If the man says that he will end this relationship as soon as possible if he doesn t get married for

There are several meanings of his words, and at present I can divide them into two simple ones: 1 He is estimated to be a person who has been hurt before, and he is afraid that he will be hurt again by false feelings, so he proposes marriage to bind the object (in fact, it is to make you love him wholeheartedly, which is a self-consoling behavior, after all, you are married) 2 The family wants him to get married soon, but he can't help it. can only quickly find a partner (the person you like, but this kind of like is difficult to say, after all, it is in a hurry to find) In this case, the man proposed to give a year of time together to get to know each other, this is a man worth cherishing. If the man is not serious and says that he must get married for about a year, this kind of relationship is not too cherished.

In fact, the choice is in your hands, I just make a little suggestion, maybe you already know. When I got married, I don't think I should get married hastily, give myself more time to find someone I really love, someone worthy of lifelong trust. Don't leave yourself with regrets in your life.

Since the man said this, the purpose and clarity are that he wants to get married as soon as possible, after all, time waits for no one, if he has a good enough relationship, I don't think he will say this.

It depends on why he is in such a hurry to get married, he is old, or a family problem, if not, then it is time to think about this relationship, women can afford it, men should be able to afford it...

When he needs you the most, you don't show up, it's the biggest hurt to the girl, once or twice, she may be able to endure it, and if you do too much, it will break her heart, in your opinion, it's just a trivial matter, a girl is with you, isn't it just that you can love her and cherish her. For a girl, the matter of her boyfriend is a big deal, since you love her so much, how can you not fight for a few days** Quarrel with your girlfriend It is best to solve it at the time After a long time of cold war, the relationship will deteriorate. She said this It can be seen that she is really heartbroken, but she will be like this because she loves you Go to her Go to her and fight hard Don't delay it too long Go to her immediately Otherwise, I'm afraid it will be difficult to recover A man is good to his girlfriend Let her be soft It is not a loss of face at all On the contrary, you will think that you are a good man Mature and generous.

Wow, you guys are so persistent, haha I believe there will be good results, because small things should not be taken to heart, boys should take the initiative, just lower their heads, girls are coaxed, don't tell her in the past, give her a surprise!

Good to propose! It's also the age, you buy one first, and when you have money in the future, buy her a big one, she should agree, it's not easy for a girl to pay ten years of youth for you, come on!

The most painful thing about long-distance relationships is that they have been "in different places", but they will never see the dawn of "the same place".

After 10 years of long-distance relationship, it is already a miracle that it can persist until now, do you want to continue in a long-distance relationship like this? What do you think a woman's vision of a happy life looks like?

Even if we list all her thoughts, tell you one by one, do you want to crack the martial arts moves to "see the moves"? Have you talked to each other about what you want to do in life? Is it the same as the happy life you want?

I don't know any of this, is "persuasion" useful?

After all, you always have to face life, what you should do is to think about how not to quarrel for your so-called trivial things, 10 years of love can't say anything, when you really face firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is what you have to think about, she did the right thing, you should reflect, even if you can chase it back like this, she will go, and go more thoroughly.

Uh, it's best to spend some time researching what your girlfriend is thinking? After that, it's good to prescribe the right medicine, feelings are very delicate, not one or two things are so simple, but to say something that shouldn't be said, if you have done your best to redeem it, but she is still the same, no matter how many years that will let go, because the twisted melon is not sweet, it will only be more painful.

Hey, it's nothing more than trying to make you love her harder, and I often abuse my boyfriend like this, but if I really love her, I will forgive him. It's just that the less this kind of thing happens, the better, because it hurts each other ...

If you think you should go to her and give her time not to contact, then he thinks that you don't care about her even more, and you will have no reason to contact her in the future.

After 10 years of planting, the trees have grown into big trees. Be decisive to find her, go now A second late is your loss. It's been ten years, what time is it given.

Men need to be proactive!!

If it were me, I'd go to her, even for two days. In fact, she really wants to see you, a long-distance relationship is like this, empathize, as long as you meet, those problems will be solved by yourself Honestly, buddy, do a good job!!

Since you have been in love for so many years and have graduated from college, why don't you propose to her directly, even if you don't get married right away, you should make a marriage contract or something. A girl has been talking to you for so long, getting older, but she can't even find the sense of security that she has settled. It's too silly not to think about it calmly with you, right?

If you don't want to leave, you don't have to stay, and if you want to go, you can stay.

Try to get it back, buddy.

She is insecure, maybe afraid that you don't love her, you might as well propose to her directly. In the TV series, there has been a can lid proposal, you can tell her that I can't afford to buy a good ring yet, but in the future, I will definitely buy one for you... Think for yourself).

Since you are in a long-distance relationship, I advise you not to go on, there will be a lot of troubles in the future, and there are many more things that are easy to suspect, so it is better to cut through the mess quickly. lest you have a bad life in the future and divorce again, and then it will be even more painful. I hope you'll think twice.

You try to care more than you like, from the perspective of a friend.

If both of you are fiercely in love, then buy a bouquet of flowers and go to her! Prove it with words and deeds. Then give her time, don't use ** text messages or anything, face-to-face is king, a kiss and a hug, hug tightly, don't let go!

Run to her to make it clear and admit your mistakes.

I'm going to go to her and find out what the problem is.

Divide it.,Your dad just said that he couldn't stand it.,,It's okay to get married in the future.,Not to mention that he's angry if he's not married.。。。 Your dad said he was doing it for his good, too

Man, be generous, just go over, you have to talk about him.

It's not worth it, although marriage is said to be small is a matter of two people, and when it is big, it is a matter of two families. If the family is not harmonious, it is useless to barely do it.

