Is it true that the love in college didn t work out?

Let me tell you clearly, there is! There are a lot, and those who can generally persist to the end are very happy, such as me, who fell in love in college and planned to get married next year, and the relationship depends on the two of them to maintain, don't look at his material foundation, because it is given by his parents, it depends on his ability, sense of responsibility, and self-motivation. If two people really love each other, they have to work together, don't worry about the reality of not being able to buy a house in the future, all material things have to rely on their own hands to get hard, believe in their own ability, if you are assimilated by reality, it actually means that you are doubting your own ability, doubting his ability, doubting your own vision.

Falling in love in college is to get rid of loneliness and let yourself have an emotional experience, because love is an essential part of a person's life.

But whether you can succeed depends on whether you can meet the right person and whether you can be together, and there are many influencing factors.

In fact, there are many examples of falling in love in college and then coming together.

I still want to say that in fact, there is a love in college that eventually bears fruit.

There are many successes, but the proportion of the total is very small, after all, the love on campus has to go through the cruel test of social reality, and that pure love may not be able to withstand the wind and rain.

Wrong! There are so many successful relationships in college! No matter what the university, the most scenery you can see is always a pair of lovers.

I believe, do you want to ask if there are many people who fall in love in college and finally enter the marriage hall?

Answer: Still a lot.

On the whole, marriage is still easy to start with acquaintances. Even if it is an introduced marriage, it is mostly introduced by acquaintances. Falling in love in college, helping each other after work, and finally finishing this life. This kind of romance is what many people yearn for and practice.

To sum up, three reasons:

1.Blindly. In college, love for love, few people think about getting married and having children after work, just to vent the youth hormones that have been suppressed for too long in high school!

Therefore, everything follows the feelings, the two parties understand too little, and the relationship is easy to crack, and finally ends in a breakup!

2.Aesthetic. I have to admit that the aesthetics of the eyes are very unobjective.

The first side is shocking, the last side is disdainful, and the aesthetics will be tired. The time in college is very short, the days in life are long, and the relationship that has been tired of four years or less is not out of school.

3.Reality. The reality is cruel, and the mountains and seas cannot withstand the blow of reality.

Lao Yan's flying is not a tragedy of love, but a weakness of human nature. When the ideal is impacted by reality and when survival is faced with too much pressure, the cheap love in college loses its original sweetness and finally disappears!

Only in college can you succeed in love.

Not absolutely, but most of them will not succeed.

No matter what stage of love, there will be success! College love is the most psychologically mature performance, because the emotional experience must be understood, and the emotional is already very rational, and it is easy to distinguish the truth and hypocrisy of human nature. Love is based on two people, and once fate comes, you can't stop it.

If you're not in a relationship yet, I suggest you try it, and everything is not a problem. I hope it will help you.

1.The person who is in love is different. When I fell in love in college, most of them were my classmates, and I could understand each other day and night, and there was little difference in age, and the topics we talked about were similar, so it was easy to have a good impression.

And after work, falling in love is often introduced by friends, and there is a lot of difference in ordinary ages, and it takes a lot of time to understand each other, and it takes a lot of time to really fall in love or get married. There is a lot of demand for running-in.

2.The concept of love in the two stages is different. When I was in college, I was more authentic when I fell in love, and I often insisted on a simple heart, not for the purpose of unreasonable needs and spending money on the other party, not to touch the garage and salary income, and not to touch the other party's parents.

And when I fall in love after work, I go to a lot of rules and regulations at the beginning, what kind of work, whether I can have a house and a car, whether my parents have a pension, and under these premises, I began to think about whether the other party can be suitable for me, and I once did not have the enthusiasm for love when I was a student.

3.The process of falling in love is different. When you fall in love in college, you can go to class together, eat together in the cafeteria, and play unscrupulously together, carefree.

But when you work and fall in love, due to the constraints of working hours and economic conditions, many things cannot be done as you wish, nor can you do them at will.

