My girlfriend said she was sad and wanted to be separated from me for a while

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe. I'm worse than you, my boyfriend and I are in Anhui and one in Liaoning, when we first met, we just went online and sent messages, but we really like each other, and you are not happy, I have very few doors, and I can't be together with each other at all, almost two years of chatting before I came to his house to play a summer vacation, and then there are two places apart, this year we all graduated and looked for a job before walking together (I came to Anhui), there have been three years, but now I am very happy. I can understand the suffering of you and your girlfriend best, women, what they need most is a sense of security, and you are not by his side, he must feel very lonely.

    You can't do it like this, only one person accommodates another person to his side, otherwise the long-distance relationship is difficult to maintain, at the beginning of my relationship also had a disagreement, his family said that they did not object to us being together, but he couldn't go to my house, if I came to his side, his house agreed, there was no way to sacrifice for love. If you really want to be together, then you can only think more about each other, and then plan for the future, I believe you will be very happy. Give her more confidence.

    It's only possible if two people work together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Read so many of their words. I was inspired myself.

    Brother, I'm worse than you. You could think I'm a fool. [I found the topic today because I was unhappy.] It's not to earn points, it's just to find a guy who shares the same disease].

    My wife is in Japan. I'm in China. I can't go even if I want to.

    At least not this year.

    It will be 964 days before she returns. [Gone that day] and today is his birthday.

    But I seemed to annoy her.

    No matter how you hit ** at night, no one answered.

    I don't know what to do.

    I hope we can all make it to the light of day.

    But there is one thing I agree with. You can surprise him a little.

    Didn't the upstairs also have a three-year long-distance relationship?

    He can, so can we.

    I wish all the true lovers of long-distance relationships to become married. This is also the most expensive wish for myself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Feelings can stand the test of time,,, don't give up, tell her not to give up,,, it's enough to be together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My boyfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, almost 3 years, although we only see each other once in a few months, but we will talk to each other every day, so my advice to you is that if you don't see each other often, you can get through more**, give each other some comfort and encouragement, especially girls want their boyfriends to care more about her, you can also give her some surprises at the right time, girls are easy to satisfy, I hope you can be happy with your girlfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you love her, you must love each other and protect her!

    One of you can go to work in the other's city, so you can be together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I know how much your heart hurts, and you might be able to change your clothes and follow her, but it's not good

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe it's not great to go every week either! I think.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's what's wrong with you, the basic trust between the two of them must be needed, if you don't even have trust, then you can hardly get along.

    When your girlfriend says that she will be separated from you, she may really feel very sad, so you might as well follow her wishes and separate for a while.

    Of course, during the period, you still have to take the initiative to care more about her, women, they all need to be coaxed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Girls are always more reserved and subtle in their expression, it depends on what you want to do. Girls are treasures at home, and the occasional little temper can add some material to the feelings, but it doesn't work when it's often used. Time is the best touchstone, sometimes, you need to give each other a little space, a little freedom, you don't need to stick together every day, life is not only love, in life every bit can observe each other's behavior, this is a lifetime thing.

    Now love is like cooked noodles, and you can easily give it before you know what you want. Or to put it another way, they have already been brave enough to try.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Two people are together, in love, get along, and the most important thing is to trust.

    Trust each other.

    You can't be suspicious all day long.

    You have to have enough confidence in yourself.

    Your girlfriend told you that she was separated for a while, she wanted to give each other a little space, calm down with each other, and everyone should think calmly.

    You should talk to her face-to-face and express your truest thoughts.

    You can also take a hard look at it by separating yourself from this time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, it is certain that there is something wrong with your relationship, and the girlfriend said that they will be separated for a while, which literally means that both of them should calm down and find a good way to maintain and consolidate the relationship between the two people, but in real life, the girlfriend said this just to not hurt the feelings and pave the way for herself to find another relationship, and the period of time she said may be a lifetime.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can understand your mood that you want to be with her, but you can't cry and make trouble, this is why anyone will be very disgusted with you doing this, there is a problem with your way of recovery, at this point you have to reflect on yourself, where did your crying and fussing emotions come from, have you had it since you were a child?

