Why is it that a man chases you and suddenly treats you well?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm afraid this kind of man has Stockholm syndrome, right? Can the girls still be together for their kind of behavior?

    In fact, men have a kind of upward and want to chase the goddess. Of course, men also like girls who are pretty, good-looking, good-tempered, and so on. When a man falls in love with a girl, the light that walks into life pierces his eyes and makes him unable to open his eyes, and the girl is a goddess-like existence!

    It is a goddess high above, an angel in the heavens and a mortal, and it is definitely not something that mortals like men can touch. Therefore, their thoughts on girls are thoughts on God, and if girls ignore the men they pursue, it will be even better, arousing that deep desire in the hearts of men—God should be like this! It's supposed to be untouchable!

    I have to work harder to be nice to her again!

    However, it is not the same thing when you catch it. That's how men feel in their hearts—and God is nothing more than that, without the untouchable purity and longing that was before. It's this kind of psychology that makes them snub the girls, and it's definitely not as good as chasing you before.

    It's all in your hands, and you still have that kind of true temperament hidden, why are you still there, you can't hide your tail!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, many people will feel this way when they are in love. That is, when you pursue a person, you feel that the other person is particularly difficult to get, then you will be very good to the other party at this time, because you feel that this person is not easy to come by.

    But if this person is already your object, or even if the two of you have come together in the end, you will find that you don't really love him that much, because you have already got the other person.

    And this matter is actually an ordinary human problem, which is also very normal. For example, if you like something, then before you buy it, you may always think about how much you like to use it after you buy it, and how you might introduce the benefits of this thing to others.

    But this thing is completely in a kind of freshness that you don't get or just got, and when you have used it for a long time, then all the benefits are gone.

    You will slowly find that you no longer have such a strong sense of freshness, play this thing or use this thing, it has many shortcomings, and slowly you will not be so obsessed with him.

    So whether it's in love or in other things, it's the same thing, when something doesn't arrive, you will feel that this thing is very good, but if this thing is really in hand, especially if you have been able to get it yourself, you will feel that this thing is not so good.

    Although this is a very normal mentality, I think it is a wrong thing, because when you have worked hard to get something, you should actually cherish it.

    If you don't cherish what you have worked so hard to get in the end, then if you really lose this thing again, you believe you will regret it.

    Because when we are faced with something, we should have a particularly long-term thing about a thing. For example, if we like something, then we should like it for a long time, and if we are tired of something, we should always insist on our opinion.

    So don't chase this boy after you feel that this boy is not so good, and he doesn't have that kind of freshness, so you want to separate, this is a very wrong idea.

    Now that you've chased him, I think you should try your best to live with him, so that you won't waste your efforts to pursue him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It only shows that in this situation, you don't really like this guy, and your willingness to be with him is just a strong possessiveness. So in this situation, I think you should really think about whether your own heart is willing to have further contact with the other person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This shows that you don't know much about this boy, and you must get along with this boy to be correct.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You think that if you really pursue a boy, you will know that he is not as good as that at all, and after a long time, you will feel that he is not the person you are looking for.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Female Sea King, continue to target next.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    100% of boys will give 200% when chasing girls, they will meet all the requirements of girls, and they will cover up their own shortcomings, in fact, this original intention is easy to understand, in order to be able to make girls accept themselves, but the shortcomings of this disguise,After a long time together, it will slowly show its feet, so the girl feels that after the boy chases herself, her attitude has completely changed, but in fact, the attitude has not changed, but it has returned to normal.

    So I think boys should grasp a good degree when they get along with girls' ex-wives. Don't pay blindly, otherwise even if you get this love, it will be very hard, because you set your starting point too high, this is not your true self, you can properly hide your shortcomings in love, but don't be too qualified, otherwise it will not be good.

    For the love thing, sometimes I think that since a person likes you, even all your shortcomings will be accepted, as the so-called love house and Wu is this truth, whether it is a boy or a girl, when getting along, it should be more real.

    If you give the girl the feeling that you have changed your mind, naturally his attitude towards you will also change, so the relationship between the two people will only slowly fade, maybe the reason for the breakup is not some principled mistakes, but because such small frictions always occur.

    In the girl's heart, she feels that you don't care about her anymore, so she breaks up with others. Girls always like to test her place in your heart in a variety of ways, and sometimes this coquettishness is also a manifestation of love, so boys should also have a tolerant heart and understand the starting point of girls, so as to maintain a long-term relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, I don't think it's 70% yet

    Most of them are like this.

    When I don't catch up, I will do everything I can to pursue you.

    When the pursuit arrives.

    It won't be half as good as it used to be.

    Some of the more outrageous are.

    It's been too long to ignore you at all.

    Most of the boys are watching and eating, looking into the bowl and looking into the pot.

    You're giving the guy a high score.

    Women aren't all 100 percent.

    There are only 80% of men, and 50% of men

    Therefore, it is more difficult to choose a man than a woman.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's very simple, because men have a purpose when they pursue you, and they don't really like you or love you, so when they catch up, they start to change.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The reason is that you will only want to be with him if he is good to you when he chases you. In other words, people may be good to you when they don't get it, and they will change when they get it.

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