If a man can't withstand this little test, he doesn't want it, which means that your life can't get along.

I'm in this situation too, and my heart is blocked!

Do you love him? , if you don't love it, it's all good.

It's divided.,It's not true love at all.。。。

Look at what to say, after all, do men want to save face?

First of all, there is a thing to say that girls will be very extravagant and wasteful before marriage, and they will know how to be diligent and thrifty after marriage, and the second thing to say is that I don't dare to pack a ticket for him, I don't know how old you are both, but I can only say that such a girl can only say, if you can't open it, just separate as soon as possible, she doesn't seem to care more about whether she loves or not, but how many things you buy him, how much money you spend, and even if it's a relationship, you have to consider your situation, in fact, I'm thinking that your girlfriend may be what you're used to. I hope you will think more about yourself when you fall in love, I like a boy like you very much, but she really doesn't deserve you like this, not only do you have money or not, even if you are a rich second generation, have you ever thought that she doesn't consider your economic situation and mental environment, is the original love spoiled and turned into a product of money?

It's not whether you can afford it, but whether she knows how to love from the bottom of her heart and really loves you

Such a woman can't afford to raise it, and it's not easy to raise, even if she gets married, if someone else gives her greater benefits, she will also go out of the wall, forget it as soon as possible.

Forget it, can you raise such a woman, but if you love him very much, talk to her openly and honestly, she understands and talks to her, and if she doesn't understand, forget it as soon as possible.

Have a good talk with her, talk about it, don't let your love be her willful bargaining chip, it's very bad after getting married, so I hope you can sit down with each other and say please, you can, you can't, you can't just swing a knife to cut the long pain is better than the short pain.

Then she is really a little selfish, and she must be cautious about marriage.

Then you can just say that my husband and I used to quarrel occasionally, but now we don't.

You just let him or he let you grind slowly.

In this case, it will completely hurt each other once, separate for a period of time, if two people still miss the old love, just reflect on the faults of both parties, if two people are separated and don't want to be together, then forget it, let go as soon as possible, don't waste each other's time, if both people love each other deeply, the more quarrelsome the relationship will be stronger, and the more you don't want to lose each other.

None of that husband likes his wife, grumpy and yelling. Do you like your husband doing this to you? Surely you won't like it either.

For the husband and wife to have a good relationship and a happy family. Please change yourself quickly, you can't do this. Your husband has done a good job, you have to cherish him.

He may not be angry with you, for a man who doesn't love you, as long as you say a word that is not hearty, he will say that you don't care about his feelings, and my husband and I are like that

It's time to calm down and judge the problems facing life positively There must be a reason for getting angry Many things are not superficial Think more empathy and say it well There is also married life is a good choice You can try it.

Do you really like each other?

A quarrel is much stronger than the Cold War.

Because he likes you and doesn't know how to express it, scolding you is trying to get your attention, and he is jealous when you are still with other men.

He is forcing people to cater to him, and if he doesn't follow him, he threatens you with bad benefits, and in the end he doesn't love you as much as you think.

If you love both of you, take the initiative to take a step back, change your temper, and immediately go to do something else when your temper comes up, or just divert your attention, just read more and make more positive friends.

Either you have the ability to change him, or you can wronged yourself, my boyfriend doesn't like me to yell loudly, don't blindly compromise, advance and retreat in moderation.

Isn't your husband still growing up?

No, you don't love each other that much.

Divorce, just what he said is the theorem?

Is it because you are tired of your relationship, or because you are tired of work, the two of you get along, there are more contradictions, there are more noises, and you will feel tired and bored slowly, but you will be sad when you are separated.

I'm not interested in you anymore, I'm starting to be estranged from you or I have someone else in my heart! If you're not married, don't expect him to love you, prepare to break off with him as soon as possible! Don't hang yourself from a tree, just find your own happiness and destiny if you care about yourself!

When you are tired, you don't necessarily have to say feelings, men face relatively more things, care more, don't be willful.

Women don't demand too much from men, and it's not easy to know men early.

Maybe I'm disappointed in myself! Give him more encouragement and comfort!

As a 100% man, I think 100% I want to break up.

Possibly, but it's up to you what to do.

No! You can rest when you're tired, but it's okay to give up.

Yes, his expectations for you have been disappointed.

Yes, many of a man's love words are replaced by other words.

Doesn't mean anything! Just care more!

Well, yes, let's break up, the woman can't afford to delay.

Probably he's just confused, your approach makes him overwhelmed, he doesn't know what to do next, hesitating and thinking too much, that's why he's tired...

Not necessarily, maybe it's a bump at this stage.

He was looking to see if that person would be retained.

It shows that he is starting to get bored with this relationship and wants to give up.

Mainly depends on her attitude, girls have convulsions. But you have to be sure if she's having a convulsion or doesn't want to be with you. Girls who are in the convulsion period like to think crankily and think about some things that they don't have, but she just has convulsions, it's not that she doesn't like you, she just needs to sort out her convulsions.

If she doesn't want to deal with you, you have to be prepared and don't be the saddest one, because it is possible that she is just playing with you, and of course it can't be said that she is not serious. But feelings are like this, you can't force them, you can follow your heart. If she really doesn't want to deal with it, you can redeem it, if you really can't get it back, don't be a villain, be a gentleman with grace.

Maybe I'm tired of it! Of course, calm down.

There should be space between people to interact with each other, and it is easy to get tired of being together all the time, which is emotional fatigue.

At this time, give each other a little time, isn't it a common saying: Isn't Xiao Bie better than getting married?

And, if you think about it on the bad side: it could be that she's just playing with you. Then you better let your feelings down a little. Of course, the premise is that she hasn't looked for you after you say goodbye!!