What do you think of the class reunion that has now gone sour?

This should be the inevitable trend of society, engaged in different jobs, no common language, the previous feelings are almost forgotten, the good ones look down on the bad ones, they think they are superior, they are inferior to the poor, and they don't want to mention the status quo, so they have changed their taste.

The current class reunion is just, and after drinking, they go back to their respective homes. It's boring, it's really getting boring.

It's normal, I went to the class reunion once when I just graduated, and I never went there since. However, you can make an appointment with classmates who have a better relationship to get together and chat. The others go to him when he is free, and forget if he is not free.

It must be like this, after stepping into society, it is destined to be more or less tasteless. But it's true, identity, status, assets, people compare a lot of these things, we are not as pure as we were when we were students.

I hate it, I don't like it, I still like the simple feeling I had when I was in school, but we've all changed, and it's all inevitable.

Anyway, such a class reunion, it's better to see each other than to miss each other. I don't go to such class reunions, I usually go to enjoy the happiness that class reunions bring.

It's a little sad, after all, they were all so simple classmates at the beginning, and now they have been polished like this by society, and the simple self in the past can only be recalled in the future.

Class reunions, which used to be the gathering of good friends, have now changed their taste. I just think it's a pity that my previous relationship was really a pity.

I just attended a junior high school reunion, and my classmates in the past have now become the evaluators of whether you mix well or not. It's just to prove that I'm doing well.

Youth is a keepsake book, and we can only leave wonderful things in the past. Graduation means parting, and graduation means that life must start a new process. After graduation, as we are all faced with problems such as work, life, love, or marriage, etc., partying.

It seems that it used to be difficult to scream a hundred times.

First: Many of us have a habit of being in groups of three or five when we are at school, and we usually only wait with my classmates who are close to me and have a particularly good relationship. Eat together, go shopping, and even take a bath together.

In fact, classmates' gatherings don't have much of a topic with those classmates who don't usually communicate much, so if my best classmates don't come, I will also retreat and be reluctant to go.

Second: In school, we are classmates, except for learning, we don't have too many ingredients, and friendship and classmates are very pure. However, after we graduate, the road we have seen and the things we have experienced, we will more or less change the appearance of some people who like to compare, and some people still have the same appearance when they were studying.

The topics they talk about are different. Stuffy others talk about things and talk about things, and don't speculate for more than half a sentence, so if you are bored and boring, you will be unhappy at the next party and don't want to go again.

Thirdly, after graduation, the work of Peijia will always take up a large part of our time, and the working hours will be very different depending on the workplace we are in. Some people just got off the night shift, or some people can't come back from a business trip, or some people just don't feel well.

Fourth: When we get together, we will see the person we once liked. I may have had someone I like or is married, and I don't want to see him or her.

It is said that the gathering party also came to Mazhongyuan for a date. Some of my classmates can understand these truths, so they prefer to hide.

Fifth: If it is a meeting of older classmates, they may not be able to attend the meeting due to some unexpected reason that they are no longer there.

Today's classmates feel that they have lost their original taste, and they originally participated in the alumni meeting to exchange feelings, but now the alumni association has become a place for comparison.

I think it's because everyone's work situation is different, some people may not have a good job, and their economic situation is not very good, so they don't want to participate in the class reunion, and they don't want to let their classmates know their embarrassment.

Now it is very crooked, and many people don't like to participate in class reunions, because many class reunions are some of the better people who have developed and buried their friends to show off. There is no previous friendship at all.

Because the class reunion is no longer just chatting with old friends, Hermione has become a place to show off his capital, and the stool posture makes many people feel very uncomfortable.

Because we used to think that the class reunion was just a gathering of old classmates, nostalgic for the original time, and nostalgic for some of the stories that happened to us at that time. In fact, the party is a very good thing, talk about our own side, nostalgia, it used to be good. But now the times are different, people have become very fond of comparison, and many people are not talking about the scene of going to school before, but about their current work, their own family, and their own conditions.

In fact, everyone faces different things when they grow up, so there must be a gap in our living standards, but these things should not be used for comparison, they should make their lives better, but when you see your classmates, keep showing off your this, show off your that, then the gap between people will naturally widen. There is a sense of hierarchy between us, and when it comes to nature, we don't want to talk and speculate, and we don't want to meet again next time, because we think it will be awkward.

Originally, after separation, we will be busy with each other, we will have our own careers, we will have our own families, and we usually have less contact, so the feelings will be relatively unfamiliar, and the topics we talk about together are also relatively not, to be honest, if we live together, we may be talking about the past, talking about the current situation, but we can't take some things out as a comparison. But nowadays, many people just like to take out their own affairs, show off all kinds of things, and praise each other.

If you mix well, you are afraid that others will not know about it, and you will show off your situation in various ways, and if you mix it badly, you don't dare to open your mouth at all, for fear of being looked down upon. The friendship between classmates is not as pure as before, the relationship is getting farther and farther away, and in addition to various comparisons, then it will naturally be embarrassing, if it is like this, then it will definitely not be willing to party again, it is better to have a few good parties together, so that it will be a little happier.

It's because in today's life, people have a comparison mentality, and when they are at class reunions, people will show off what they have, and they will sarcastically mock others, so it is very embarrassing.

This happens because some people are very introverted and they haven't seen each other for a long time, and they've become very strangers.

Because the current class reunion has become an occasion for some people to brag, and the relationship between classmates has become much worse than before, so it is becoming more and more embarrassing.

Gathering every year, growing old every year, getting old and declining.

With the entry into society, those youthful days are gone. There should be many people who have such a resonance, there are many friends who used to have a good relationship, but as they enter different life journeys: enter different schools, go to different positions, and form their own families, they gradually lose contact, and some friends will never even have the opportunity to meet again in their lives.

In the dark and lonely night, in the midst of the staggering, a memory in the brain will be ignited, illuminating the once beautiful but gradually blurred figure. When I think of my friends who are no longer in touch, I can't help but feel a lot of pity. Maybe because of embarrassment and unfamiliarity, I don't dare to say a greeting on WeChat:

How are you doing? When are we going to get together? Because everything is too compact in this era, two people have to live each other's busy lives, and even meeting each other has become a luxury, and the maintenance of feelings has become difficult.

Last month, I met Xiao Li, a junior high school classmate with whom I had a good relationship, at the mall. After so many years, everyone's appearance is no longer as youthful as it was at the beginning, but she still recognized me at a glance in the crowd.

I haven't seen you in years! Xiao Li patted me on the shoulder excitedly. All of a sudden, memories rose like Kong Ming lanterns.

We had a brief chat about her current life, she has a happy family of her own, and I am still working hard. Because she and her husband were going somewhere else, we didn't have a long conversation, and before leaving, Xiao Li told me, "I'll go first, and I'll definitely invite you to dinner this week."

This sentence made me excited for a week, and I look forward to meeting Xiao Li again every day, so that we can sit down and have a good chat. I waited and waited, and nothing happened.

Looking at her circle of friends, I realized that her husband had changed positions and she had also gone to other places.

I am reminded of the famous absurdist play "Waiting for Godot", where two homeless men spend a long time waiting for Godot, a man who never appeared. In the process of waiting, there is anxiety and anticipation. There is despair, and there is joy.

It's like I was waiting for Xiao Li's ** that week.

Perhaps the waiting itself is meaningless, but the sensual human being has to give a deep meaning to the waiting.

We had a good past, and that's enough. It's something that belongs only to the two of us.

And she should also go to a better place and have a better life.

Only then did I realize that we were not separated, but just went to a better place together.