Good friends often don t ask you out, and they won t tell you anything, what is this?

It's because she feels that she doesn't need your attention in the future, which means that your circle is getting farther and farther apart, there are fewer and fewer common topics, and there is too little interaction between you on a regular basis. I can understand that your friendship is not as good as you say, what you think of as a good friend is just what you think, whether she walks fast, or you walk slowly, or you stand still, in short, she has made friends you don't know, and lives a life that has nothing to do with you.

To make friends is to invest in each other, and investment needs to be rewarded. Good friends need to be operated and maintained, and it is necessary to invest time and emotion, and money when appropriate. Not to mention good friends, even husbands and wives have to give gifts to each other, such as Valentine's Day, birthdays, wedding anniversaries, etc., don't you also have to give gifts to your lover.

So good friends can't talk nonsense, and there are only one or two friends who can really help you, which is already a blessing, cherish it.

Everyone's upbringing will be different. If each other grows up and becomes unable to get along well or tolerate and understand each other as they did when they first met, or the circle of friends who meet each other is different. In fact, the pace of growth of two people is too far apart, if the other party is willing not to dislike your slow pace and is willing to take you, then there will be no estrangement.

Or perhaps, the fate of the two will come to a certain time, and a kind of natural separation. Don't be sad, everything is arranged by time, don't force it.

Good friends are used to solve problems, not to be said. Why do you say this, because the gradual estrangement means that there is no information communication between each other, that is, there is no relationship. Each other's information about each other is broken, that is, the relationship is broken, and the relationship is broken, which means that each other cannot solve each other's problems, and the meaning of continuing to interact with each other has stagnated.

So good friends are not gradually estranged, they are suddenly estranged. Why estranged yourself in your absence from each other.

When I used to work in a hotel, I knew a sister, from the first day I reported to that strange environment, in addition to the leader she was the first person I knew, she told me what to do at work first and then what to do, at noon led me to the canteen to help me eat, and brought me into the dormitory at night, enthusiastically helped me introduce every colleague, and then we went to work together to eat together, we can be said to be inseparable, she is the noble person I met, Without her, I don't know if I can stick to that environment, we have been together for two years, and we really don't distinguish between you and me, and our feelings are better than my sisters. Later, due to the transfer of work I left there, I taught her to use WeChat, she happily got off work every day and I talked to me about the new things that happen every day, it seems that there are endless words every day, as time goes by, everyone has new colleagues around them, and there are fewer and fewer topics between us, and now we only have to ask each other during the New Year's holidays, and then I really don't know what to say, looking at her avatar in WeChat quietly, my heart sometimes swells up with a sadness, I feel that she is getting farther and farther away from me, time has shortened the distance between us, and our relationship has become weaker and weaker, but I will still be grateful to her from the bottom of my heart, and silently wish her eternal happiness and will never forget it for the rest of her life.

In the past, everyone lived in the same background environment, similar living conditions, and lived not far away. Under certain conditions, there are many topics to talk about, from learning to gossip, from trivial matters to further education and development, etc., there will be an impression of seeking help from others or creating a good way to get along. Now the disparity in life will highlight the difference in values.

After coming out of university, there are opportunities such as graduate exams and corporate interviews to choose from, and each person's choice is different, resulting in differences in values. The imbalance of economic status leads to feelings such as jealousy, arrogance, low self-esteem, and pride, so that there are problems in close relationships.