What are some of the experiences you have been yelled at?

How can you not be scolded when you go out, you may be scolded everywhere in your life and work, and you will go crazy when you say a few words when you just graduate, and then you can slowly restrain yourself. When I was young, I was scolded because I was unconvinced, and sometimes I didn't have any fights because of this, but later I found that fighting couldn't solve the problem, so I slowly calmed down. Some people scold out of good intentions, not real abuse, and some people really want to scold people, and the trouble comes from the mouth, keep this in mind, and think more about whether you should say it or not when you speak.

I'm a stubborn but also self-disciplined person. When I was a child, because I was not very sensible, I always talked back to my mother, my mother often scolded me and beat me, I was very unconvinced, often fought on the basis of reason and more serious one was when my mother beat me, I actually bit my mother! When I was in school, if the teacher scolded me, I couldn't stand it, so I hit back at the teacher!

In fact, I am usually a very quiet girl, and I am also very honest, but it is difficult to accept the scolding of others, and I can't understand them when I see others being scolded. As I grew older, I understood a lot and learned how to flex and stretch.

I'm from the countryside, and when we were young, there wasn't one who hadn't been scolded by my parents. At that time, the rural people were miserable, and my parents were busy from morning to dark every day, and they didn't have time to care about us, and they wanted us to help with some housework, but the children had a big heart and forgot to do housework early in the morning, and their parents would definitely be scolded when they came back. Not to mention going to school, when we went to school, the disobedient teacher had to beat the palms, and scolding was commonplace.

If anyone is beaten and scolded by the teacher, they will have to be scolded by their parents when they come back. But no one has ever looked for a teacher, and they all say that they beat well and scold well.

Take a good leave of absence at the place of work and prepare to meet your boyfriend. Received a temporary notice that the city needs to be created. The leader stood behind me and said that he was not allowed to go anywhere unless he got married, accusing me of not having a collective spirit, cutting first and then playing, the sarcasm and sharpness in his words, in fact, I don't remember what he said specifically, I only knew that I was crying at the time, and I turned my back to him and silently wiped my tears.

I used to love the unit, and from that day on, I didn't like it anymore. In fact, this phenomenon is very common, but I feel sad that I cried at that time, it turns out that I am still very cowardly, and even repeatedly show my cowardice in front of others.

I used to be scolded a lot, but then I thought about it, a bowl of rice can't fill my stomach, and I can kill people in one breath. A person must learn to endure, because it is not cost-effective to be angry at all, and he can't bear a little thing, so what else can he do and do? When you encounter slander or misunderstanding, you will be a little more angry, pretend to be confused, and I will not be angry when others are angry, and a dispute will disappear invisibly.

I was very uncomfortable at the time. Looking back and thinking again, life is a drama, because we get together because of fate, I am not angry when others are angry, and no one is there to replace the sick when they are angry. From the point of view of chanting the Buddha, when a person is sitting in the sky and watching, he scolds you for lacking virtue and you have accumulated virtue.

Because the body does not want to think of the sad past. Be forgiving. Generous.

When I was in high school and took the bus, there were a lot of people, and I was carrying a bag, and the driver always braked sharply when driving, and the person standing behind me yelled at me, saying that I had to move in and out of the back, and he couldn't stand. I didn't say anything at the time, and then got off early. I was really angry, an uncle in his forties, who said that I had to take advantage of him.

I didn't pass the subject 2 exam, and I was scolded by my mother for being depressed for a few days, and I actually shed tears. Actually, it's nothing, mainly blame me, I always go out with friends in the name of practicing cars, and I was young at that time, and it was normal to cry under pressure and grievances.

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Not accepted. If someone gives you a gift, you don't accept it, and you end up with someone else. Are you scolding me, of course not, because I'm not the kind of person you say, who are you scolding, I don't know, it's not me anyway.

Not associated. People are sad because they associate verbal abuse with their self-esteem, and they feel that their self-esteem is damaged, and I want to maintain my self-esteem.

In fact, this has nothing to do with self-esteem. What is a text, it is just made up of a bunch of phonemes, strokes.

Pretend to be stupid and don't understand. If someone scolds you in a foreign language you don't understand, you wouldn't be angry, of course not, because I don't understand what he's talking about. Just because we speak the same language and can understand each other, then I just pretend I don't understand.

Sympathize with him. For example, if a mentally ill person scolds you a few words, we usually don't take it too seriously, because he doesn't come from his heart, he can't scold people voluntarily because he is driven by the disease.

Thanks to him, that's right! Ide complained.

Why doesn't he scold others, he scolds you for no reason, because you had a grudge against him in the past, and the karma you created in the past must be reported now.

Keep silent, be friendly, and don't get into conflict with others.

In the face of insults, calm down first, take a few deep breaths, pause for a few seconds, think about the above truths, and learn to endure. Let the mind control the emotion, let the socks run ahead, not let the emotion control the mind.

There is a saying that people are good at being bullied, if you tolerate someone who makes things difficult for you once, he will make things difficult for you next time, and it will get worse, so if someone deliberately makes things difficult for you, you must not avoid or tolerate it, we don't take the initiative to provoke others, why should we be bullied? Learn to fight back, so that the other party will not make things so difficult for you.

Be good at finding the other party's shortcomings, or the sore spots, when the other party makes it difficult for you, you don't have to scold, that will make people who don't know the truth think that you have a bad temper, smile and use the simplest words Huai Sun Chen to hit the other party's sore spots, and make the other party speechless in one sentence.

