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I love it very much now, and I should say that it is the relationship that I can remember the most. I like to watch ** since I was a child, ** love is particularly beautiful, so I am irrational about love a lot of times, and it is easy to be stupid, I believe in pure and beautiful love, looking forward to falling in love means getting married, not just playing.
I've been in love 3 times, I'm impressed by it for the first time, I'm a rural child, my family is not very rich, I remember that it was a junior high school online dating boy, he was from Shanghai, online dating is not realistic, but like it is like, often chat online, I don't have a mobile phone, secretly use my dad's to chat with him, every time I am very happy, at that time it was very naïve, and it has always been together, will meet, will get married. It's a pity that it didn't, that's it, it's over.
The second time, I was in a bad mood, during the winter vacation of a technical school, I was a weak and ignorant little woman, and I ran to Shanxi alone to meet a netizen. Of course, I also trusted him, and I saw the snow, and then my parents were worried about me so I urged me to go back, and I went home after playing for about a week, and I was away from him for half a year, and I was not together.
For the third and last time, I believe that this time I will definitely be able to get married. I'm very confident in him, so let's talk about how we met. At that time, I had just come out of my internship and got two jobs, one was a bar, and I dreamed of being a bartender, and the other was working in a bubble tea shop.
I went to the Qing bar first, and then I got off work too late and left home and quit, and changed the milk tea shop, only to meet him, I think this is also a kind of fate, I worked in the milk tea for a week, changed the Qing bar halfway, and came back to see him, that was the first time we met, and it was exactly what I liked. But the colleague who goes to work doesn't like to play with him very much, because he is still our boss. That colleague happens to be a very good friend of mine, so I have less contact with him, I will go to that bubble tea shop because it opened a branch just near my house, and then the new store opened, I transferred him and he was also helping to guide something, he was in charge of this store, and then we have been noisy and quarrelsome, they all said that we are happy enemies, I remember the first three days of opening super busy, I stood from morning to night, the whole person almost lay on the table of the production, he always said to stand better when he saw me like this, no bones, a bunch of words to complain about me.
I will refute him, I can't lose, in fact, I have already stood up, after all, people are leaders, and my little employees don't fight with him. As for who said together, it must be me, he won't take the initiative, this is the first time I've chased someone, I'm very glad I really met him, I'm very happy.
Now this relationship is enough for me to remember for a lifetime.
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I talked about getting married when I fell in love again, and if I want to say that an unforgettable relationship should be my first love. It was because of that breakup that I chose to get married in a hurry in order to heal my wounds. Xiao Xiao was my first boyfriend, and I used to think that Xiao Xiao and I could be together forever, and I fantasized about growing old with his hand.
In the end, he ended up with Lao Yan flying separately, and it can only be said that he met the wrong person at the right time. Xiao Xiao was a boyfriend of mine when I was a freshman, and he was my classmate at that time, and he pursued me first. I'm an introvert and don't get involved with people easily.
Xiao Xiao can be said to have been introduced to me by my roommate, because he was the first time my roommate helped me make an appointment. The two of us started our relationship after being friends for a while.
First love is always the best, and I, like many girls, fell in love. In the first year, our relationship was very good and stable. We would go on a date and go shopping when we had a holiday, and occasionally we would go out to enjoy the mountains and rivers.
We promised to be together for the rest of our lives, and we absolutely wanted to break the curse of breaking up after graduation. I love Xiao Xiao's love for me very much, and I love him with all my love. The two of us are very happy together, and many friends also say that we are very suitable for husband and wife.
Many people are optimistic about us, although our relationship seems to be very dull, but this is also the most unforgettable for me, nothing particularly romantic happened, and there is no special moment that touched me. And I think that being dull is also the truest part of life, so I am still very confident that I will be with Xiao Xiao for the rest of my life. What sticks in my mind is not what happened, but the mutual love we had for us.
I don't need to express it with anything, just because I have loved each other, so I feel unforgettable. A breakup is a joint choice between two people to let go, and if it is not suitable, there is no need to continue.
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Reasons:1Decreased interest. In the early stage of love, the freshness will slowly fade, life will gradually become dull, and it is easy to feel a lack of interest and interest. If Zen can't find new points of interest in time to increase the fun, it can easily lead to emotional alienation.
2.Idealization is shattered. In the early stages of a relationship, it is easy to have idealized fantasies and expectations for each other. But as you get along, you will gradually discover the true appearance of the other party. If the real gap is too large, it is inevitable that there will be disappointment and doubt.
3.Life stress. As they develop their respective lives and aftermath careers during their relationship, the pressure of life will also increase. If you can't face all kinds of pressures and challenges together, but choose to withdraw or complain, then it is easy to drift away and break under pressure.
4.Lack of communication. For a relationship to survive and develop, it requires constant interaction and communication. However, in the process of long-term love, it is easy to have negligence and lack of communication, which leads to estrangement and misunderstanding. Over time, it will slowly become estranged.
5.Personal growth is different. In the process of love, the personal growth of both parties, such as personality, interests, values, etc., will change differently. If the growth direction of the two parties is too different, then it will eventually become emotionally difficult to fit in, and it is easy to separate.
Therefore, if you want an unforgettable love to last for a long time, the most important thing is to learn to continue the freshness, enhance mutual understanding, cultivate good communication, face the pressure of life together, and constantly repair the basis of emotional fit in personal growth. This requires more effort and joint efforts between lovers to resolve the factors that may lead to a breakup. Sincere feelings are hard-won and need to be cared for and cherished by both parties.
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