What should I do in the world of feelings?

I understand and give you a few suggestions:

First, quit smoking and drinking immediately;

Second, it's okay if you don't have a sense of humor, you don't have to pretend to be humorous. But be sure to try to show your strengths, such as the steady side (if any).

Thirdly, the diploma is not important, the important thing is the career. If your diploma is not as good as your brother-in-law's, but you surpass him in your career, your girlfriend will look at you differently.

Fourth, don't rush to get married, otherwise there will be no memories at all. Don't be in a hurry to break up, that will only prove your failure and cowardice.

Fifth, the most important point is that since you love her, you have to show it, learn to coax girls, learn to be romantic, learn to cherish, and learn to love the house and Wu is your top priority.

It's not easy to love someone, it's not easy to get engaged, it's even harder to get married, you don't want to be happy with her for a while and stop loving her, can you be sure that she is in love with her brother-in-law's boyfriend? So what about her sister? Is she so intimate with her brother-in-law in front of her sister?

I think you misunderstood her, her parents are also there, how can she bear to snatch her sister's boyfriend in front of so many of you, you love her so much, so you can't stand this! Love is run by two people, and it will only be yourself who will give up and regret it easily.

Dude, now honest people are bullied, everyone likes good boys, no one wants good boys, they are connected to the same fate, don't look at some people who don't look like good people, it's just popular, you're not in a rut.

It's not that I said, I see that you haven't known your object for a long time, if you can't find another one, find someone honest, you're not married, that's it, I don't put you in my eyes, why get married, it's purely to lay the foundation for a second marriage, if I'm you, I'll divide it immediately, let's bear with the rest, the object is laughing with others, this is still forbearing, man, bear it when you should endure, don't hold it back when you shouldn't, brother, good luck.

Hey. Got it! You love her so much, and you're jealous to see her so close to your brother-in-law! That's what it means!

Actually, if you're not happy, just tell her ah, and ask her what she thinks now. Don't I like you anymore, it's normal to fight with my brother-in-law, you try to think about it, the person her brother-in-law likes is her sister, of course, you have to please everyone in her family, don't be so angry, that person is always a brother-in-law!

There must be a misunderstanding between you, the best way is to tell her what you think in your heart, don't just break up with her, if you want to break up, let her know that you love her very much!

I'm not saying it well! It's just my thoughts.

Wishing you happiness!

It's not fashionable for men to be single-minded these days. The more flowers a man is, the more popular he is.

In fact, a lot of times, you do a lot of things that you yourself think are worthless in the eyes of people who don't care about you I remember I read a sentence If you like someone and you have done a lot of things for him You have touched everyone but you just can't be moved Is this his ruthlessness No, it's because love is a matter of two people He doesn't love you It's as simple as that If she loves you, she can't be ambiguous Willing to have you Not with you It's not her feelings that are indifferent It's not her feelings It's herself It's likely that she also feels moved But remember This kind of touching is not love A large part of it is a kind of guilt It is a feeling of guilt that she has done so much to you but she can't do anything to be with you If she is with you because of this feeling It's not love either, right? It is true that some people say that persistence is victory But there is another sentence If a person is with you because she is moved by you, then she will also be moved by another person one day If the next person does more and better than you, she will still go What you have to do now is to correct your mentality Don't get into the horns Sometimes the more you want to fight for love, the less it will come to you.

Take a brave step and truly confess to her First, you won't regret it in the future after doing this, and second, you can really understand her attitude towards you Sometimes the heart disease is held back Tell everything away You will feel that some things have become different You don't have to feel embarrassed You can't get along in the future Now that you have confessed and opened your heart, what else is there to be embarrassed about And those who say you, you don't have to care about small things look at people's hearts Some friends may really think that you have no results if you go on like this, and they feel sorry for you and persuade you And some people are just cynical, because they don't do such things themselves, as long as a friend has a confidant, and who knows, you should be able to understand it yourself, you have liked her for a long time, and if you feel that this matter has nothing to do with others, then you will continue to have a crush, but keep it in your heart, if you want a result, then go and confess to her, and you must be able to bear the final result.

Remember, love is a matter of two people, and a crush is a matter of one person.

Don't let someone else's gossip or two dictate your own path.

In the end, I hope you can get the answer you want. Don't be too distracted by this kind of thing, because it will more or less distract you from learning.

Actually, I still don't recommend falling in love when you're a student......Because it's sure to be distracted!! I think it would be better to build it into a revolutionary friendship......What you can't get is the best ......If I hadn't been with him at the time, maybe ......Alas, it's up to you to decide.

So, are you now overcoming your friend's arguments and the reason to stick to it?

First of all, the first one, in fact, it is not difficult to overcome this, they say, let them say, if you can't find a good language to refute them, then just be silent, for a long time, they will be bored. Or ask rhetorically, "You say I'm stupid, then you can help me find a way to chase it, or friends." ”

Let's talk about the second one, since you have liked it for so long, besides, you are still studying, you are still getting along, haven't you been separated yet? Isn't she someone she doesn't like yet? That's your advantage, you didn't make it to the end, who knows what the outcome will be?

Maybe tomorrow, maybe the day after tomorrow, maybe a year later, maybe when you graduate, she accepted you? So is it worth it for so long? If you give up now, if you give up today, after a long time, when she meets you again, she will talk to you about the past and say, if you hold on for two more days at that time, the two of us will definitely come together.

At that point, do you regret it or is it still useful? On the other hand, if you persist, even if you don't succeed in the end, you won't give yourself a chance to regret it.

