Why aren t calm people needed?

I don't think it's that eloquence is bad, it's not good at articulation, but I personally think it's not the same as calmness, I personally think it's a misunderstanding. Calm is not a casual thing, in my impression, calm requires capital. Have rich experience, see a lot of things very clearly, will advance and retreat, look at life with a philosophical eye, and use scientific methods to do things, I personally think you can't reach it.

You are exalting yourself. Different people are needed in different environments to do different things. Maybe you don't have what they need, or you fail to let them know you have what they need.

Of course, there is also a dark side, such as which beauty they have a crush on, and so on. There will always be inequalities in life. You can feel how you feel, but others don't necessarily see it that way, because it's not you.

If you want others to know your ability, do it for others, integrate into the group, do things well, and don't look down on your masters. Others will know that you need time. Someday someone will understand you.

Because I'm the same as you, I entered the Youth Association, but I couldn't do the interview, and they kept shaking their heads. I was one vote short of my class in the election, but now I am a member of the study committee of our class. It turns out that others always have opinions about me, I should be wrong, I think it's right, I keep it.

In fact, others are not necessarily right, and time has proved this. The teacher told me, you have done a good job, and time will return to you fairly. I think it's good that you are willing to work hard silently, don't give up, the world is colorful.

Each has its own way of survival, and yours is the way of a gentleman. It won't be bad in the future. However, knowledge is not only in books, it is also important to be able to be a person, and it is also necessary to be able to communicate and express.

The ability that is always needed in the world is whether you have the ability that others do not have. Otherwise there will be competition. Society is complex, and I can't say enough about it, so let's experience it and face things positively.

These are my personal experiences, and there may not be anything wrong with them. For reference only.

Because some societies require sensitivity or reflexivity, different personalities are different people. Each community has a different group and a different view. So not everyone will like you, don't be discouraged. Everyone is unique, so don't get too uncomfortable. It's going to be fine.

As long as you are willing to work and the club still likes it, you just need to be active during the interview and force yourself to be active during the interview, so that others can be more impressed by you. During the interview, people are mainly selected based on impressions, because they don't know what kind of person you are, so you have to work the interview.

It's not that it's not needed, it's that it's not discovered. It is advisable to practice eloquence and be able to bring out the best in you in a short period of time.

Sports clubs and chess clubs can't be rejected, and playing chess without talking and talking looks annoying.

Kick the ball, play the basketball, just follow the core (shooter).

1.Talk less. Never show off in front of others how many assets you have, how many books you have read, how many people you know, and how many truths you know. The more you show off, the more dazzling others will find you.

2.Be grateful. Whether it is for people, things or things, there will inevitably be setbacks in life, and when you encounter setbacks, you will grow, and you will be grateful for everything in life, and you will know that you have to cherish what you have now.

3.Don't depend on anyone and learn to be independent, including living independently and thinking independently. Beasts of prey always walk alone, and cattle and sheep go together in herds.

Not letting regret is to say that you don't need a partner, everyone needs trustworthy and close people, but it can't evolve into dependence, you are used to relying on others, and when you have to take charge of your own dust chain, you will be afraid of being afraid. A true friend is a gentleman's friendship, as light as water, and there is enough space between friends, and it is good to have a long stream. You should also leave enough space for yourself, live your own life when you are alone, precipitate seriously, and your life will not disappoint serious people.

4.Have a good job. A good job can enhance your self-confidence, give you a quality life, broaden your horizons, and exercise to improve your overall quality.

5.Always have a learning mindset. No matter how trivial the work, no matter how small the person, there will be something worth learning from.

No one in this world is perfect, and no one is good. With the mentality of learning, you can not only keep yourself improving, but also maintain a low-key posture in the hustle and bustle of the world.

Be calm and be good to him, and he will be good to you, don't.

Calm people have the following 7 characteristics.

Humble, low-key, unassuming.

Calm people are unassuming, and are generally very humble and low-key. Never exaggerate yourself with your teeth and claws, nor do you say in public how powerful you are, often praise others and belittle yourself, and there will be an invisible sense of comfort when interacting with such people.

The tone of speech is steady, and the speed of speech is slower.

Almost never speak loudly, speak in a steady tone, and speak slowly, because every sentence is carefully thought out, so as not to hurt others, have a heart that suffers losses and is altruistic, and thinks more about everything from the perspective of others.

Don't panic when you encounter problems.

When encountering major events and major changes, he can be unhurried and unhurried, not that this person is slow, but he will not sell well because of anything and mess up his position. Often the first person to come up with a solution when encountering things is also a calm person like Zhongchun, who will not affect his meticulous thinking logic because of complicated circumstances or events.

Emotionally stable. Emotions will not fluctuate, whether it is a surprise or a frightening thing, they can be as stable as Mount Tai, and always feel that this person has a main axis, and it is difficult to have something to make them deviate from this axis.

Don't interrupt others.

In our daily work and life, we often encounter the kind of people who will constantly interrupt others, but in fact, this kind of person shows extreme uncalmness.

And really calm people, they will listen to everyone's speech very carefully, and in their own minds to remember and sort out everyone's words, some people will also take a pen, write down what everyone said in the meeting, right and wrong, solutions, suggestions, etc. Then listen to everyone before you express your opinion.

Speak in moderation.

In the course of work, even if a subordinate makes a mistake, although he will criticize his subordinates, he will save face for his subordinates, stop speaking in moderation, and at the end will point out to his subordinates how to correct them next time. Often such a leader, or such a colleague will be very convincing, and such a person is also easy to gather a bunch of talented people around him, and it is easy to be followed by these people.

Think calmly when you encounter problems.

A calm person is also a person who is good at thinking, and can do a pause, slow and slow thinking when encountering things, because he can calm down, so it is easy to jump out of the matter itself to find the fundamental things of the matter, and it is easier to find solutions to problems and difficulties.