What exactly are we pursuing in our lives? Why do we all end up making ourselves sad?

If there is no pursuit, no ideal, no goal, you will lose yourself, you will live very empty, very confused, and you don't know what you are living for. We have to know exactly what we want. In fact, what we want is very simple, all we want is happiness.

He doesn't have a specific concept of what happiness is, maybe it's a feeling, maybe it's spiritual, maybe it's material, I think both are indispensable, especially in today's society. However, spiritual wealth is more important. The power of the spirit is infinite, the mind is magical, and only when the spirit is rich will there be a higher level of pursuit.

People must have material pursuits, the quality of life can be guaranteed, but do not be confused by the material, behind the material is the dedication to the ideal. Only when we realize our ideals and fulfill our mission, this life will be meaningful. To be a person with cultivation and taste, to live freely, to face difficulties and challenges at all times in life, and to dare to face the waves of life is the real strong.

Always be prepared, work hard for a better life, and live well for the people we love and love us deeply

That's because what you're looking for isn't what you want, and if you want to live a truly happy life, you have to think about what you need.

Ordinary, live the life you want to live, don't worry about yourself for some life locks, keep the loneliness, and you will succeed.

We have a heart, and we pursue the dreams of that heart. Our lives can give us many frustrations and tribulations. Sometimes we cry. But we will still pursue the dream of a lifetime. After all, you can fly if you have a dream.

Life is inherently bumpy.

When encountering all kinds of difficulties in life, you should not treat people zhi

The meaning of human life is up to you to understand bai. I think it's mainly for Du himself to live. To be able to live.

Know how to enjoy the daoOf course, while enjoying it, you must fulfill your responsibilities and obligations. Fulfill the obligation of a citizen to the society.

Fulfill their responsibilities to their parents as children. Husbands and wives have a mutual obligation. It is enough to fulfill the parental responsibilities to the children.

If only a word for so-and-so. Something so-and-so. Or something emotional.

The people who engage in it are physically and mentally exhausted. It is better not to come into this world. There are gains and losses in a person's life.

It's also very short-lived. Look down on everything. Cherish every day.

Happy everyday. I saw it and figured it out, and this world is quite exciting. I can't see it, I can't figure it out, this world is cruel and helpless.

Hehe.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to live a dull life. The mistake is the mistake. A lot of things. I don't have a choice.

There's nothing wrong with what everyone wants differently.

What everyone pursues is that every new wish can become a reality!

Good ethics

I think about this question a lot.

But there are explanations for this in various faiths, for example, for the atonement of sins, for the betterment of the next life. It is also said that coming into this world is itself to get.

Because of this issue, many people have debated it for a long time, and there have been wars, killings, and many people who have fallen because of it.

In fact, it doesn't matter what you pursue, because whatever you gain will be lost in the end, and the enjoyment process is the most important ......Note: It is enjoyment

I used to think that my pursuit was to be a quiet person, because I worked so hard to watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, and watch the clouds roll in the sky, but when I spent a few months at home, I couldn't make up my mind to do so, or would rather go online to keep myself busy, to consume the seemingly endless time.

I often wonder why people live, no matter what, they will eventually leave this world, and the pursuit I have in my heart and mind seems to be very important, but in fact it is still empty. Because of this kind of thinking, I have been living in pessimism, and I have no way, no perseverance, to do even small things. I don't like this society, but the world will not die because of me, and I will only die in the end.

So I often advise myself now, in the three thousand dusts, would you rather love and hate? - In these three thousand red dust, what is my love and hatred?

I think that as long as you get rid of the demons in your heart, you won't feel how meaningless life is and how worthless my existence is. In fact, you can't have no direction or goal, maybe it's just that the ideal is too ambitious, so you feel that it may not be possible to achieve it and give up, think about it carefully, you must have your own revenge, don't be trapped by the present, the road of a thousand miles begins with a single step, little by little towards your goal, one day you will succeed.

Everyone is confused about this. The key is, what is your ultimate goal? Like how much money do you make?

For example, what kind of contribution has not been made to society? Set big goals, break them down into smaller ones, create a timeline and, of course, determine your path – what do you do? Part-time job or entrepreneurship?

Then go all out!

In fact, you subconsciously have pursuits. It's just that you don't know it clearly, read more useful books, and be sure to focus on cultivating your own outlook on life. Find your way and move in the direction!

No one else can help you, you have to rely on yourself!!

Have you ever asked yourself?

Ever asked yourself what you wanted? What you want most, then what you want is your purpose in life.

Do you want fame and fortune or be ordinary and leisurely.

Do you want to love to death or live or to live forever.

You have to learn to do it before you want to, and you have to have a certain amount of motivation and momentum.

You don't have a direction or purpose in life because you don't have that motivation.

