Why are some people afraid of hardship, and some people are not afraid?

Only those who endure hardships will become superior people".

Why are some people afraid of hardship? It is because they have not suffered hardship; There are people who are not afraid to endure hardships because they have experienced hardships and endured a lot of hardships.

Those who have endured hardships must have a future; Those who have not suffered should hurry up and endure hardship.

Fear of hardship or fear of hardship depends on the individual's ability to endure hardship, as well as the cognition and perception of hardship.

If a person is afraid of hardship, it means that the person is incompetent. Willing to be eliminated by society, there is no future. Diligence can solve all problems, fear of hardship, is to close the door to success, bitterness is a kind of tempering, bitterness is a good medicine, let people awaken, urge people to forge ahead, afraid of hardship, it is easy to go into a desperate situation, without the tempering of life and death, get by, mess around, no ambition, don't learn this kind of unproductive people.

People will be afraid of hardship, because if they endure hardship, it will hurt their body, make them feel tired, have no strength, and after paying, if there is no gain, it will also hurt their hearts.

People have inertia, they are afraid of tiredness and hardship, this is nature, but only according to the nature to live is not an individual but an animal, can overcome the nature, according to their own ideals and life plans to live can be called individual.

First of all, it is necessary to see what he does not suffer.

Some people say that half of the progress of science and technology is driven by lazy people. It's not necessarily true, but there's some truth to it.

Therefore, not suffering is not necessarily a bad thing, and it depends on what kind of thing is being made.

Secondly, enduring hardships and standing hard work is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is correct to be willing to endure hardships in the things that you like and love. If you don't even suffer what you like and love, then this person ......Education is required (in this case, extensive education).

Finally, people who do not endure hardship may be willing to do so because of the following reasons: First, because of their own inferiority complex, they think that no matter how much effort they try, they will not change the status quo, so they always say that they are very tired and do not want to suffer that sin. Second, perhaps because of their own growth environment, they are afraid of melting in their mouths, and the doting education that they are afraid of falling away in their hands will cause some people to become mothers, and these people will not suffer due to the influence of the family environment.

Of course, there are many specific things that need to be analyzed concretely.

<> not everyone is afraid of hardship, some people are not afraid of hardship, just as some people are not afraid of the dark, some people are afraid of the dark, some people have the strength, and some people have no strength. One is the concept, the second is exercise, and the third is habit.

It depends on your definition of "fear of hardship", what is fear of hardship, what criteria are used to measure fear and fear, and what standard is used to measure hardship and non-suffering. In fact, people and all animals are not afraid of hardship, for example, animals spend most of their time looking for food, which is very tiring and bitter, they have to walk a long way, they have to go over mountains and mountains, and the same is true for people. People can endure hunger and cold, and they work for long hours, and they work happily.

This is the animal side of man, which is innate.

Why are people afraid of hardship? This is mainly because people nowadays are used to living a comfortable life, so they don't want to endure hardships in family life, and they are afraid of hardships.

Hello. Human beings are born with inertia, and this is innate human nature. But we have to overcome this nature, or when you encounter a very big change, you can naturally change or even change like a different person.

Everyone hopes to succeed without suffering, but that's not realistic. If they can't afford not to suffer, then they want to suffer as little as possible. Hardship, no one likes it, hardship makes people mentally exhausted, slow, confused, emotionally unstable, and even causes people to think about it and collapse when it is serious.

Because people are very lazy, not all of them are very industrious, so everyone is afraid of hardship, and everyone wants to live the life of a rich person.

The reason why people are afraid of suffering is because people are lazy, so they are afraid of suffering and sometimes avoid it. It's going to face it!

Because of the bitterness, it is also really bitter, everyone has to taste the ups and downs of life, there is harm with contrast, who doesn't want to be relaxed, it's useless to be afraid of bitterness, and it can't be avoided, only positive, optimistic, upward, and good mentality, can you face it calmly, life is bitter and sweet, life is bitter, life is mixed, and you know how sweet it is after tasting bitterness.

It may be that the growth environment of young people is relatively comfortable now, and they will slowly become afraid of hardship if they have not experienced any difficulties.

Because enduring hardship is a very tiring process, and it can also make people feel very unhappy, many people are reluctant to endure hardship.

