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From your question, it can be seen that your grandmother is a very cultivated, life-savvy, and taste-savvy former boudoir beauty, otherwise she would not have taught you to draw eyebrows, match clothes, etc. Although grandma is not good at guiding, the old man wants to use her lifelong experience to help you quickly improve your self-cultivation and taste. It's just that the gap between generations and methods is insurmountable.
Grandma's starting point is completely good for you, which is understandable, and what she said is not completely wrong, and you just need to listen carefully, analyze it in your heart, and say yes, not "imposed". That grandma doesn't want her granddaughter to be as beautiful as a flower?! Is that right?
Thank you.
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I think these are all from your grandmother's experience. After all, she's her age, and she's walked more than you eat salt. I'll tell you if I'm sure I'm better at it.
Of course, you will have your own aesthetic standards, but that doesn't prevent you from learning from each other's strengths. If you think it's good, use it, and don't ask if it's bad.
It feels like the old man must be for your good. Don't get too tangled. It doesn't hurt to listen more.
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It's just one of the other person's ideas, so sometimes the other person may think that this is the right thing, but they don't impose the idea on you, because they think it's right, so they can't generalize like that.
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Your grandmother has been talking about you since you were a child, how to draw your eyebrows, how to dress clothes, how to draw makeup, etc., this is not to impose your own ideas on others, this is a kind of inheritance of aesthetic methods.
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The older generation wants you to be good, but their aesthetics are definitely different from those of you young people, so don't worry too much, you can learn from good experiences and have your own ideas.
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I don't think it's always like that, he should want you to be better and more perfect, so he will educate you like this.
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Maybe the adults were too tight when you were young, you just have this kind of thought.
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That's chatter. This is true for older people. It's okay if you don't listen.
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Just listen to it, you are living for yourself, not for others.
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Of course, you shouldn't listen to your grandmother.
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It's good to teach you, I didn't have anyone to teach you when I was a child, and I grew up rough.
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Does this count as imposing one's own ideas on others? This is a bit difficult, why impose your own ideas on others, this others generally do not accept.
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Summary. I like to impose my ideas on others because everyone wants to prove that they are right.
Why do you like to impose your own ideas on others.
I like to impose my ideas on others because everyone wants to prove that they are right.
What does this sentence mean?
Always imposing one's own ideas on others.
Likes to impose one's own ideas on others may mean that they want them to act according to their own wishes. It is also possible that we think that we think that others think the same way we do.
My dear, if someone else blindly imposes his ideas on us, we will feel pain and sadness in our hearts. If we don't act according to his ideas, the other party may accuse and complain that we are not in line with his ideas.
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This morning, because there are too many things to be busy at home, there are limited personnel to solve them at the same time.
What left me speechless was that they hadn't figured out the priorities and priorities of the matter.
Listening to their word by word discussion, I couldn't help but express my thoughts. As a result, he was not only opposed, but also angry. I was depressed for a day.
I can't help but engage in self-reflection. The final conclusion is: don't try to impose your ideas on others, and don't dictate other people's choices.
In this case, I made the mistake of the former, whether it is the elders in the family or others, in the face of mature adults, they have their own judgment and solutions, we should not express our thoughts too directly. This is not only indirectly denying others, but also invisibly imposing one's own ideas on others.
The same is true for the latter. When others don't explicitly want our advice, then the meaning of what we express will be clouded.
Our original purpose may be purely to help others, but when others misunderstand you or disagree with you, this series of problems will lead to conflicts between the two.
It's really hard to be a man, I have sighed more than once, I can neither do everything, nor can I be exquisite, the only thing I can do is to restrain myself and live a good life. As the saying goes: Everyone sweeps the snow in front of his door, and he doesn't care about the frost on the tiles of his house.
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No two leaves are the same in the world, and neither are people.
Each person is an independent person and has his or her own thoughts and perceptions of the world. Even children have their own ideas, let alone adults.
We can express our ideas, but don't impose our ideas on others, because that would be counterproductive.
I think so.
My best friend has been married for more than two years, and she has tripped up her husband a few times, and every time she comes to me to cry.
In fact, every time I quarrel, because of some very small things, two people talk and talk, and they may get angry without saying a word right.
The girl cried and wanted her husband to coax her.
But her husband is a straight man in this regard, and he never knows how to say a gentle word or admit a mistake.
Because he felt that he was right, he would not apologize.
He will tell her a lot of life truths, and she will also tell him her own truths.
Later, the girl figured it out.
She said that I should not impose my own ideas on others. Sometimes it's true that I'm a little willful and ignorant.
Everyone has their own personality and temperament, and you can't expect him to think the same way as you.
It is impossible to try to transform a person with his own thoughts, just as he cannot change me.
It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to stay together.
If two people want to be together, they must understand, tolerate, and respect each other's ideas in order to seek common ground while reserving differences and live together.
Thinking about it this way, my best friend's heart is really much more relaxed.
Later, they finally talked calmly and got back together.
She will learn to appreciate his strengths and understand his hardships and hardships.
He would see how hard she was with the housework, and she would be able to help cook and wash the dishes when she came home from work.
When they are free, the two of them read a book together, watch a play, or go out for a walk, and the days are happy.
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