Emotional whirlpool, what the hell should I do? 20

Updated on society 2024-05-23
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Pregnancy is something that shouldn't happen at this stage.

    Especially when you see that you are all condemning him and their family for how bad they are, and you can also anticipate bad things for you in the future.

    At this point, you have to ask yourself how exactly you feel about him. If you want to continue, don't mind his previous emotional experiences, find opportunities to talk to him, and if he wants to get along with you seriously, let him understand that you don't want him to have a relationship with his ex-girlfriend or other women again.

    If he doesn't agree to break up, but he is still lingering and watching other feelings, it can only mean that he is the kind of person who eats in the bowl and looks at the goods in the pot.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Outsiders can't interfere in emotional matters, the most important thing is to look at your own attitude.

    If you choose to break up, make up your mind, and if you choose to continue, find ways to improve your relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Eliminate zero recovery.

    Actually, you already know the answer. People who don't have a sense of responsibility, are you still hesitating? He doesn't deserve it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Instead of making yourself miserable for the rest of your life, it is better to make it clear to him as soon as possible, since he said that he has no determination to go down with you, don't be sad for him anymore, separation is inevitable, and a peaceful solution is really not solved, so go through the legal process.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Knock the child out, let the girl get out of the way, you don't have to be afraid of him, evil is invincible, he always can't get the best, and if you get it, you feel bored, since he is not ready to marry you, why let you come back such an irresponsible man, let alone raise a child with him Can the child grow up happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't hesitate any longer, break it completely, otherwise it will not only be you who will suffer in the future, but also your children and family...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is normal for people to be easily immersed in all kinds of emotional whirlpools and unable to extricate themselves, after all, people are high-level emotional animals! So what should we do when we are trapped in love and can't get out?

    First, we need to be quiet and think carefully about what we really want. If you are trapped by the crush and dare not speak, then at this time you should break through yourself and bravely say your thoughts to the other party on the premise of not causing trouble to the other party, even if you are rejected, you don't have to be sad, because it is worth it, only by venting the emotions hidden in your heart, can you slowly let go, let go of yourself, and get out of emotional confusion! If you break up due to a broken love and can't let go of your sleepiness, then at this time we should appropriately shift our attention and do something other interesting, such as going out to travel with relatives and friends, and seeing more of the outside world, after all, feelings are not the whole of life, and loving someone does not have to be the best!

    We must learn to face reality, let go of sadness, and let go of ourselves!

    Secondly, the key to most people trapped by love is because they are too attached to the past emotions, so we must learn to reasonably distribute our emotions, correctly deal with the troubles and complaints encountered in the emotion, and other negative emotions, we can only truly experience the ups and downs of the world when we open our hearts and face the gains and losses of emotions and negatives! Don't always be obsessed with a past relationship, there are many other emotions in this world that are worth experiencing, such as sweet love, hot friendship, mellow family affection, etc.! Life is constantly changing, there are gains and losses!

    Therefore, when we are trapped by love, we must choose the right way to reasonably adjust ourselves and get out of troubles, and life becomes colorful because of expectations! Only by looking forward firmly, can life have the meaning of continuing!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can make yourself very sensible, and you should listen to your friends and parents more, so that you can come out and listen to songs to relax.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think that at this time you should go out on a trip, relax your mood, try to keep yourself busy, don't think too much, and talk to your friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    At this time, you should adjust your mentality, do something that can divert your attention, constantly improve yourself, study more, travel outside, meet new friends, and forget about the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How to say it.

    The old saying. The bell also needs to be tied to the bell.

    There will be no reluctance in this thing.

    It's you who value all of this too much.

    It also shows that you are a very emotional person.

    There are some things we have to be able to afford to put down.

    Understand that loss doesn't mean we didn't have it.

    And we take it with care.

    We are right about feelings.

    It's easy to figure it out, but if you really can't help it, you have to do it.

    Then find ways to enrich your life. Kindness.

    Time can be forgotten.

    But that doesn't mean you have to see it all.

    It's just anesthetizing yourself.

    Driven by anesthesia, we will gradually lose such strong feelings for him. You can also come out slowly.

    However, it is a difficult time to enrich yourself.

    You're bound to have a few minutes when your brain is resting.

    You may think again.

    But after that, it will be easy.

    Hehe. In fact, feelings belong to two people, and one person's thing is not called feelings, but just sentimentality.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A lot of things are actually what we think about too much.,Don't think too much about things.,Scholars treat it cold.,Maybe you'll get out of this whirlpool soon.,The more you care.,The deeper you fall in.,So it's not a bad thing to learn to escape.,I hope it's adopted.。。

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) is in love, You will look forward to bringing him or her the greatest happiness with all your love, and you will get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in your body, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

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