Does loving her care about her past? Does really love her care about her past?

I used to be like you. I also thought I could not care, but the truth is that after a year of being together, I couldn't stand it. Maybe it's your own self-esteem that's at fault.

Maybe I'm too young. So I abandoned her. But I now realize how naïve I was.

Because I abandoned a good girl.

No one does not make mistakes, the key is that she is a good person, she can be with you wholeheartedly, and she can take care of your family, which is the most ordinary and greatest love.

Do you have a presence in her past? If you haven't existed, then you don't have the right to care, you have to choose her now, the past can't represent anything, people will change, is it true that virgins, women will be loyal for a lifetime, will a boyfriend who has not talked to you remain the same for a lifetime.

Feelings are a matter of effort on both sides, and if you feel that it is not a good feeling, you can give up, or you have to love her well, unless she is unfaithful to you, then you can leave.

It's up to you whether you can untie this knot.

She just cares, and if she cares about the past, she will feel guilty, you know.

Let the past be the past, right?

Although most people will say that they won't mind her past, there will be some small discomfort in their hearts, even the most generous men are the same in this regard, but it just depends on whether they are hidden deep enough.

I feel like if I really love them, then I don't care about their past. What I value more is the current relationship between two people, in the process of getting along, whether each other can really bring each other happiness and joy, the reason why there is no need to care about each other's past, there are two main reasons:

First, there are many things that we should look at from a development perspective. Although the other party has some unbearable experiences in the past, but this is with their own acquaintance before the talk of the oak, since the wheel should not be too obsessed, if they really like each other, then we do not need to take these things to heart, we should take into account that in the future process and each other get along, whether each other can really feel harmonious, this is the most important factor to ensure the lasting relationship between two people.

Second, if we care about the other person's past, then we and the other person will be more embarrassed in the process of getting along, and even two people will have certain conflicts because of this, which will affect each other's feelings. It will even lead to the breakdown of the relationship between two people, then, there is no need for two people to get along in the first place. Caring about the other party's past shows that he is not particularly resolute about this relationship, and there is a certain prejudice against the other party, so in this case, he should not really pursue the other party in the first place, or accept the other party's confession, which will only waste the time and energy of two people, and cause some damage to each other's hearts.

So, if I really love him, I don't care about his past.

Now society is like this, basically everyone has a "past", so you don't have to care about the "past" of the other person. Cherish the people in front of you, and do it and cherish it!

Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking to heart the things that make the ants unhappy.

When you mind a person's past, it means that the person's past is not boring and exciting. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things as hidden, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

will mind, and it is a lifetime of pain, if you want to be happy for a lifetime, go find someone you don't mind, and don't leave yourself with a lifetime of regrets.