Emotionally entangled, it looks like a cold war, what should I do?

She's not ready, you're all busy going to graduate school, and you're not too young, and falling in love is for a long time, so it's natural to think a little more and be realistic. After all, it is a lifelong event, and it is not to be rash, and there is not much youth to squander.

Sometimes women can't figure out what they think, and sometimes they just like it, but they are overwhelmed for some inexplicable reason. I think I want to give her a little time, you've just been chasing someone for a month, unless she has a very good feeling for you, otherwise it is impossible to agree to you right away.

This woman is really inkblot, if you like it, if you don't like it, if you don't like it, why can't you say it clearly?! Just ask her if she likes you or not, just do it! ~

It's not you who hurt him, if he doesn't care about you, you won't have any irritability, you make an appointment to have a good talk, you can't afford to delay your time, and being decisive is good for both parties.

It is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong. Personally, I think falling in love is a very brain-consuming thing, and it seems simple and difficult to deal with, especially the way two people get along. Sometimes it's a small thing, as long as you admit each other's mistakes, you can reconcile as before, but the attitude of the two people is very stiff, and finally choose to deal with the Cold War.

The cold war really affects the relationship, when you are in love, you must confess to each other, if you feel that the other party has something bad to do, you can directly give the other party some advice and show your attitude, instead of giving him prompts repeatedly. Not everyone is as smart as we think, as long as a little hint can understand the other person's instructions, and sometimes I don't like the other person to prompt all the time, just say it will be more effective.

Feelings are constantly grinding and improving, and few couples can do without quarreling in love, unless there is no emotion. After a quarrel, whether it is a man or a woman, it is best not to choose the way of cold violence, cold violence is the main reason for the breakup, some people once they miss it, they miss it, cherish the moment.

The most feared thing in a relationship is cold violence, when there is a conflict again, you must think calmly, admit your mistakes when you should admit them, there is no big deal, sometimes admitting mistakes is not a sign of humility, but a wise choice. Only by being able to bend and stretch can we adapt to the development of society. For some things, there is no need to fight for winning or losing, and learning to stop losses in time is the choice of adults.

Not only is it cold and violent in love that hurts feelings, but in other relationships, it also affects feelings in its affairs. Expect to communicate in a timely manner when there is a conflict between others.

In fact, there are many kinds of Cold War. For example, two people have a very fierce quarrel, and then they can't get the result and choose a cold war, which is actually a way to deal with it coldly.

If it is one of the parties, the other party is very dissatisfied with the doing, but only one of the parties chooses. Start the Cold War first, then such a Cold War is very emotional.

It is indeed very emotional, if the situation is very serious, then the two will break up, so in the process of falling in love, you must not have a casual cold war.

Yes, the Cold War will only make problems backlogged so that they cannot be solved, and finally make feelings irretrievable; In addition, the cold war is also easy to make the other half not feel the other party's love and have a "cold" psychology, so that they have confidence in emotional things, and finally break up.

The Cold War is a very emotional way, and it is also the cause of breakups and marriage breakdowns, so we must not have a Cold War, and two people must communicate to solve things when they happen.

For both sides of the Cold War, there is no winner, both of them are losers, and they do not keep calm in the handling of feelings, they are both vainly trying to end the relationship to blackmail the other party, even if one party compromises, it will lay the groundwork for a future breakup.

In love, such as the frequent cold war, that pattern will definitely affect the relationship between each other. Because this will cause some contradictions to accumulate, and in the long run, they will erupt.

A cold war in love will definitely hurt feelings, but it is also inevitable. Because love is the process of two people running into each other, there is love and pain.

Yes, it would be more contradictory if the problem was not solved.

Yes, when two people start a cold war, that's when the relationship is about to end. Because you have quarreled and communicated before, but no one is convinced by anyone, your thinking is not at the same point at all, and there is no way to communicate. So this kind of relationship is ending soon.

Yes, two people keep quarreling, they don't accept softness, they can't tolerate each other, if they have been in a cold war, this relationship should be over, there is no need to stick to it anymore, let it go.

No, although two people quarrel and refuse to accept softness and start a cold war, it does not mean that the relationship is going to end, it is just because of their temper, and some people have a temper like this, and they can't control it.

The two of them quarreled and did not relent, and they started a cold war, and they were not sure that the relationship was over. As long as the hearts of two people are not completely separated, and there is still a willingness to continue to be together, it will always be resolved.

If two people quarrel, they will not be convinced. And the ongoing Cold War has not improved. Then it proves that the relationship has come to an end and it's time to end. They can't let each other at all, and the relationship no longer exists.

After a quarrel, the cold war is not sure that the relationship is over, this is the time to test you, you have to find a way to keep the other party back, the other party and you have a cold war, you can't just think about the breakup and the other party's fault, you have to apologize seriously, leave the other party first.

This is not necessarily, in the end, it depends on the emotional foundation of two people, in most cases, it is the man who gives in first, and now there are indeed some girls who especially like to use the Cold War method to deal with the relationship between the two sides, to show their status, which is also quite annoying.

No, it is normal for two people to have conflicts together, and after two days when the weather is smooth, the man or woman realizes the mistake and takes the initiative to admit the mistake to the other party, and the two will get back together.

If two people quarrel and fight a cold war. No one is convinced, far away? That's called marriage.

It may be that it is almost the end. If you have feelings. There's always someone.

Come out. Go and apologize. Or an internet celebrity, the other party.

Such. can build up feelings. If only it wasn't far away.

It's been a long time. I'm afraid. Can't pick it up.

If two people quarrel and are not convinced, then it is very likely that they are still angry, of course, it depends on what the specific problem is? If the cold war continues like this, it will definitely not work, and if you don't contact each other for a long time, it will naturally lead to a breakup.