Because being born may be blessed, but as you grow older, you may become a tool to make money, and people will slowly feel that suffering is a way of life.

Because enduring hardship is a difficult thing to do, only those who have perseverance and strong will can not be afraid of hardship.

It's not that I'm afraid of hardship. It's human nature to be greedy and playful, and we don't want to be under too much pressure.

Hope, thank you!

They all want to be happy, who wants to endure hardships if they are not forced by life.

Because all people are inert.

Because it's hard to endure hardship.

This is a common trait of all people.

Because it's too hard to live like this.

Not everyone is afraid of hardship, and there is nothing wrong with hardship, you can exercise yourself.

There are several reasons for this:

1. Parents build greenhouses to make their children become delicate babies.

Children are easy to become little princesses or little princes at home, because the material living conditions are getting better and better, many children in addition to their parents, there are grandfathers, grandmothers, grandmothers, grandfathers four older generations to take care of, a group of adults around a child, children at home is completely the treatment of princesses and princes.

2. Meticulous care, unable to develop the ability to live alone.

In order to let the child grow up in a better environment, parents give the child meticulous care, dress to know the crack, eat to feed, parents can hold the child and never let the child walk by himself, etc. Some parents still pursue the educational viewpoint of 'greenhouse growth' and are reluctant to let their children do a little bit of help. Interfering in things like eating and dressing will only gradually wear out the child's instincts and make it impossible to develop the ability to live alone.

3. Don't believe in the child, won't let go.

Parents should learn to let go in the process of educating their children, and when it is time to guide their children, they should reach out their hands early, and never interfere when they should not reach out. Only the flowers that have experienced the baptism of wind and rain can bloom for a long time, and the children who have experienced the hardships and hardships of education can experience the sweetness of growth, so as to become a strong and independent individual.

This question is not a universal phenomenon, it is an isolated phenomenon, and it is a false proposition. You can't substitute points for faces.

The peasants are a weak group in society. Why? There are four reasons for this:

First, migrant workers in urban areas are all economically disadvantaged groups, whose families are poor or financially poor, and they need to earn money to support their families. There are old people in the family, even small ones, or seriously ill people, who urgently need a lot of money to make up for expenses, and they have to work hard, rely on their own bodies as the capital, and use hard blood and sweat to buy physical strength, work hard, and get wages. There is no idea that you don't want to work overtime and are afraid of hardship.

If there is, it is only a few people, then only those who are poor and wait for death will be eliminated by society. Second, there is great pressure on the employment of migrant workers from rural areas to urban areas. It is relatively easy to find a job with technical ability.

If you have no technology or ability, or have poor technical ability, you can only use your own physical strength to earn money, it is not easy to find a better job, how can you pick and choose, and there is no fear of hardship and do not want to work overtime. Third, urban life is stressful. If you find a job and can provide room and board, you are lucky, but if you take care of yourself, it will be troublesome.

Three meals a day, rental management fees, water and electricity fees, transportation expenses, and daily pocket expenses are all real gold**, irreplaceable, and inseparable from money for a moment. They don't have the choice of not wanting to work overtime.

Fourth, it is the dream of most young people in rural areas to settle in the city. In order to realize this dream, it is necessary to have a lot of money to back it up, and it is necessary to pay a huge amount of labor to obtain it and realize it. They are motivated, and they don't have the choice of not wanting to work overtime.

In addition, it is not denied that some rural youths do not receive a good education at home, are pampered, indulgent and lazy, and are afraid of hardship and tiredness. This is not a universal phenomenon, it is an isolated phenomenon. They do not have a good living space, and they must be eliminated by the city, by life, and by society.

There is no corresponding return.

There is also the feeling that there is no corresponding return. Generally speaking, the harder work will definitely take more energy and time than the lighter work. But in some companies, even if you work hard, you get the same money as any other easy job.

And even if you sometimes assign you a little too many leadership tasks and let you work overtime in the company at night, there is no charge for this overtime situation.

Then, for such a situation, whether it is young people or those old employees, they must be unhappy, but if you want to continue to stay in the company, you can only accept such rules and regulations, or you can only leave your job and go to work in other better companies.

Health. Of course, it is not excluded that some young people want to maintain their health and maintain their health. Don't think it's nonsense, think how old young people are, and start to maintain health, shouldn't this be a topic that middle-aged and elderly people should care about.

