What if someone confesses? What to do if you are confessed by someone you like

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you like it, you will accept it, if you don't like it, you will reject it, and if you hate it, you will play him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's better to refuse, girls are easily moved, and after a while, you may find that you don't like him (which I did), and it hits him harder.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Politely refuse, otherwise it will be affected.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Say no, because that will affect your learning

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    See if he's worthy of your love, if it's really worth it, then love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's only the first year of junior high school, ah......

    I don't agree with you making friends with ......

    It's really nerve-wracking!

    If he really likes you, he shouldn't mind waiting a few more years, and what girls need most is security and a happy life.

    If he can't give it to you

    Don't promise him

    You'll regret it

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's okay to go with the flow, it's nothing, the experience of growing up, you can be with him, but don't promise him anything, what can't you do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ouch. Don't damn it!

    Boys are 8 nowadays what a good thing.

    Don't mess with him. Let's just say you have a husband !!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Refuse. Refuse.

    Refuse. Refuse.

    Refuse. Refuse.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, you don't even know if you like him or not

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Say OK if you feel it, Say no if you don't feel it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Say no! Then find a tall senior sister to cover you, and everything will be OK!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now we have to focus on learning. If you feel for him and can turn that feeling into motivation to learn, then accept it! `

    If not, study hard! ~

    It's all just about living better later! `

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think if you liked him, you wouldn't be so hesitant, and you say you don't know because of two aspects. One is that you don't like him. The second is that you are in adolescence and yearn for love.

    But I advise you not to try with such a person if you want to try, he will do you more harm.

    That's all I have to say, I wish you happiness and happiness!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Refuse. Girls have to be decisive.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Be rational and reject him, because complicated people will make your relationships very chaotic, and many people will find you trouble.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you! 1.

    If the other person suddenly confesses to you, you may not be able to react in the first place, and you may not be able to organize the language and tell the other person. At this time, you can choose to smile at him, but if you don't him, it means default. If the other person has to know the answer, you can tell him to let me think about it.

    In fact, in this case, there is no rejection of the other party, that is, implication that the other party accepts.

    Dear, glad to answer for you! 1.If the other person suddenly confesses to you, you may not be able to react in the first place, and you may not be able to organize the language and tell the other person.

    At this time, you can choose to smile at him, but if you don't him, it means default. If the other person has to know the answer, you can tell him to let me think about it. In fact, in this case, there is no rejection of the other party, that is, implication that the other party accepts.

    2.In addition, because the other party suddenly confessed, at this time you must not agree immediately, you must be a little reserved, you can tell the other party. Give me some time, I'm not ready to fall in love, let me think, get ready for you, and give each other some time.

    In this way, it also seems more reserved and very decent and generous.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Adjust your mentality and release your mood.

    Because confessing that a person is in pain when they are rejected, it is very irresponsible for their own health. It is a fact that we have been rejected and cannot be changed, but we can change our attitude towards this matter and adjust our mood. Don't just pay attention to the person in front of you, there are many people who love you and are silently watching you behind your back.

    Don't just stare at one person, but open your eyes and reach out to someone who is better than this one.

    2. Don't contact the other party again.

    If the other party rejects you after you express their hearts, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of evil words are directed at each other, then this kind of person can ignore her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and you will feel that everything you do for her is deserved, and it is difficult to find your goodness. It's impossible to be very good to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be pleasant.

    There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person. To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

    3. Open the knot in your heart and continue to be friends.

    If it's a good friend who has been with you for a long time and the relationship has become awkward because of your confession, you shouldn't give up right away. You can continue to choose to be friends with the other person, but don't reveal that you still have intentions for the other person. It may be that the good old days are gone, but you can reconnect with each other as a normal friend, and she can't refuse your friendship.

    If you are not friends with the other party, you can also take the opportunity of confession to let the other party know you and become her friend.

    4. Understand your image in the other person's mind and analyze the reasons for failure.

    You think you are excellent in the other person's mind, but the other person may not take you seriously at all. The first impression cannot be broken, but you can improve your image in the other person's heart and become the person that the other person likes. Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you or your age, wealth and other indicators have not been reached, solve the symptoms, do not deal with it blindly.

    5. Turn grief and anger into motivation and enhance personal charm.

    A confession failure does not mean that you are useless, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more favored by the opposite sex. Confession failure must be that you are not enough of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself and learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you.

    Therefore, after being rejected, you should not stay in this stage of loss, but should rise up, improve yourself, and wait for the right person to appear at the right time with the best attitude.

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