Quarrel Cold War After the quarrel, what to do if there is a cold war after a quarrel?

I used to have a similar experience as you, no matter how sad and wronged, I didn't want to let go, because I gave so much, why didn't I get anything and left like this, I was really unwilling, but you have to think about it in the future, you feel too tired now that you are only two years old, so you are accommodating in every way, all kinds of grievances, can you live like this for twenty years, fifty years, and a lifetime? Why can everyone be favored by their husbands in every way, but they are wronged like this? He is now ambiguous with others, he doesn't care about your feelings, then after getting married, he will get worse, now in his heart he already feels that you can't do without him, even if he does something out of line you will forgive him, so he won't care about you, know that you will be good even if you are angry, if it has been like this, even if you have results, get married and form a family, and then have a child, he is not at home every day, pulling three times outside, your heart will be more sad, long pain is better than short pain, parents give you life is to hope that you can be happy, If you wash your face with tears every day in the future, they will be more distressed, women need men to hurt, if you let go, there will be better men waiting for you ahead.

Bless you,!

It is you who he loves in the end.

It's just a little bit of a heart.

Self-esteem is a little higher.

You've been accommodating to him.

Developed a bad problem.

He's just having fun with other women.

He knows you care about him, and he cares about you.

What to say, your boyfriend is a bit of a child.

But you've stumbled so far.

Do you think that's good, or is it going well?

He cares about you so much that he argues with you, and if he doesn't care about you, he doesn't bother to pay attention to you.

If a man is not willing to make any changes for you, it only means that he does not love you!!

If a man looks at you sad and is still indifferent, it can only mean that he doesn't care about you!!

Such a man still doesn't know what it means to love others.

Have you ever thought about the reasons why you compromise again and again? Is it because I really love him? Or are you unwilling to give up your hard-earned so-called love?

Many times we are reluctant to let go, simply because we are not willing to face failure.

That's why some people often say that it's better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you...

The giving of love should not be calculated. You shouldn't be trying to tell who is higher and who is lower.

But through what you said, I still sympathize with you and am still angry with your boyfriend.

I think it's hard to last a long time. Sooner or later, the part you value will be diluted by your sadness. Your previous endurance will be magnified. Love fell apart in the sound of violent friction.

Women yearn for a love affair with Prince Charming. Be pampered and taken care of. I don't know how long your contradictions will last.

Will it get better, will it continue to worsen? I think, based on what you described, your love is already clear at a glance. You've already expressed your thoughts.

I don't know how much longer you can endure it. But an unhappy love doesn't last long. Tired of it?

Numb? Sad? Then break up in style.

I miss this song by Yanzi Sun you can listen to (pay attention to the lyrics). If you're touched, sad, and want to cry. Then you just let it go, I support you. Vice versa.

Do you know that you meet love around the corner?Give it up!! He doesn't love you, fool.

You said it all, you are the junior in his last relationship, and he easily likes the new and hates the old. At first, the cause of death is fresh and good for you. But then he knew that he didn't have to be nice to you, you were good to him, so it didn't matter!!

The person he loves is himself, and he loves whoever makes him happy. You have one more by his side, no less, no less. You have accommodated him in everything ...

Hey, judging from your description, it's all you paying alone!! Let it go!! I was a little unaccustomed to it at first, but after a long time, it will be fine.

Go to activities with friends. Let yourself play until you are tired, and you don't have time to think about him!! It can only be said that you are unladylike when you meet someone.

Love again next time you see it clearly. However, the sensitive personality needs to be changed a little. That way you won't be too tired, only if you value yourself, others will cherish you.

How could you choose to be with such a man in the first place! He's not serious about you! How can I do if I have been wronged like this Break up with him Let him taste the taste of others such a man is not worth staying with him.

Sometimes planting beans does not necessarily get beans, and planting melons does not necessarily get melons. He doesn't care about you. You care about yourself, and life is for yourself.

It is said that women are fickle and women are ruthless, so why not men? Since it's all like this, aren't you still being kind to yourself? Divide it! Divided, the pain is for a while, and the pain may be for a lifetime!

We all know in your heart that it is because of your love for him and your dedication to him that you don't have the courage to let go. But even with such possession, you are just as miserable. Why don't you let go of it, although it will hurt, but after all, you have a chance to find a much happier life than you are now!