    If she really wants to leave you, it's useless for you to cry, she said that she hopes that she will be quiet and think about it, and there is also a meaning, I also hope that you will think about it too! At this time, don't bother her, give her time, you do this, it is respect for her, and she will not get tired of you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's a disaster that can't be avoided, and the mentality is calm. If the breakup is a foregone conclusion, it doesn't hurt to be a little late. Don't think too much, the probability of intuition is higher. If you really love him, talk to him about what you really think about each other's psyche.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since the relationship has been established as a boyfriend and girlfriend, you should trust each other, even if you have doubts, don't say it easily, it will hurt people, unless you sit down, otherwise it is not recommended to propose it to the other party, and there is no way to separate if you really want to.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Lovers must trust each other when they get along with each other, and if you are so indiscriminately suspicious of your girlfriend, then your girlfriend will definitely be very angry. So she's separated from you for a while, which is completely understandable.

    You have to apologize to your girlfriend or buy a gift to coax your girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If one of your girlfriends says that they will be separated for a while, it is likely that there is some conflict between your girlfriend and you, so no matter what, you must persuade you to have good communication in this place.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is possible that she is biased against you, resentful of you, or a little bit of a dislike of you. Maybe she has a heart and wants to find an excuse to strain the relationship between the two of you and then break up with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This can only say that your approach may not make him new enough, I think it's good to take advantage of your world, but don't take too long, hurry up with him, so that it is possible to save the relationship between you, otherwise it will be difficult.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It may be that she wants to continue this relationship with you, wants to try what the time is like without you, if he persists, then he really doesn't love you, if she can't hold on then she will definitely come back to you, and then it will be a lifetime.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In this case, you are a little dissatisfied with your relationship, and maybe you have to reflect on whether what you have done has disappointed you, your girlfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It may be that it hurts his heart too much, and he doesn't even trust each other, he thinks it's better to be separated for a while, calm down, and see if it's appropriate to be together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Most likely, it was a precursor to a breakup, and my ex told me that we broke up a week later.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not that I mean to break up, because I didn't trust her before, and I was a little unhappy. That's why I said this, I can't agree with it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he doesn't reply to your messages anymore, is it still necessary for you to maintain this unnecessary relationship? Personally, I suggest that if he wants to break up, then you can just say yes to him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    She does want to break up with you. It could be that you put too little trust in her, so she is now a little suspicious of your feelings for her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Just send a gift to apologize and coax.

    What she likes, you know.

    If you wait a while, you will probably break up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's just that I don't love anymore and want to break up, just ask, if there is love, then why should we be separated shouldn't every second of being together be sweet?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    To say that I don't want to be with you anymore, and if you agree, it's over.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not sure about breaking up is just punishing you for not wanting to give up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Explain that both the girl and you should think about it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It can be seen from your girlfriend's words that she has not completely given up on the possibility of being with you, but she also needs time and space to think and process her feelings. Spending time apart may be to give each other some time and space to think calmly and deal with the problems in the relationship, while also giving each other the opportunity to pursue their own personal goals and interests. Your girlfriend is willing to continue sleeping with you because she still cares about you, but also needs time to balance her emotions and life.

    It is recommended that you respect her decision and give each other some time and space, but also pay attention to your inner feelings, find your own focus in life, and do not rely too much on each other. If you really have fate, I believe that time will tell.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When a girlfriend says to be apart for a while, it may be that she wants some space and time to think about her mid-lease relationship, or she may have some personal issues that need to be addressed. Here are some possible reasons:

    1.She needs some time to think: In this case, she may need some time to review her feelings and see if she really wants to stay with you. This may be the reason why she wants to be separated for a while.

    2.She has personal issues to solve: Sometimes, her girlfriend can be separated for a while because she has some personal issues to solve, such as family problems, work problems, or health problems.

    In this case, she needs some time to deal with her own problems so that she can better deal with her relationship problems.

    3.She wants to rekindle the relationship: Sometimes, the girlfriend may feel that the relationship has become dull, or that the relationship between two people has become not good enough. In this case, she may offer to separate for a while in order to rekindle the relationship.

    4.She needs space to pursue other things: Sometimes, your girlfriend may feel like she is spending too much time with you and not having room to pursue her hobbies or career goals.

    In this case, she may make a proposal to separate for a while to be able to better balance her life.

    Whatever the reason, when your girlfriend says to be apart for a while, you need to respect her decision and give her enough space and time to deal with her own problems. At the same time, you can also communicate with her and understand her thoughts and feelings in order to better understand her decision and decide what to do next.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When you come back, people around you will already call you husband.

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