I don't understand philosophy, but I think your question is also a problem that everyone will face, there must be life and death, then the answer is there, since you were born in this world, then in order not to be in vain in this life, on the spiritual level, in order to have a goal in these days of life or in layman's terms, life is not so boring, on the practical level, in order to live a little better when you are alive, to take care of the people around you who love you, and to accumulate something for future generations when you are alive, Whether it is life experience or material foundation, it is all the wealth of future generations. All in all, you have been born into this world, then both come and be safe, from the moment you are born you have begun to fulfill the responsibilities and obligations that you have to take in this life, life is a one-way car, in a limited time to learn a lot, to do a lot, there must be pressure, there will be failure, life is a hundred flavors, everyone has their own experience, but no matter how bumpy their road is, I believe that their life must be their own mastery. Now we should consider the theme and goal of our life, there is no goal to find a goal, there is no opportunity to find an opportunity, don't think about meaningless questions, everyone will come to naught in the end, to use a popular analogy, just like human beings are born without wings and can't fly, so if you yearn for the sky, think about how to make yourself fly, instead of thinking that you are born without wings.

I haven't been to school for a few days, so I'm talking nonsense, but the words are bad, and the reasoning is not bad. I hope you can cheer up and don't think too much about other things.

People are inherently dead, or heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather! It is the process that everyone will die, and being valuable is the process of living! Some people do nothing in their lives, and some people have a lot of value in their lives.

Generally speaking, this kind of nonsense is the legendary scrap wood.

Love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it.

have all left regrets to a greater or lesser extent.

When we're done reading.

will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything.

When we give up someone who loves you very much, it is not painful, because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, when we give up someone you love very much, it is painful, because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no fate, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and no part.

If there is fate, time and space are not distances, and if there is no fate, even if they get together, they will not be able to understand.

Don't worry too much about anything.

There is no need to force it.

Let's just let everything go with the flow.

Love is like that, sometimes like poison, sometimes like honey.

Because there are so many unknowns.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

When you choose to give up because you are helpless, it doesn't mean that you don't love it!

Often when you have it, you won't cherish it, and you won't regret it until you lose it!

When you are sure that you are in love with someone, you are destined to give everything for him or her;

When the person you fall in love with is also in love with you, you are destined to be happy both!

When the person you fall in love with doesn't love you, you are destined to suffer for him (her) for the rest of your life!

Some people are good, but you don't love them; But some people can't say anything good, but you will fall in love with him (her), you really don't need any reason to love someone, since you love, don't regret it!

Behind the breakup is pain! If you still love him (her), please don't break up easily, maybe you are tired of love, maybe you are tired of love! But please don't give up halfway!

Cherish your love!

Love requires both parties to be committed, tolerated with each other, and care for each other.

Love can't be opened, but it can make you regret it for a lifetime.

Love has laughter and tears, bitterness and sweetness.

Love, sweet and sour, all kinds of tastes.

Love starts easily and breaks up painfully.

The love process is beautiful, but the ending is not.

Love needs to slow down.

Love runs too fast and falls.

Love is like a three-legged game for two.

Love requires a little bit of tacit cooperation.

Love is built in the hearts of both parties.

Love is not the only thing in life, but it is the focus of life.

Love transcends time and space and age has no distance.

Love brings two hearts closer to each other.

Love makes you desperate.

Love is a nonsensical joke.

Love can't be caught.

Love can't feel its presence.

Love can know its departure.

Love is only for two people together.

Love can't be perfect, but it's always something to look forward to.

Love is a type of happiness.

Love is a cup of coffee with milk sweet honey.

Love is not a game and there is no winning or losing.

Love is not difficult to say, it is easy to say, only people in love can understand.

People are like this, they always know how to cherish after losing, we always envy what we don't have, and ignore what we already have, in fact, what we should cherish most is not what has been lost and what has not been gained, but what we are having.

Although this sentence is meaningless, people are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around you who have been silently loving you. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

If you can't let go of this relationship more or less in your heart, I think it's impossible for you to let go quickly, even if you are making greater efforts, it won't help. Please give love a little distance, but this distance should be like the wind, always lingering around you, instead of lingering in the flowers and never thinking about it. When you love, you must leave some distance for love, to be able to love so plainly and plainly, in fact, it is the greatest happiness, don't have to be too greedy, don't have too much demand, don't have too much luxury, don't have too much demand, let it be like a hibiscus in the pool, natural growth, exude a faint beauty, elegant fragrance.

If you really want to give up, why dwell on the past? There is always no fate, and even if we meet, it is in vain. The encounter between people is a fate given by God, but such a fate becomes too shallow in the face of fate, so no matter how reluctant or unwilling people are, some encounters are destined to be separation.

If you are fate, time will also give you the opportunity to think more about each other, give each other more care, why quarrel if you love each other. Learn to understand, learn to be tolerant. Good luck.