My boyfriend at school and me at work How do I get along

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, don't break up at every turn, you want to know what you care about when you're with him, you also said, he's a high school student, no financial **, can order you a hamburger, lie to you and say that he doesn't eat it, prove his heart for you, don't care about short-term hardship, people come step by step, who can guarantee that he won't be rich and prosperous one day in the future? You can tell him that our income is not high now, so you can go out to the street and go to less high-end places, and it would be nice for two people to eat a snack or something? People are more angry than people, let's calm down their mentality, it's not that he's stingy, maybe he's really difficult, long live understanding.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I want to fight when I see a woman like you.

    You've lost all the faces of women.

    You're a person who goes to work and goes to school.

    You're okay, don't be angry, you don't feel ashamed.

    It's going to be the New Year, and the New Year's money is only sent to study.

    People like you who have made money are so cheeky to rub oil here.

    Other people's money is also earned by other people's parents.

    You're not another wife, why give you flowers.

    Are you the one who values him or his money?

    If you like money.

    When the chickens come faster.

    I don't even know how to think about my boyfriend.

    It's me, I'll get rid of you early.

    Buy you a hamburger, you eat comfortably, no one else has porridge, what do you call to feed.

    Kill you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's so hard to divide it...

    I can't even afford to spend a few dollars on you, and such a man wants to use it.

    Maybe I'll have you to raise him in the future

    Trash Man BS ofใ€‚ใ€‚ใ€‚

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Alas, it's divided, you know, in the end, you'll find that your outlook on life is different from his, because the people you've been in contact with over the years have learned something different from what you've learned in school, and you're out of sync in your thinking, do you think it's still necessary?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hey, I hate a guy with such a stingy girlfriend the most, but if the family conditions are not good, you should also think about whether he is willing to spend it on you if he has money, and whether he is such a stingy man

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello dear, how do I talk about love when he goes to school, and you need to help each other when you fall in love, and you can't just ask for it. My boyfriend has a job, an income, and an economy, but you go out together, whether it's a trip or a simple dinner, you also have to be courteous, this time he treats, next time you have a treat. Only in this way can your relationship last longer.

    Girls must not be greedy for cheapness, no man has the right thing to treat you, even if it is a parent, then you can't think so about Lu Tan. You have to study hard and finish your studies. One day, you'll graduate and get into the workforce.

    It is necessary to give each other privacy and space, because the identities of the two people are different, so the circle of friends is different, and girls should not be so careful, because boys have their own circles, he needs to socialize, sometimes he needs to work overtime, he needs to contact the people around him, and the most evasive thing is to look at each other's mobile phones, even if you find ambiguous text messages, how can you be like this, if you really care about you, you will not let you be like this! In fact, love really only asks you and me to be willing, it doesn't matter what your identity is, as long as you care about each other, everything is not a problem! Two people can walk together in the end, they really need to persevere, as long as they persist and have each other in their hearts, they will definitely be able to go to the end.

    If you encounter a vague problem, you should ask in time, get a lot of effective information, I hope it can help you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm currently in school, and my boyfriend has come out to work, it's not difficult to take care of him, as long as you are careful, a little patience can take good care of him, just out of work, it's really hard, no matter what the aspect, you have to be careful to do his job, while working hard, but also take into account my feelings, so I want to try to make him feel at ease.

    First of all, he has to call ** every day to chat, although he is very busy at work, but he knows in his busy life that someone is missing him and caring about him, he will not feel so lonely, and he will not feel helpless, but it is best not to play ** when he is at work, and not when he sleeps, so as not to cause him trouble. When chatting with him, you must avoid talking about his salary, his position, and the topics that are stressful for him to buy a house and a car in the future, because I think he understands these things in his heart, and if I mention these things, it will increase his mental pressure, and he will not be able to work with peace of mind.

    I miss him very much when I don't see him, but I don't force him to come to me, because I understand that when I first start working, many things are unavoidable, and I can't add trouble to him, say more sweet words to him, say more things that make him very happy, and tell him to pay more attention to his body. Give him more encouragement, and don't get angry with him for no reason.

    In fact, these are not difficult, it is a question of whether it can be done, which can reduce his troubles and his pressure, make him more happy, in fact, it is the best care for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In this case, I think if you want to take care of your boyfriend, it depends on the distance between the two of you, if you are very close, then it will be much easier, you can eat together every day, let him eat more when eating, if he is busy with overtime and can't eat, if you can, you can bring him food to the company to see him, you should care about him verbally, let him pay attention to his body, don't be busy and forget to eat, so it's not good for the stomach, don't drink too much wine when you go out to socialize, it's not good for your health, Otherwise, you will be very worried about him, let him take good care of his body, take him out to relax and relax on the weekend, let him release the pressure appropriately, so that the combination of work and rest can be more conducive to work.

