriend, you can take your boyfriend home and talk to your parents.

It's a situation where both of us are sophomores. We were together in high school. Let's talk about the family conditions of the two of us, his family has a self-built house in the countryside.

It was newly renovated last year. Both parents work part-time, and an older sister works as an accountant in a second-tier city. He himself went to university in Yunnan and often received scholarships.

My family's situation is that my grandmother used to be in the countryside and got a house because of the construction of the building. My mother bought a house of more than 30 square meters in the city. Neither is our family.

Particularly wealthy is a lower-middle-class family. But because I have a good appearance and figure, my father hopes that I can find someone who is a little richer than his own family.

When my boyfriend and my dad first met, my boyfriend bought it for my dad. Some Yunnan specialties, my dad didn't know about my boyfriend's house at the time. So he was still complimenting my boyfriend in front of me at the time.

When I told my dad that my boyfriend was rural, there was a bit of a shift in his attitude. I would even get angry at him for saying hello to my boyfriend first and my boyfriend saying hello to him later.

You put sure angry.

He's sure he should have greeted you first.

But he just didn't hear it at the time, and then he replied to my dad, and he didn't look at it without anyone else, and he used to buy things for my dad, and he knew how to say hello.

Don't think about it.

All you have to do now is get your boyfriend to behave well.

Everything else is in vain.

Multi-performance. Cigarettes and alcohol will be sent to you.

You have to know how to do it.