I only have one chance to choose in life, which way should I go?

People have come to this world to suffer and suffer, otherwise why the first voice is crying.

Look at how you want to spend this colorful life, listen to you and estimate that your family conditions are also good. But these are temporary, and who knows what will happen later. It's better to have your own career and your own way of survival.

Personally, I think you still go into business, this road is the most suitable for you to reflect your own value, and it is also the most worthwhile path to take.

Of course, that's all too good to say, but I didn't do it. Hehe, let's work together!!

Let's go into business, there is a kind of challenge to life, at least life will be a little more exciting, what's good about being an assistant, you have to be called by him all day long, do you suffer from this as a big man? People who are engaged in politics have a relatively short lifespan, so you should not go, business is the right way!

Choose the life you like to live, choose the life that suits you, but it is not recommended to live a comfortable life, you should create it when you are young, otherwise you will quickly get tired of your life

Of course, you still have to rely on your own affairs, and other people's opinions are just for reference, and I am still determined to do business while I am young and have capital, and I should break through.

Look at the character! Is flattery acceptable?

Can you learn worldly things without feeling uncomfortable?

Can you do it alone?

Can you endure hardship and sin?

Make a list of a few similar questions, and choose them at the end to see which path you're better suited to take

Brother, you have to see what you are suitable for Assuming that you are suitable for business, even if you start working for the director, can you make a profit? I don't need to say the other way around.

What suits you is the best bless you!

Our university teachers told us"People sometimes have to go to zero"。All zeroed. Start all over again. What you have is like the water has flowed away! Let's start over! Create your own value.

What could be faster in life than doing what you really love!

On the road of life, there will be many choices, but we can't give up because we choose the wrong one, because there is no right or wrong choice in life, only you feel that the road is what you want. On the road of life, we will meet many people, and we will encounter many things, some people will become our lifelong friends, and some people are just passers-by in our lives, we can't give up on themselves because of their departure, because there is no turning back for the late life of people, we can only look forward. On the road of Li Sheng, we will have a lot of opportunities, but we can't give up on ourselves because of these opportunities, because there is no road to regret in life, we can only look forward.

On the road of life, we will encounter many difficulties, but we cannot retreat, because there is no way back on the road of life, we can only move forward bravely.

Monday, October 22, 2018 Sunny.

Deer is my cousin, who is over 40 years old and has not yet married.

In my mind, she is synonymous with intellectual, sunny, beautiful and intelligent women. Graduated from a prestigious school with a doctorate, university professor, excellent tutor, erudite and talented, and high emotional intelligence......Except that he is not married, the others are impeccable.

The two of us can play together, listen to the meeting, taste the food, play, and talk ......I get a lot out of her every time we meet. Although she is younger than me, her views on people and things are very transparent and open-minded, and I always sigh: people with a high level of education see problems differently, can jump out, have their own thinking, and talk with sparks of thought.

I often think, "If I were a man, I would marry a woman like her."

In the past few years, I have been looking for a partner for her, and she also has the idea of living in a small family like ordinary people, but she is always bothered by fate. In the past two years, she and my aunt have stopped talking about asking us to help find friends.

She said: There is more than one path in life, and not everyone necessarily has to get married, have children, and tease grandchildren. Some people are not happy when they are married.

My parents also think that when they gave birth to me, they wanted me to be a person who accepted me and lived a life of my own choices, not necessarily the path that most people take. I am in a good state now, I work hard and devote myself to my work during working hours, and I have my own life after work, not for fame and fortune, not for money, and enjoy my own time ......

I know that she is a teacher who is very highly rated by students; I also know that she was invited to give lectures in her spare time, but she turned down ......"I don't need to ask for so much money, and I don't need to save for my children; I'm not afraid that one day I'll be laid off and unemployed, and now that we have so many opportunities in society, even if I don't do this job, I still have many ways to support myself ......"I retorted that it was because she had the knowledge and ability, so there were more opportunities to choose from, otherwise a woman of this age would not have an advantage in employment at all.

She said: "No, you can too, even if you open a "small dining table", do a micro-business, go to McDonald's as an hourly worker, and go to WeChat to run a *** ......."As long as you are healthy, don't think about what you don't have to face, these are not a problem for a person's life......”

Looking at her glowing and elastic young face, I couldn't help but fall into contemplation: whether a person lives well or not does not depend on you in the eyes of others, but completely on yourself, how bright, open-minded, and exculpatory your heart is, how rich, happy, and happy your life is.

There is more than one path in life, your mindset determines your choice, and your choice determines your life.

If life can be chosen again, I will not choose to be a man, I am willing to be any creature in nature, although life is short, it is possible to be devoured by the strong, at least there is no trouble; It will not be as hard and tiring as I am now, I often talk to my heart, I want to work hard, I want to be strong, because there is no one else around me but yourself, only the vertical yourself is strong, and the relatives around you will be favored, but I have lost to myself again and again.

There is no good path in life, and no one is bad, and if you choose this kind of life, you will have no defects in that life, and people will never be satisfied. The ups and downs can reflect the ups and downs of life, and the calm life can appreciate the peace and tranquility of life. It depends on which one you prefer.

One path is the instinctive path of focusing on the negative. According to neuroscience research, it is human instinct to focus on the negative. In ancient times, humans could only survive by focusing on dangers and negative situations.

Today, our brains still maintain these neural circuits, just like watching the news, the bigger and more tragic the event, the higher the attention.

The other path is to focus on the positive path of happiness. When we pay more attention to the good things in life, be grateful for all the circumstances in life, and use more positive ways of thinking, a new neural circuit will be built in the brain, a neural circuit that helps us lead to happiness.

Two paths, friend, which one do you choose?

I believe that the answer is yes, we all want to take the road of happiness and live a happy life.

Harvard University research found that happy people generally focus on the positive and good aspects of life, while unhappy people focus on the negative aspects of life.

So, in order to be happy, we need to change the neural circuits that instinctively focus on the negative and strive to build a new neural circuit in the brain, that is, a path to happiness.

There is a Chinese idiom: all wishes come true. We have always given it as a blessing to our friends, wishing them all the best wishes and dreams coming true.

If there are only two paths in life, then I think it should be the second one, although the second one is hard work, but there is freedom, you can be free, this is very good.

There is only one life in life, it depends on how to choose, generally young people will choose the second one, but if you have children or are older, you will be the first one! Survive in peace.