I can understand you, because there was a boy who chased me for several years before, he was very good, it should be your type, and other boys also laughed at him kindly, what I want to say is the girl's feeling, she may be willing to be friends with you, but it seems that being a couple almost feels a little bit, it's not a matter of chasing, if she really has feelings, you don't have to chase, she will also give you a response is not, what you can do is to be yourself, live a positive life every day, and don't care about other people's opinions, and gradually you can come out, Find someone you really like, and like you, maybe that girl will respect you more when she sees that you don't chase you, but will respect you more and have feelings for you, hehe, the boy who chased me has come out of the shadows, and the current girlfriend is beautiful and happy, and you will definitely do it. It's all hand-made, it's hard, and it's troublesome to adopt.

Women are like water, raw water will make you upset when you drink it, and boiling water, you will be very healthy when you drink it, so I advise you to master her temperament, get used to her habits, love someone, not to change her, but to adapt to her. Again, if you love her, you have to boldly tell her and pursue her. Don't care what others say about you, life is your own life, good or bad, can others manage you?

As long as you are happy and happy, it is useless for others to say anything. Believe you, be brave if you are a man. It takes courage to defeat the enemy, and it takes courage to conquer the woman.

I think it's pretty obvious if you're showing her preferences. But she is indifferent to you, it is possible that he does not like you this type. If you don't want to give up like that, it's best to confess to her and see her attitude.

It's good for all of you, there are a lot of good girls, you don't have to hang yourself from a tree, you don't have to make yourself unhappy, and it's good to be good friends. Then it's better to give up, it's not suitable for the evil of not being together and not being happy, there are still a lot of good girls, and you will find out if you put your heart into it. Good luck.

As a girl, if you don't take the initiative to confess to him, he will never tell you that he loves you. If you really want to know the answer, be bold and find a chance to tell him that you have liked her for a long time. Leave your friends alone, they don't like to understand you, love has to be said out loud!

But if you think about it, if you really don't need to stick to a relationship, it is recommended that you give up before it is too early to pursue something better. You have to be wary, do you like him or do you think of him as a bosom friend of the opposite sex? Of course, I wish you success!

If she's sure she knows or doesn't give you a response, she's basically not going to say yes. Either she's still very swaying, or she's having other reasons that she doesn't find acceptable right now, such as her family not supporting [I mean puppy love or something], or it will affect her studies. Something like that.

If you want to know the reason, you can observe it yourself, for example, what is her reaction to what you do for her, gladly accept it or hesitate, or even don't want you to do too much, or just ask her directly, and then the two of you will either make it clear and be happy in the future, or you will be broken, and you will not be able to go back to the past, you think about it, make a choice, always hold yourself uncomfortable, others may not know|||

In addition, [persistence is victory] This kind of thing is definitely in terms of emotion = = I like you as much as I will respond The more I don't like you, the more I do it, the more wrong I might as well be a good friend.

Find a chance to confess to the girl, and instead of giving you an answer right away, tell her to give her a week to think about it. You ask her about the results in a week. If she says she hasn't thought it through, you can give up.

If you think about it, the two results, together or strangers. Don't think you're still friends. Because you're friends, you'll still be the same as before.

It's not good for you.

It's not a shame to stick to it, if you go to college in a school, there is still hope. But if it's not in a university, it's basically hopeless. However, you can still pursue it in a different place, but if you find that the other party is still very resolute in refusing at a university in a different place, if she refuses but you feel that she has no mental pressure, you can chase it again, and if you feel that she is under psychological pressure, such as disgusting you, you have to let go.

The key is what kind of girl the other party is worthy of your affection, maybe you only see her side, love her to understand her, to go into his heart, some girls although you are very good to her, you did not go to her heart, no matter how much you do, it is useless. Do you think that girl is a good girl, can you tolerate her and stick to her? If you can, be brave to chase, if you can't, give up, some regrets in youth may be the most beautiful!

First of all, I think her indifference to you should be one of the reasons for you to give up.

Because you said you did a lot of things for her, and I want to ask you how she reacted when you did them.

Will she have unhappy, disgusted, or even angry expressions or behaviors?

If her expression is nothing more than indifference to what you've done for her, then there are two things.

1, she still has a good impression of you, but she doesn't dare to show it out of the shyness of a girl.

2. She really doesn't feel good about you, she just doesn't know how to reject you, which means that you may not be able to play.

If the look on her face when she does these things for her is not the one above, then there are two situations as well.

1. She didn't even think about these things between men and women, or that she woke up late in this regard.

2, it shows that she has a good impression of you At least no matter how bad it is, she still has a seed in her heart (hesitating to accept you).

Pure love is the most worth savoring, if it really does not affect your learning.

I hope you can take advantage of it, at least not to have a regret for yourself.

Good luck.

Go out to talk to him, and then tell him that you love him very much and want to live with him forever, but you are very scared, sometimes you don't know what he's thinking, you don't know if he loves you or not, you don't have much security with him, (at this time, you are a little pitiful), see how he reacts. Basically, men like this either don't have you in their hearts and don't pay enough attention to you. Either you are not good at expressing yourself and are a bit introverted, and the key depends on how you grasp it.

Work hard and wish you happiness in the future.

Say it boldly, it didn't work out but you worked hard, besides, how would you know that she doesn't like you, we have to face many choices in our lives, we spend our lives in choices, cowardice, retreat, not your best choice, don't cry, your tears are not worth a penny, no one will feel sorry for you, self-confidence and sunshine are the qualities you should have.