    If you are in a different place, then there is really too much powerlessness, usually you can make a ** time to chat, sometimes busy with work is really little contact, when chatting, what should be advised, the words of encouragement should be said, let him know that even if she is not by his side, he has been thinking about him all the time, you can order him to take out when he has no time to eat, you can also buy food for him online at home, otherwise sometimes there is really no food and no time to eat will be very hungry, There is also a weekend or a small long holiday if you can go to see him, go to see him, otherwise it is inevitable that the relationship will be alienated after a long time, so it is also good to properly cultivate your feelings.

    Like my boyfriend works in the army and I'm in college, usually I really don't know what to do, I can only care more about him when he chats, he is missing something, I buy it and send it to him, he often misses the time to eat because of some things, I bought him a lot of food, because he has to train every day, it really can't be done without meals, they can't eat anymore if they miss the time to eat, there is really only so much I can do, But I think someone who really loves him, even if you do a very small thing for him, he will be very happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As two people grow up, there may be a lot of unsatisfactory places, boyfriend is working, you are in school, you can't always be together, which is a certain obstacle for you to get along or be able to take better care of each other.

    Your boyfriend must be very busy at work, and if you are in school, you are relatively relaxed, and you have a lot of spare time to use. You can go to your boyfriend for lunch or dinner after school to plan what you are going to do in advance, and then you can go to your boyfriend's company to eat with him and go shopping together, so that you may have more time to be together and make your boyfriend touch.

    Or you go to your boyfriend on the weekend, you can cook him a meal or prepare a weekly breakfast for him, buy him something nutritious, see what clothes he has to help him wash and tidy up where your boyfriend lives, because he may be busy and don't have time to clean up or do something else. Understand your boyfriend's time when he goes to and from work, and can talk to his boyfriend at least once a day to see if he can take care of himself every day, whether he can eat on time every day, which is actually a great care for his boyfriend.

    In fact, what his boyfriend wants most is to be able to let you accompany him often, and he can have a comfortable living environment when he goes back every day after a tiring day, so the most important thing is to often go to see him and help him clean up, because if you don't see each other, no matter how much you say, you can't actually take care of his life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm in this situation now, my boyfriend is doing an internship in the field, I'm still in school, I really miss him every day when I first separated, I feel sad every day after separation, and it's really heartbreaking to see the little couple on campus show affection every day, and I think of him when I see the little couple walking together, and I think if he is there, we should be the same.

    Especially when you go to get a heavy courier alone, when you go to the supermarket to buy a lot of things but can't bring them back, when you go to eat alone, when you have conflicts with your roommates and classmates, when you have a new movie but you don't know who to watch it with, when you want to eat a barbecue far away, when you go shopping until your feet hurt, you will miss him very much.

    There must be more or less resentment in my heart, and I feel sad to think that you are not by my side when your boyfriend should be around, but if you think about it carefully, why doesn't he think about me like I think about him.

    He may miss me when he eats my favorite Malatang, he may miss me when he sees a good hot pot restaurant nearby, he may miss me when he sees a beautiful marshmallow sold on the side of the road, he may miss me when he sees everything around me who has memories with me, but he can't come to see me.

    There is a saying that "children are sad about separation, but adults are planning reunions". We have all grown from children to adults, and the two of us will discuss going to play when we have a holiday.

    If you want to take care of him, you can buy him a little instant breakfast online, because you will definitely not have time to eat breakfast when you are in a hurry at work, you can buy him a few pairs of thick socks in winter, and often chat with him or something, I think this is very good, he doesn't need you to do much for him, you just need to wait for him there.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think this kind of relationship is a little subtle, after all, everyone will have a little difference in the three views, and sometimes even very different. At this time, we should understand each other more and think from each other's point of view, so that the relationship between each other can be harmonious, and if we want to maintain a long-term relationship between two people, it takes two people to work together to achieve it. It's not just one person's contribution, it's about mutual understanding.

    Feelings are originally a matter of two people, if it is only one person's giving, it is not called feelings. It's just a simple personal emotion, and in a love relationship, two people should pay in a balanced way in order to have a long-term and stable development.

    For the situation where one is in school and the other is working, there will be a big difference, after all, the environment of the two people is different. Although I have a lot of social contact when I go to university, I still haven't really entered the society, and I have such frequent social relationships. In these two environments, people who are nurtured by two different environments will have different thoughts.

    Studying in school is still relatively simple, and people who work will have more power psychology no matter what. Therefore, two people occasionally have different values, and at this time, they need to understand each other and think from each other's point of view. Everyone has gone through the study period, and the person who works should speak to each other with a student's mentality.

    And still reading. That person should think more about the hard work of his work, don't pester him all day long, maybe he has more important and busier work waiting for him.

    My boyfriend and I are like that, one is reading and the other is working. Sometimes I complain that he doesn't have time to spend with me, but that's because he's busy with work, and he should rest in the evening, while I, I don't have anything else to do all day except for classes and homework, and there is still less class time. So I feel like chatting with him every day, spending very little time together, and always quarreling with him for a while, because of some emotions that I have inexplicably.

    Two people should understand each other and tolerate each other for a longer time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    One goes to school and one work, which means that you usually spend less time together, so try to create time for two people to be together, such as spending more time together on weekends.

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