But the actual situation is that some young people have also begun to maintain their health, when they drink water, they generally drink the kind of tea that is more healthy, and strictly control their own work and rest rules, go to bed early and get up early, and run and exercise in the morning every morning.

Then, in this case, they will choose a job that is relatively close to their regular schedule and time, and this kind of work is not too hard, but the salary is still relatively high.

Household environmental impacts.

There is also a situation where it is affected by the family environment. The living environment is indeed not the same as before, and the infrastructure of the city is very convenient, both in terms of food and living, it is also very rich.

When they finish college and want to go to work in the company, it is inevitable that there will be a certain gap with some of the environment in the home, and they feel that this kind of work is not what they want, and they are too tired, they don't want to do such a job, so they want to resign and find those relatively easy jobs, which makes many leaders feel that young people are becoming more and more unwilling to "endure hardship".

It should be said that today's young people have been spoiled since childhood, and many young people are only children, so they have been spoiled by grandparents, grandparents, parents, and a large family since childhood, so they will have too many self-centered ideas, and therefore they are unwilling to bear too much pressure, so they are afraid of hardship.

What is the fear of hardship, it depends on the ratio of wages to labor intensity, you don't earn much and are tired and tired, what will you do? Now there is a pathological phenomenon in society. Wages are generally surprisingly low, and labor intensity is still high.

If you move bricks for 20,000 a month, there are also people who do it. When I was in elementary school, I cooked instant noodles for five per piece, and my dad earned two thousand per month, but now? According to the cost of survival, you have to earn 8,000 yuan for the same job, but now?

Only about 4000-5000, will it survive? If you don't want to do it, you don't want to! Now that the population is so large, the cost of manpower cannot go up, on the one hand, if you don't do it, some people will do it, and the salary will not rise, on the other hand, the cost of survival will rise, and it will be impossible for people to hold on.

In the end, only those who inherited the surplus capital of the previous generation will survive, and this is the evolution of the peacetime years. Those who remain are bound to be excellent species. A person who has outstanding talents in a certain area.

Nowadays, society is too impetuous, especially those who get rich overnight on the Internet and become Internet celebrities, so that some young people think that success is easy, so they are unwilling to endure hardships and choose shortcuts that are easier to succeed. However, many educated young people will know that only by enduring hardships can they become superiors, and they will choose to endure hardships. What's more, because young people grow up, they basically want what they want, and they are very rich in materials, and they have not experienced the hardships of their parents, so they are not used to hardship.

It cannot be said that young people nowadays are afraid of hardship, but the proportion is higher. Because today's young people have better living conditions since childhood and grew up under the protection of their parents, they do not have the spirit of hardship.

Almost none of the good people around me have suffered much, you know? The superiority of good times, many times, is no less than adversity, and even I think that people who live in good times will always be better than people who often live in adversity, good times can prompt people to form a virtuous circle, but once you accidentally break through a mouth, you may suffer a disaster; Adversity is easy to make people fall into a vicious circle, but once you find a breakthrough, you can also enter the good times, but I find that in general, it is difficult to break through, and it is really not good to suffer too much, especially if you have weak psychological tolerance, don't suffer too much, because many people do not have the ability to transform the hardships they have suffered into motivation or experience and the like and are prone to psychological problems, if you put yourself in the best environment at the beginning, it is also an accumulation of good experience, for example, if you go to read a book, Learning from the experience of other people's success or failure, it is much better than your own failure over and over again and then succeeding, you don't necessarily have to endure hardships to achieve success, you are afraid of hardship, right?! Not afraid of hardship is called against human nature, people are born to live happily for themselves, who likes to have nothing to endure hardship?

The optimal solution for many things is that you don't have to endure much hardship, and you may feel that there are many things that cannot be done without hardship, such as if the porters don't move bricks, the house can't be built? Are you really sure? But what if they use modern machinery and equipment in a joint venture?

Not only do you not have to endure hardship, the quality of building a house will be much better, and although high-tech products are expensive, their total salary may also be able to cover the cost of this product, and it can also save a lot of people's time and energy, people's time and energy are limited, we must learn to use money to help us work, not only work hard for money, and people can only suffer less if they are afraid of hardship, so I think young people are afraid of hardship, which is normal.