It is normal for two people to quarrel now, but it is not okay for two people not to be soft, and the fact that two people are not convinced will only make this matter more serious, and eventually lead to cold violence.

A good relationship needs to be communicated, not a cold war, if it continues to be such a cold war, no matter how good the relationship is, it will become weaker and weaker, well, if you want to continue to be together, then communicate well.

No, it's just that when it's really time to run in, it depends on which of you can bow your head for whom.

If two people are not convinced, there will definitely be no good results after a long time, no matter what kind of feelings, two people must get along with each other first, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

It's bad when both parties aren't angry about everything, and being angry means that they still care and just want to run in.

Young people are young and vigorous and quarrelsome must not accept anyone, and they do not want to let anyone, but if this continues, the problem cannot be solved, there is still one side that needs to make concessions first, and it is better to deal with and solve problems calmly, and the Cold War can only make the situation worse and worse.

Not necessarily, but if a relationship ends because of a fight, it may not be worth starting.

In psychology, the Cold War is a classic form of "emotional manipulation", which is very hurtful to others and oneself. More than one girl has told me that every time she has a conflict with her boyfriend, she always wants to make it clear in earnest.

Then why aren't you two convinced? It's just a very irrational thing, and when you quarrel, the shadow hurts the other party, why don't you coax her? Especially the boys have to cook.

As long as one party takes the initiative to solve the contradiction, not to continue the cold war, so that the two of you can go together smoothly, if you often have a cold war and do not give in to each other, it is difficult for you to maintain this relationship.

Quarrels are actually very common, whether it is those couples or some couples quarrel, in fact, this depends on why you want to quarrel, and after this quarrel you have each way to solve it, but after the quarrel there is no need for a cold war, the other party is uncomfortable, and the feelings will be hurt, if you often quarrel and cold war, you have to think about whether your way of getting along is not quite right, you have to discuss it well, you have to do this,This problem is not something you can solve, I think you still have to discuss it with the other party, this is related to the development of your relationship in the future.

The relationship has weakened, in the final analysis, this problem is because of the Cold War, but why the Cold War, you all have to think about it, the relationship has a period of fatigue and a period of calm, during which you will have various contradictions and differences of opinion, but it depends on how you solve it, maybe your relationship has not weakened, but there are more quarrels, communicate more, there is no contradiction that cannot be solved and must be solved through quarrels and cold wars, there will be a better way.

If you still want to save this relationship, you have to talk to him, find out the problems between you, and then solve them, find out the reasons for your quarrels, solve them fundamentally, and save your feelings, but the premise is that you are still patient, you are willing to communicate with him and he is willing to listen, and this problem can not be rushed, the previous quarrel is not a day or two can be changed, you need the patience of both of you and your attitude towards this relationship.

If your relationship is not so important to you, you are tired of quarrels and cold wars, and you don't have the patience and energy to repair this relationship, then I suggest you break up or divorce, and the quarrel proves that you disagree with each other, and you have quarreled so many times, if you continue to be together, it is hard to say whether you will quarrel more in the future, and the relationship has faded, you feel that the relationship has faded, as long as you feel and you have raised this question, you have already thought so in your heart, if you feel unhappy, then separate.

I don't think couples should be cranky during the Cold War. The Cold War is a very bad behavior, whether it is a husband and wife or a couple, quarrels are inevitable. There are many things in life, everyone's outlook on life or values is different, and there will be different opinions or suggestions on everything, and it is very normal to quarrel.

However, the Cold War is not necessarily good, and if the Cold War is not dealt with in time, the relationship between husband and wife will be weakened, and quarrels are better than the Cold War.

You make changes first and proactively communicate with the other person about how to solve the problem. Promises can be angry, but not cold. If you really don't want to talk to the other person, use the letter to communicate.

In this case, the best thing to do is to have a good talk with the other side, hoping that the other side can correct it, and not to have a constant cold war, so that it can be alleviated.

In this case, I suggest that you have a good chat with the other party, really solve the root problem, and don't continue the cold war, which will greatly affect the relationship.

Tell your lover that this situation tells him that the relationship has weakened after the Cold War, and the two of you will solve this problem together and try to avoid quarrels and Cold War situations in the future.

We will find that in the usual thinking of most couples, they will regard the relationship as a battle, a competition. In the vigorous pursuit, the other party is a rose who falls in love at first sight; On the contrary, in getting along, the envy of the town is like a competition between you and me?

Whenever the two parties quarrel, many couples will have this idea - who will take the initiative to solve the problem of this quarrel?

So a lot of times, it's a cold war? You must know that for both couples, silence will really be an out-and-out "moth" ......

At this time, the strong side of the Cold War or quarrel will have a certain degree of pressure on the object, such as doing work on many details to make the other party retreat. So the more you go later, the more the relationship will become a kind of tug-of-war between you and me:

I love more".

I pay more".

and ......so on

The key is not to be biased towards the "silent" Cold War on the road, everyone has impulsiveness, but at least after the quarrel, the two sides can be willing to sit down, have a long talk, borrow the heart, or complain in the way of communication, exchange, batch running-in. Naturally, don't just go to the end in one breath for the sake of self-protection.

So, "feelings are not your life and death, you lose and I win" arena, and it is not a cold speechlessness, love has to be said by Da Yuchun, in addition to sweet words, the dissatisfaction in the heart of nature can't run, say it, the two sides will have a better resonance in the soul and understand each other better, isn't it?

In addition, both parties also have to understand that each other's independent personalities and hobbies, after being together, it is another matter, so, as long as two people live together, naturally two people are one, you know my heart, I understand your mind, I think this is the best state!

Because there is nothing in the world that must be unwavering - as long as both parties can be safely together, that's fine!