4.The result of a relationship. It is said that the graduation season is the breakup season, which is not unreasonable, or because of the long distance, or because of the parents, or because of the work, the love during the student period is always not optimistic, and the ideal situation is indeed the case, many college couples can not go to the end.

And the love after work, considering each other in all aspects, is also planning to fall in love for the purpose of marriage, so it is easier to achieve ordinary comparison.

Finally, I want to say that if a college love can last until the wedding is announced, then we must cherish each other. If not, don't be a pity, there are many impossibilities in life, and you will definitely be able to find the right other half for you in the end.

There are many tragedies on college campuses because of the failure of love, and such immature love psychology affects Zhou Shenzhi's classmates. For a little thing, quarrel and contradict. Please correct the attitude of both parties in love.

When two people are together, it's like building the Great Wall, it's not that simple. In addition to love, there are many important things in our lives that we need to discover.

2.Getting along with each other is the process of getting to know each other. Promote each other, encourage each other, love should be more of a spice for learning to swim, and love in college is more sincere and simple.

In this material age, college love is also relatively romantic. When the love after work is much less simple, more material and conditional. Correct the relationship between love and career, and academics are the main pillars of college students' sense of value.

If you spend too much time in love, it is a kind of irresponsibility, not only irresponsible to your parents, but also irresponsible to yourself.

3.Love is an intimate relationship between people, and this relationship quickly reveals the shortcomings of both parties. It is difficult to make changes for the other person in a relationship and learn to be tolerant.

It is said that love makes people more confident, and love can also make both parties know how to be tolerant and considerate. Meeting the right person at the right time can last a long time, and these two points are too difficult.

When we grow up, we can fall in love and pursue our own happiness. We can fall in love on campus or after work. ......Of these two states, it is obviously more realistic to fall in love after work.

The reason why I say this is because compared with campus love, falling in love after work has three reasons: stable income, more secure life, richer experience, more thoughtful considerations, and a more stable life and marriage.

1. After work, you have a stable income, and your life is more secure, so you can have a stable foundation for love.

One of the most important reasons why campus love is unrealistic is that the two people at that time were still in the study stage, neither had a job nor income, and love and marriage could not be guaranteed. ......After working, I have a stable income, which makes my life more secure, and at this time, falling in love is obviously more realistic than campus love, and the possibility of success is greater.

2. My experience will continue to grow with the entry work, and I will be more thoughtful in considering the problem.

The school environment is relatively simple, and as a student, I often have problems such as inconsiderate and idealistic thinking when thinking about problems. Such a state is not good for love. ......When I join the job, with the continuous growth of my experience, I will be more thoughtful when considering the problem, and it is obviously more realistic and pragmatic to fall in love in such a state.

3. After work, your life will be more stable, and you can get married if you are in love.

Students who do not settle down in their lives during their studies are naturally unrealistic because they cannot settle down in life when they fall in love. ......After work, I not only have a stable career, but also settle myself in life and have a stable living state. ......It is precisely because of the above reasons that post-work love will become a more realistic choice than campus love.

I think college students are usually fruitless when they fall in love, although it is very beautiful and sweet to fall in love with students and young people, and it is also very pure, but, one day, it will be defeated by society, society is not as beautiful as the campus imagines, innocent, and when you get to society, you will worry about life and want more things, not like in school, you will be happy for a long time if you buy a candy, and now there are many examples around me, love will basically be defeated by life, and you don't have what you want, I don't have the company I want, every day is busy for life, and I don't have a little time for myself, then you will be tired, annoyed, and the sweetness on campus at that time has been out of the sea of suffering, and the face is just the constant oppression of life, and the communication between the two people will become less and less, and there will be more and more quarrels because of the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, there will be more and more contradictions, and there will be more and more quarrels, and in the end, it will cause the result of dividing the year.

It depends on the individual, and everyone's situation is different.