If you care about someone, can you really get hurt? Please, thank you

Maybe, I think, if it cares about both sides, then it won't, if it's unilateral, then it's easy to do.

Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, when he (she) is happy, when he (her) is sad, give him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, an unfading token...All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (she) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time that belongs to him/herself, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, and hope you are happy.

Yes, once you care about someone, then you yourself will feel that there is no room for sand in your eyes invisibly, sometimes you will complain, but the power of love is always strong, even if he cares about you, but sometimes he will inadvertently do something that makes you angry, even if you are hurt, endure it, you will get true love.

If that person cares about you too, it won't hurt. Or, if you don't care about her to a very high degree, then you don't get hurt if you quit being attached to her and don't fall into it. There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you shouldn't take feelings too seriously.

Then you have to see if the other person cares about you as well, he or she cares about you, why are you hurt?

If you're satisfied! I care about you!

01 I care too much about this person, so I am concerned. We have experienced something together, at that time, in that place, and the good memories we created together, I am afraid that they will suddenly become distant. Because I care about this friend, I care about everything about him, I don't know if I have eaten well, I don't know if I have new partners when shopping, and I don't know if you have adapted to working hard in an unfamiliar environment.

This concern always tugs at my heart, and I hope you are doing well. I'm afraid that in a new environment, a new partner will make you forget me. The more I care, the more I want to know, I think too much, and it's just me who worries, and my worries make me tear back and forth in my memories, and I can't extricate myself.

02 I care too much about this person, so I give. Although, no pain, no gain. But you also have to understand that giving is not necessarily rewarded, and your giving may not be needed in the eyes of the ta, and you are worried about why you don't understand it.

Because you care about this person, you are willing to give, and this dedication will make you feel sweet. For those who receive the giving, it may be a burden. Therefore, if you don't want to hurt completely, then give appropriately, and then give after having enough communication.

03 Care about this person, so share. There are many kinds of sharing, and there are only two emotions to share, happy or sad. Once your best friend becomes the person you confide in, you give him the opportunity to hurt you.

Sharing is a good thing, but sharing what you share is not necessarily the same. With sharing, you have a secret, and you never know when the secret will be unrecognizable and then come back to your ears. Because you care, you share, and share gives them the power to hurt you.

04 cares about this person, so he is stingy. Stingy with what belongs to you and me, and suddenly there is another person's involvement; The stinginess was a secret between us, and a third person joined in, but he didn't ask me for advice; The stinginess was originally the friendship that we maintained, but it quietly faded and slowly dissolved into the tunnel of time. The stinginess was originally a strong friendship between the two, and there was a crack in the chains involved.

And all this process of self-injury is that I care too much about this person, and I care about it, so I am stingy.

05 I care about this person, so I hurt myself. My wounds can only heal on their own, and I care too much about this person to let you know about my wounds. I'm hurt alone, and I'm afraid that I will cry after you know it, so I have to find a place to heal alone without you.

I care about you, so I want to protect you well, and hurt myself for you, and at the same time I hope you will forgive me for my selfishness. Some pain, one person is better than two, and one person can be strong enough to protect you. The power to hurt is given to you, and the pain of self-harm must be endured.

The power to self-harm is given by oneself.

Who has not been wounded? Those unintentional words of others can always make people linger. Everyone left messages in the comment area, and everyone told their own faint stories and pains, which resonated with many netizens.

Have you ever been hurt by a word for a long time? In fact, there are many aspects to this question.

First of all, you've been hurt. Everyone must have the experience of not being understood and being hurt.

Secondly, a word will hurt you. You are very sensitive and care about other people's opinions, so a very simple sentence will make you linger.

Finally, the damage done is continuous. This hides a sense of powerlessness and unforgiveness for that person. It was the man who made you miserable for so long, and he made you stop being brave and become timid. It was he who made you no longer believe in the existence of love and dare not simply give.

But is what you see real? Some people experience the same "misfortune" but can quickly come out and become braver and stronger. With the same injury, why do some people become braver and some people more vulnerable?

It wasn't the person who said that sentence that hurt you, but the unbraveness that was powerless to protect yourself at that time.

It may be that I didn't come to the scene in person, and I still don't know much about the injury.

Some young people who have returned to the group may have high pressure in life and work, and some aspects of collapse and hunger have been neglected and regressed.

Suggestion: Deal with it, change it.

Yes, because you care, the other party's damage to you will be doubled, so the easier it is to get hurt.

I think that's actually the case, because you care about them, so you care about their opinions, so the probability of their actions hurting you is still relatively high, and the people you don't care about won't hurt you.

Only the people you care about can hurt you, because it is you who care about and like the most, so you can go to your heart, you can love, and you can hurt yourself.

I think it's that those people you don't care about, you don't care what he says, and you don't particularly care about those who slander you, but for the people you care about, if the other party says that you are not good at all, you will feel very sad, so only the people you care about can really hurt you.

That's true, because the person you don't care about, no matter what you say or do, you won't hear the heart, only the words and actions of the people you care about can really hurt you.