A girl who used to be very good with you, but after a year, she no longer pays attention to you

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Landlord, it's not me who hit you, first, when you confessed to her, she just said that she was moved, and did not promise you, you may think she is considering or shy, but it may also be a tactful refusal. Second, you have been out for a year, there is no contact between you, and now you suddenly text her, she will definitely be unfamiliar with you, which is also reasonable. Third, a girl's mind is changeable, whether it is psychological or physiological, a girl's emotions are always susceptible, not to mention whether she is single now, what you have to do now is to comfort her from the perspective of a friend, as for whether she accepts you or not, this is not good to force...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe you didn't care about her before. She was disappointed.

    I suggest you. Now take good care of her. Don't give up.

    You say she's lonely, so now is the time she needs to care.

    Take your time and don't rush it.

    Best wishes, dear ones.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't know what the reason is, I haven't contacted her for a year, judging from what you wrote, she is angry with you, if you feel that you can't let go, then you take the initiative to contact her to ease the relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe she said something like that when she was in a bad mood, if you really love her, just wait a little longer, maybe she has a hard time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe I was in a bad mood at the time. Apologize and explain why it took a year to send the message.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you guys in one place now?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hey, who told you that you weren't thick-skinned enough at that time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I suggest you are good. Try to chase her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A girl who ignores you for a long time must not love you anymore, because when a girl loves someone, she must want to see her every day, and if she can't see him, she misses him very much in her heart, which is the manifestation of loving someone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not necessarily. It may be that you don't love it anymore and want to treat it cold. Slowly fade this feeling. It's also possible that something is wrong with your relationship, and she needs to calm down and think about how to crack it. This is my personal opinion, and I hope it can help you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's very likely that they don't love you anymore, girls generally don't have a middle ground, they are more clear about their feelings, if they like you, they will definitely express it like you, and they have been ignoring you to show that they don't care about you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Quite possibly. Generally, a girl who likes you very much, even if you ignore her, she will keep sending messages and calling you. That person is really determined to ignore you for a long time, and maybe she will already be disappointed in you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, at least to a large extent, I don't love you anymore, we have to know that nothing can keep you busy and have no time to reply to your messages, unless she doesn't love you anymore, so the girl who ignores you for a long time is most likely to no longer love you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, because if a girl likes a boy, she can't help but not contact him for a long time, and she will want to stick to the boy all the time, and ignore you for a long time, she just doesn't like it anymore.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It should be, if you are a couple, it is impossible to ignore you for a long time. If you are ordinary friends, let alone love, you may really not want to contact you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If a girl can ignore you for a long time, it may be that it is no longer so important in his heart, and it cannot occupy his emotions and affect his life. Maybe I still love it, but I'm too tired to take the initiative anymore.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are a boyfriend and girlfriend, but he ignores you for a while, he may indeed have a weaker relationship, and he may be busy during this time, but if it has nothing to do with it, it can't be said that he doesn't love you, he can only say that he doesn't want to talk to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, it's up to her to ignore you on purpose or if she's really ignoring your desires! If it's the former, she wants to get your attention, and if it's the latter, it means that the girl is really not interested in you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it is a girl who loves you, then he always wants to be with you and will not ignore you, and the girl who ignores you for a long time means that he definitely does not love you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not love, because he has stopped contacting you and has forgotten you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's definitely not love, because normal feelings need to be communicated, and it takes time to maintain, if you don't communicate for a long time, you must have broken off the relationship and don't love anymore.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls who ignore you for a long period of time feel tired of getting along with you and can't see hope for your relationship, so they will ignore you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Basically, yes. You took the initiative to find her, but she ignored you for a long time, that is, she no longer had you in her heart. After all, people don't waste time for someone who has no place in their hearts.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, I don't love you anymore, don't have hope, give up quickly, don't give up a forest because of a tree, go and see other fate, maybe you will meet better.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ignoring it for a long time may also be a sign of peace of mind, not necessarily not in love, you will feel that she is **, and she will always be there, but it is not like this.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, girls who ignore you for a long time just don't love you anymore and don't have much affection for you, and then they won't take the initiative to look for you, all because they don't like you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he used to like you, but now he ignores you, it may be that he doesn't like you now, he doesn't love you anymore, and if this happens, it may be that you have done something that makes him very disgusted.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you had a deep relationship before, then you must still be in love with each other, just to say that everyone is busy with their own things during this time, and they are negligent to you, so the girl doesn't take the initiative, it's good if you take the initiative.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, it can basically be judged that he has let go of you, so ignoring you and not contacting you is also a sign of his dead heart.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Maybe you've been in love, it's been a few months, so the topic is not as much as it just started, if you survive during this period, the road in the future will be particularly dull, but it will also be very easy to walk, it's not that you don't love you, it can only be said that there is no topic.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, every girl often has such a time, but it doesn't mean that they are all very annoying to you. Sometimes it's just because of a big aunt or a bad mood. There are often times when your boyfriend wants to date you, and you don't want to go out and say that you have something.

