Love her. I will bless her, but how painful it will be to give up

After reading your story, it touched me very much, and I didn't know how to persuade you, because we are all the same, and I am not qualified to judge you, because after I separated from my friend, I was even crazier than you, and I had to break down, and losing him was like losing the whole world, everything no longer had any meaning, I seemed to feel that my life had stopped breathing, and I really wanted to die at that moment, but I knew that I still loved him very much, I wanted to see him, I wanted to hear his voice, so I lived with tears every day, In this way, I insisted on 6 months, my heart has been concerned about him, thinking about him all the time, he has been living in my shadow, I can't forget the 3 years of feelings, let alone forget, how much we used to love each other, everything about me changed because of him, and now he left me, didn't give me any news about him, and even pulled my QQ into the blacklist, I don't know if it was wrong, he didn't explain a word, just disappeared, I want to disappear from this world as soon as possible, I have been rescued by friends several times, exhausted I have no extravagant hopes, I can only wait silently, I hope that one day he will come back, these 6 months, I have been looking forward to it, but I don't want to disturb his current life, because I know that I love him, I don't want my love to bring him troubles, burdens, I can only wait quietly, even if he will never come back, I am still willing to wait, because I think he will think of me when he is lonely, that will be my greatest happiness, even if I can't get him, I also want him to be happier than me, because I love him, I would rather bear all the pain and let him be happy, I don't need to get anything in return, loving someone is like this, completely losing my mind, I am one of them, my friends all scolded me for not being able to live without a man, but they know that there is no reason to love someone, I just love him forever, I don't care what others think of me, but I want him to be happy. Friend, do you know what I mean?

Sometimes it's better to give up than to freeze there.

There are always a lot of things that people can't think of. But. As long as you feel like it's worth it. So what else is there to say. Did. Loved. Don't regret it.

I'm sorry to tell you,Your understanding is destined for your results.,The people you know in the game may be the ones who live in the game.。

It's good that it hurts so much that I don't know the pain. I don't know how to comfort you, but comfort itself won't help. I've been hurt, I've cried, I've been retained. There is no result, it can only be said that the heavens have not fulfilled people's wishes. Remember her..

What do you mean by "I hope she can be happier"? Do you want her to find someone who is more capable and rich, or do you think she doesn't like it, and you want her to find someone she likes more and has a deeper relationship?

First of all, if it's the former, I don't think you should give up, since you yourself say that you love her, shouldn't you use this love as motivation to create a better future for you and her? The last thing you should do is give her away without making any effort, and I think this will definitely be unwilling. And I always believe that hard work may not be rewarded, but if you don't work hard, you can only eat and wait for death, you don't want your girlfriend to follow you and wait for death, right?

So it's better to make yourself better, work hard, and create a career, instead of thinking that I'm so incompetent that she will be happier with others, this is just an excuse for yourself, and the future is not yet known if you don't work hard.

Secondly, if it's the second case, I don't think you should give up, I don't know how you got good at the beginning, but since you can be together, there must be a relationship foundation, now you can say "give up" This kind of thing I think you have been together for a long time, my suggestion is that since you love her, just be good to her, and the rest of the choices should be made by the other party, you take the initiative to give up the seemingly noble and brave, but in fact it is a coward's behavior, love a girl with all her might, she doesn't accept that it's her thing, If one day she really finds her own happiness, I think that is also the best time for you to quit, rather than giving up before everything is clear.

I hope you don't mind the poor wording, and I wish you and your girlfriend to make it to the end.

So are you incapable, or are you not courageous? The key to this matter depends on the relationship between the two of you. I think anyone who says that kind of thing is irresponsible.

When my husband and I first fell in love, he had nothing, but he told me very firmly that he would be responsible for me in the future and let me live a happy life.

Sometimes the most important thing for a man in a relationship is not that poor self-esteem, but love, and the responsibility that can be borne for love. Sometimes your ability and courage may feel like a burden, but if you love and she loves you, you can work together. Do you give up because of love or because you don't dare to bear the price of love.

If this girl also loves you very much, do you want to live her feelings and life after you give up? Love is a kind of fate that has been regarded as a godsend for thousands of years, and it is the look back among thousands of people, and her choice of you is also a kind of trust among thousands of people. How sad it will be for her to have her heart if you unilaterally fail to live up to that trust.

Even if you work together, because of the final impossibility, it is better to be separated again if you can't get together than to think about giving up without doing anything.

It is not easy for people to meet a person who loves each other in their life, and it is much more important to cherish the value of this feeling in their hearts than to cater to real life. Any woman will be gentle with a man who is constantly working hard and hard for herself. Whose heart is not flesh, and who will not be loved?

If I have been loved, I know how important love is, and if I have given up, I can't imagine what kind of pain and loss it will be. But I am optimistic about all love, because I think that as long as there is love, we will be more motivated and directional, and we will be more confident and full of strength in our struggle.

You are afraid of everything, but you are not afraid of losing her.

You may be hurt and trapped by love, but you must understand: "To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others!" "Whether it's a relationship or a career, as long as we have a clear conscience, it's enough that we have worked hard!

Emotionally, there is no one who is sorry for whom, only who does not cherish whom! Sometimes it's not the heavens that are playing tricks on us, it's us playing tricks on ourselves!

Remember not to waste your time with those who are unwilling to spend it on you. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is doomed to hurt Yes, I know that we can't let go of the person we love the most, the person who hurts us the most If you can let go easily then it's not love. But we have to try to "let go".

What can wash everything away except tears is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, like a constantly diluted tea. Let time take us out of pain! Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and there should be sunny weather after the rain.

If it rains after rain, if sorrow comes after sorrow, let us face this parting calmly. Smile and look for an impossible you! Linghu Chong said"There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves.

My dear friend: Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and don't suppress yourself needlessly. hits, constantly someone leaves or enters.

So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten. In life, there are constantly gains and losses. And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.

However, what is not seen is the same as not existing? Remember, is it never going to go away? Please savor these words carefully Since you can't forget them, let those past events remain silently in your heart, maybe sad, maybe sour, but everything is over!

Love doesn't deceive people, and it can't deceive itself. A relationship, instead of burying it deeply, is better to take it out and clean it up, throw it away or keep it, give it an explanation, and give yourself an explanation. Think about whether it's worth it, you can go to the guard if it's worthy, and don't be demanding if it's not worth it!

Forget it, let it go, and then, go on the road clearly. To look forward to your own happiness I wish you eternal happiness and happiness every day.