How to deal with a capricious student and how to guide a capricious student

From the perspective of a friend, help him analyze why the girl doesn't like him, and tell him that the more he is like this, the more disgusted others are, why not change his own shortcomings first, let others impress, and let him think about the others, and guide him patiently.

I wonder how this student has behaved before? If he has any hobbies, don't let him think about it all the time.

Expulsion must not be used as a solution, and the symptoms must not be cured.

Time solves everything.

In addition, because it makes people drop out of school, it is too unreasonable.

And then there's the suspicion of your real role in this matter.

You can motivate boys to learn from the current state of the girl's learning.

In fact, sometimes, you use multi-faceted education techniques for children, which is also good!

You say: It's strange that someone like you would like you for another girl!

Then persuade him to change and teach him to change.

Parents on both sides are requested to come forward to solve the problem, and report to the superior leaders if the coordination is not good, and see what measures they take.

Find a way to persuade him yourself, if you really let the department expel him now, and that girl doesn't want him, with his character, he will really commit suicide. If you don't commit suicide, dropping out of college before graduating is tantamount to completely ruining a person.

Of course, it was with love, so that he could remember the girl silently in his heart for a while, and then devote himself to his studies until he graduated from high school and college, and then went to find that girl

1.Encouragement, plus appropriate praise, after criticism to the child in a timely manner. When I was in the third grade, my child was writing an essay for the first time, and when he came back, he had a hard time.

The teacher asked her to write 300 words, but she couldn't write it, and she was so sad. On that occasion, I carefully and patiently guided her to complete the first essay. It also encouraged her to write what she wanted to say and praised her.

The child is happy and confident. In the future, she wrote essays independently, and I praised her for writing well after reading them. Now every time she writes an essay, she gets the teacher's affirmation.

2、.Be friends with your child so that she trusts you and is willing to talk to you. The child is a small class in the class, and he will nag when he comes back, and his classmates are not active in handing in his homework books, and the classmates on duty run away without sweeping the floor, and who quarreled with whom, and he has an open class today......There are joys and worries.

Although it is all a small thing, I will listen carefully to what the child has to say and give him some small advice. None of this is worth mentioning in the eyes of adults, but these are the lives of children.

3.Care for children in life. To be honest, it's really hard for kids nowadays.

In addition to campus life from Monday to Friday, there are also some interest classes on weekends. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their children's lives, one is a reasonable match, children are growing up when the body, without a good body, how to cope with the cycle of schoolwork? I will take my children to the park, zoo ...... timeLet the children also relax and relax from the intense study.

4. Fully respect children, believe in children, and let children have their own space to make their own decisions. Proper letting go allows children to be independent. Let children learn to deal with others in daily life and have certain communication skills.

5、.Pay attention to the connection between home and school, and communicate with teachers frequently about the child's dynamics and performance in school, so as to better grasp and understand. The teacher knows the child's learning situation best.

As a parent, it is not enough to reflect the child's learning situation from the test scores, and often contact the teacher, and it is best to go to the school to communicate with the teacher face-to-face, which is the best way to grasp the child's recent situation.

These of my ** are actually nothing, just the way I treat children in life. I think parents must have done a better job than I did. Let's work harder for the sake of our children!

First of all, try to capture the student's interest and lead him to what he likes.

One hand is hard, the other is soft. Hard and soft. Always grasp unremittingly.