    But it doesn't mean that I hate my boyfriend, it's just that I was in a bad mood at the time and didn't want to go out.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, a girl can't help but not look for you when she likes you, let alone for a long time, which means that she is forcing herself to let go slowly.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    That's right, she doesn't love you anymore and already treats you as an ordinary friend, so the relationship doesn't mean that you want it, you can have it if you want it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What is her attitude when you say to her that you like her? This is important!

    As far as the current situation is concerned, let me analyze it, you used a word called indifference, this word is very interesting, if she really likes you, she may really be angry and jealous because of that incident, but she will never be indifferent to you, and indifferent people have no love in their hearts. So, if you really feel apathy, I think she probably doesn't like you. Of course, this is just speculation.

    Another point, your relationship is very good, in fact, it means that you are playing ambiguous, and the girl in the ambiguity is very strange. She may be sweet with you one moment, and ignore you the next moment, whether she lives or dies. So I suggest you think about whether she is ambiguous about you or likes you.

    The crux of the matter is what she thinks about you, is she ambiguous with you, you die, no, everything is very simple.

    My advice to you, when you talk to her once, explain well, make amends, don't say that you love her or something, just admit your mistakes as if you made a mistake with a friend. If she still doesn't want to pay attention to you, I think she probably doesn't want to have an affair with you anymore, in other words, she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. If that's the case, I'm thinking about the next step.

    If she accepts your confession, in fact, from the other side, it is equivalent to accepting your last courtship, and as long as you seize the opportunity to confess in the future, there will probably be a drama.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't worry, patiently tell her, no matter what happens between two people, just talk about it, maybe she's not because of QQ, maybe she's been busy lately, or she has something to worry about, in short, you don't guess, it's useless, you have to talk to her, even if she doesn't like you anymore, then you have to accept it, don't think about what you used to be together, so the more you think about it, the more sad you are, you have to be patient to find a way to deal with problems, communication is very important, you must always face it, I wish you happiness.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In that case, I recommend that you stabilize for a few days. Slowly impress her with your actions. I used to have a girlfriend like this.

    It's about the same as you now, a joke she's making or something. Ignore me. Now we're not in a relationship.

    Just friends, so don't make excessive jokes in general. A girl's heart is made of water. Don't look for her these days.

    After three or four days. I think it's okay to go to her again. Care more about her.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This should be "Girls are jealous!" Symptoms of it.

    Girls are just going to coax, and they even explained and expressed their intentions. Then take the initiative and don't be a piece of wood.

    Girls like boys to "take the initiative", after all, people are girls, so I'm embarrassed. You have to take the initiative to ask her out, and then develop further.

    Maybe other girls are waiting for your "initiative".

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think she is jealous, I don't believe that there is pure friendship between men and women, you can confess to her, explain to her, show that you like her, don't give up, good luck, usually ambiguous, give a hint.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    We always say that loving material things is a manifestation of the world, but often material things can really make people happy, you might as well give a small gift, and then attach a few words of apology and confession, what you can see and what you hear, and the effect will be doubled.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hello hello, I want to ask you, did you catch that girl? Of course, it's been three years.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A woman's heart is hard to understand. It depends on what kind of person she is, and it varies from person to person.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Maybe she's jealous, or maybe I hope you care about her more.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Actually, I want to tell you that girls are stingy, so as a boy, you can't be stingy

    There are three possibilities for this situation:

    1. This girl actually hates you and didn't show it before (they used to get along very well, so this probability is very low).

    2. This girl actually cares a little bit about you in her heart, of course she likes it, but your attitude is ambiguous, so people are angry and don't play with you

    3. You offended people in some small things, but you never realized it, in fact, this probability is still very high

    I don't know your specific situation very well, so the above is pure speculation It is recommended to talk to the girl or her friend to understand the situation from the side, and be generous.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Recall if it was caused by something recently, and since she ignored you, find out what the reason is from a friend she is familiar with.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It should be that you offended her somewhere, maybe you didn't mean it or you didn't realize it. You can ask her best friend to ask her tentatively. It's too naïve to break up.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't think so much, find the reason, and learn the lesson, but time will change everything, don't be discouraged.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    So you're a boy or a girl? She won't like you.

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