Because maybe your next one will see you as a treasure!

Is such a man worth your effort?! Even if you get married, in the end it will still be the same old thing, it's better to go away by yourself, it's not worth hurting yourself stupidly for him

Silence is not my fault, the breakup is the only outcome.

Hehe, Linyuan envy fish, it is better to retreat and close the net.

It's really hard to say, I'm a boy, and I'm in the opposite situation from you, so I feel so tired.

It's that his sense of superiority is too heavy. A woman must show her temperament and let him know that you can't do without him. This is important.

Come on, now all you have to do is work hard to improve your abilities, and one thing is very realistic, I don't know if you can accept it. Love is exchanged equally, and only love that has two people's abilities and strengths and weaknesses in all aspects is long-lasting. Bless you all.

1. The Cold War must be dealt with in a timely manner.

The cold war caused by the quarrel must be dealt with in a timely manner, if it drags on, it will easily affect your next life, and the cold war will develop into an inertial cold war after a long time. When one side is completely disappointed with the other, the habitual Cold War will develop into cold violence, and it will be difficult to deal with it when the time comes.

2. One of the parties should put down his body and accommodate.

In the final analysis, marriage is two people who look at each other and live together, if each party is unwilling to put down their bodies for the other to accommodate, then why live together. Therefore, if there is a quarrel in the Cold War, it can't always be a specific party to put down its body and accommodate, it must be in turn, whether it's right or wrong, after all, after accommodating, after two people return to reason, they will naturally know who is right and who is wrong.

3. When the other party accommodates you, you must give you the stairs.

Not everyone is willing to take the initiative to put down their body to accommodate you during the Cold War, if the other party accommodates you, then you must give a step to the other party, you can't be self-righteous and feel that you are very important, don't give the other party a step, you have to divide your win and he lose, but you must know that the other side can also choose to be cold all the time, isn't it? Therefore, if the other party comes to accommodate, your attitude must also be to want to reconcile, so that everyone can be happy.

4. The Cold War cannot be used as a bargaining chip to threaten the other side.

Many men are the leaders of the Cold War, and some are more independent when they are young, and the education methods at home are independent, so most men are accustomed to using the Cold War to force their wives to compromise, and the wives reconcile after compromise, and when they quarrel again when things don't go well, they use the Cold War again to achieve their goals. Therefore, men should pay attention and not use the Cold War as a bargaining chip to threaten each other, and women are the same.

5. We must think about solving problems, and the Cold War is not the solution.

When we encounter a problem or dispute, we must find the cause of the problem or dispute, and if we do not find the cause, the Cold War will not be effective, the Cold War cannot replace the process of solving the problem, and the Cold War will miss the best time to solve the problem, and when we will solve the problem after the Cold War, it may be too late. Therefore, the Cold War is not the solution to the problem, and if you find the root cause and solve the problem, you may not have a Cold War at all.

6. Create opportunities for him to accommodate you and feel sorry for you.

There is a little secret to share with you, when I encounter a quarrel, I will not speak, he will take it for granted that I started a cold war, will find a way to accommodate me, but can not wipe face, at this time I will usually create some opportunities to give him the opportunity to get close to me, such as cutting vegetables accidentally cut into the hand, need to put a band-aid; Another example is accidentally scratching your hand by the paper of a new book; The last trick is to directly ask him to dry my hair and the like, which is very effective, so you can try it.

The Cold War was a habitual way of dealing with problems. There must be some emotional and even character interpretations, but more importantly, it is caused by immature problem handling.

A very important reason is that most people will only indulge themselves within a safe range, while intimate relationships and family relationships are relatively safe ranges. Compared with other interpersonal relationships, we invest more in our family and lovers, and naturally expect more, while for colleagues and ordinary friends who are far away, there are not many people who will accept our negative emotions, and we subconsciously know that such relationships cannot tolerate excessive consumption.

So, we're going to use the Cold War on those closest to us. Parents, children, husband and wife, will not leave you because you are angry once, nor will they really ignore you, it is precisely because of this relatively deep and strong emotional relationship that some people unconsciously take advantage of this, and do not solve contradictions and conflicts, and rarely look at the problem from the perspective of the other party, but vent their emotions to the people close to them. Frankly, it's human nature, and it's the folly of human nature.