Is it really bad for girls to take the initiative? Isn t it cheap?

In fact, there is no right or wrong in the world of love.

There's nothing to be ashamed of.

As long as you truly love each other, don't let go.

If you really love him (her).But you choose to give up because you are not sure of his or her feelings for you.

It's stupid, you know? If you really love him (her) and you give up, you will regret it.

I will look for you when you just said that he or she is happy. When you're happy, you don't know you're the one.

This proves that you are not clear about this feeling.

You can ask him or her directlyWhat exactly do you mean to me? Do you like me or not? If he doesn't like you, it's futile how you love him/her.

If you feel that this method is too straightforward, you can also choose. Fake the state of death to deceive him (her)...See what he or she means to you. Is it scared, or it doesn't matter.

Love is self-defeating. Loving and being loved is painful. If you love him or her, don't care about face.

I touched my conscience and said that it is important to be happy or face.

No, yes, it's great, why do you have to say that women are cheap now that men and women are equal, right?

In this case, you have a good chance, and no one takes the initiative to be cheap! He can talk to you when he is in a mood swing, which means that he sees you as a friend, a friend to talk to, which can bring you closer to each other.

We love you guys, thank you

Be brave enough to tell him that you like him.

I think men and women are equal! Why is it good for boys to take the initiative, and girls to think so much about taking the initiative? You have to think about whether you are shameless or something!

These are what we think of as so-called "conventions". Love is fair to everyone, and it is all to be fought for by yourself! Why do girls wait for boys to fight for it?

Don't girls have autonomy on their own?

But I've asked a lot of guys, what would you do if a girl confessed to you? The answer is unexpected! "As much as I liked that woman, I wouldn't have accepted her if she had confessed to me first.

Because I think she's cheap! But there are also some boys who say that if they have a good feeling, they will also walk together.

Men chase women across the mountains, and women chase men across the veil. I have always believed that people should do what they like to do, and don't give themselves some so-called ideas to bind themselves. I've tried to confess to boys myself, so what? I'm still me!!

Hehe, your psychological pressure is too much.

However, it's not good to be too proactive.

It's better not to be too proactive.

Everyone is equal in front of love.

Everyone has the right to take the initiative to pursue love.

But love with dignity.

You can't insult yourself and your love.

Of course not, some boys just like girls to take the initiative.

It's because you have such a relationship, so it's different from ordinary friends! It's normal to ignore you when you're in a bad mood!!

If he respects you so much when he's in a bad mood, don't you think he's a little out of sight! Girls take the initiative to pursue their love is brave! It's not what you think! ~~

There's nothing wrong with pursuing your own happiness.

Okay, the girl takes the initiative to prove that she is a broad, cheerful, and generous person, which works very well for introverted boys, what age is it now, men and women are equal, there is nothing wrong with girls taking the initiative, if some boys are afraid of shame and can't find a girlfriend, wouldn't it be good to meet a girl who takes the initiative? As the saying goes: men chase women across mountains, women chase men across the veil!

I think as long as the person you love loves you too, there's nothing wrong with taking the initiative yourself. We should have worked hard for our own happiness. There is also the fact that he is too proactive, but he makes the other party hate and even dislike himself.

This shows that he doesn't love himself at all, so why should we take the initiative in that case, it's not worth it.

Not good, then you're going to make this boy think you're cheap.

Just like me now, it seems that I have always been in the feeling of being active, he has always been passive, so that he feels that he does not need to cherish me and will always stay by his side, even if he knows that the two of them quarreled, in the end I took the initiative to say that I was wrong, I have always been active, and I can't go long with this kind of feeling.

It depends on what kind of character the man is, if he is a wooden person, if you don't take the initiative, you will be angry to death. The cheerful type depends on his views on women, real men will also be very two, in general, as long as you are not really bad, men still like to take the initiative, you have to explain first, not just playing.

I think being too proactive will really be seen as cheap.

One: The person who takes the initiative does not really pay well on the knife edge that the other party needs. It's like a kind help, the other person you give may not want it, and it may not be needed.

Second: too active will make the other party feel that everything is too easy, we all know that the harder it is, the more precious it is, just like the rainbow that appears after experiencing the wind and rain will also make people feel better, of course, it is not excluded that the rainbow is colorful, I think it is more beautiful to have wind and rain. Anything that comes too easily will make people subconsciously bury the word "general".

People are especially precious for what they have worked so hard to earn.

Three: Will there be that (: I know you won't go, so I can run amok?)

In fact, some people don't really feel cheap, but the enjoyers know that this kind of initiative has a certain amount of insurance and will not disappear, so they are very casual and do not pay attention to it. For example, family affection, we are always more polite and polite in front of strangers.

It's easier to release all your emotions in front of your loved ones. In fact, I think I should be more restrained in front of my relatives, and I say that the love of parents is great and does not ask for anything in return, so is this kind of love cheap? I don't think so, and I can't think parents should do that.

Everyone has nothing to do, everyone must know how to be grateful, and no kind of giving can be said to be cheap.

01 Girls who are too active may make boys think that they are too casual and think of themselves as a casual woman, and they will not respect you so much in the future, so girls should not be too proactive.

02 However, girls should not be too shy, sometimes it is okay to take the initiative appropriately, if you want boys to take the initiative in everything, they will feel very tired after a long time.

03 Moreover, if the girl is too active, the boy will get used to this situation over time, and he will become more and more passive, and they will not be as patient with you as before, because they know that no matter what happens, you will take the initiative to come to him later.

04 Love is a matter of two people, both parties need to have a certain degree of initiative, girls can't be too active, but they can't be completely passive, they should be appropriately active, so that the love of two people can last longer.