Some people say that it is better to settle the grievance, for some uncomfortable people who do not make things difficult for others, they will not give up because of your softness or kindness, so don't feel embarrassed to fight back, next time the other party makes things difficult for you, ask the other party in public what is the purpose of the other party, and all the things that the other party makes things difficult for you, and directly and bravely tell the other party to stop and don't continue.

If the other party will still find a way to make things difficult for you, then you pay attention to observe what is the reason why the other party is making things difficult for you like this, jealous of you, or what grudge he has with you, find the reason, in order to find out the real way to solve it, and then have nothing to do with the other party.

In the face of people who scold, you can only stay away, such people are generally unreasonable. When you reason with unreasonable people, you are playing the vibrato and vibraol, so staying away from the hall orange is the best way to pretend to be a gang.

To be able to scold is basically to the extreme, but this does not solve the actual problem. But if it's the kind of unreasonable person, you can't make sense with them, Shen Danhan will either ignore him directly, or beat him directly. Know that impulsiveness is the devil and it would be better to solve the problem in a different way.

If it's the other party's fault, don't ignore Chi Xinhui, how far you go! When arguing, whoever is more eloquent, who is more eloquent, who has stronger logical thinking ability, and who is more able to use debate skills and proof skills, who is the winner!

In the face of people who scold, I think this kind of person has the impression that there is no way out, and there is only one way to go left, because he has lost his mind, Wu Zai will not scold if he is rational or if he is a person in Tangerine, she will find a way to get out of this predicament, so. For him, he is already a shirt or has no way out, so he will use this kind of scolding. So I think this kind of person is already exhausted.

In the face of scolding, the first thing is to think that this person has been angry to the extreme, stop filial piety, don't provoke him (her), stay away from this place as soon as possible, otherwise you will be piggybacked on being scolded and insulted. If possible, you can hide in a farther place, wait for the other party's anger to subside, and then come back to ask the root cause, comfort the other party, and find a solution.

In the face of people who are scolding, all I can do is keep my distance. I don't want to be influenced by him.

It's so unqualified. In the face of the people who are scolding and scolding, if you don't have the ability to fight-for-tat, then guess the silver file and stay away.

For this kind of person, you can only think, this person is so unqualified, what else can he do?

There are only two possibilities, one is to deceive people too much, so that the other party has to scold, and the other is that the person who scolds is quite unqualified, and when he encounters things, he does not know how to deal with them calmly, but uses this form of scolding the street to solve it.

In the face of people who scold, to be honest, if you don't scold yourself, you will think that the person who scolds is not qualified, but there will also be some schadenfreude.

To be able to scold and scold must be to lease the lead is angry and the disadvantages are extremely good.

But that doesn't solve the real problem.

Know that impulsiveness is the devil.

It would be better to solve the problem in a different way.

Scolding is a very impolite wisdom, it is something that people with very low quality do, and when you meet this kind of person with low quality, you don't need to talk to him about quality. You must also be less qualified than him, and he will obey you if he scolds him more ruthlessly.

In the face of scolding, people generally feel that there is something wrong with this person's self-cultivation, and normal people should not show their emotions to others at will.

That kind of person has no quality, stalking type, and if Bixin Kai wants to reason with that kind of person, just avoid it. Tanzhong because you can't reason with him. Quality people say what they have, instead of repenting and scolding.

It should be that the fiber chain has no quality and no education, people should do things peacefully, if this gives people the feeling that it is difficult to get along with Wu Bu, not embarrassed to talk together, after all, the other party's mood is very bad, so it is a state of mind.

Who is scolding, if you are the one who was scolded by Xinmin, stop him first, and if you keep warning, report to the police. Although it has burdened the police, some people are just too tolerant and stuffy to him.

There are many people in reality who are called garbage people, and when they meet, try to stay away from them and should not be entangled with them.

What do you think in the face of people who are scolding? Such a person should be a person who is more dangerous than raising an uproar, or he is also angry, so his personality will change greatly.

First of all, this person not only scolded but also scolded, saying that this person had no quality, or that this person was too angry at the time, so he scolded.

The person who scolds is uneducated, a kind of shrew's behavior, which is annoying. It will leave a very bad impression.

Such a person is not of bad quality, but you also have to figure out the situation, why does he scold people and bend is your reason for Yunshanna or his? Whose fault is it? If you can't stand it anymore, call the police.

People who directly scold will also be divided into several types of people, some are quality problems, and some are forced to be anxious, so they will be like this.

If this were such a person, I would think that she was a shrew-like person in my heart.

If it's your own mistake, admit it, if it's the other party's fault, don't pay attention to it, how far you go!

In the face of such a person, you can only stay away, you can't be provoked, and you can afford to hide.

There are few people with low quality and education, who don't know things and have no culture.

I'm very angry, and I might fight back, otherwise I'll think there's a dog barking.

Summary. 1. People with a strong desire for personal control do not tolerate disagreement between others and themselves, and it is difficult to accept other people's ideas; 2. Poor cultivation and lack of respect for others; 3. The personality is more impatient and can not be calm in trouble; 4. People with extreme inferiority complex in their hearts want to obtain self-satisfaction in this way; 5. Bad habits, since childhood, I have developed such a bad habit of scolding people when I open my mouth.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

1. People with a strong desire for personal control do not tolerate disagreement between others and themselves, and it is difficult to accept other people's ideas; 2. Poor cultivation and lack of respect for others; 3. The personality is more impatient and can not be calm in trouble; 4. People who are extremely self-inferior, want to figure out Feng Zhengchang's way to obtain self-satisfaction; 5. Bad habits, since childhood, I have developed such a bad habit of scolding people when I open my mouth.