My husband is a gambler and doesn t go home at night, what should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-05-05
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't have children or any relatively big burden, it is better to divorce as soon as possible, gambling is not a good career after all, it will only fall deeper and deeper, and it will bring the family and children's life to the brink of collapse, and there are many foreign debts, and it is recommended to divorce or divorce for the sake of future life. I wish you a happy and healthy life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Talk to him, it's best to talk to someone he's afraid of or law enforcement, the first step is to get him to quit the habit of gambling, if he still doesn't change, you don't love him, I suggest you leave such a person this morning, it doesn't work out.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he ran out of money, would he still gamble? For example, you take care of the money; If he were offered a challenging job, would he still gamble? For example, a small investment model for couples to start a business. Please refer to these methods.

    My answer, thank you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    One is to accompany him, the other is that you don't return at night, and then tell your husband, you won't come at night, I'm going to have fun, if he doesn't care, then you divorce...

    Yours is my motivation to move forward

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Persuade more, maybe your husband will be moved and understood, don't use extreme ways, you know your husband best, I believe there must be a way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The best way to stop it is. You also go to play cards, don't do anything, and come back later than he does. Within a month he wouldn't dare go. The success rate is 100%.It's all blind to talk about your heart or something.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The body can't bear it in the first place.

    It would be nice if I could enjoy sports.

    Tours are a good option.

    Suggestion only.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Scare him and tell him that you need a man every day at 10 o'clock, whether you come back or not!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he gambles and causes this family to be in debt, it is advisable to get a divorce quickly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Make a good record, find out the real reason for not coming back, communicate with him sincerely first, don't make accusations, speak on the basis of facts, be principled, if his attitude is not good, collect it decisively, and use it as evidence for divorce in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If my husband often doesn't come home at night, then first of all, I must communicate with him and tell him not to do this next time, if he does it again, then I feel that this kind of life cannot continue.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The cause should be understood, and only after understanding it clearly can we find out the corresponding solutions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why don't you work? If it's a good health reason, it makes sense to have more children at home, otherwise it's your own problem. My husband loves gambling because he is not afraid of you and you don't have a say in the family, so you are also a great family.

    Gambling is hard to quit. If you can't stand it, you'll have to get a divorce. If you tell me you can't get a divorce, you have to put up with it.

    If you can't control him, then your family's economy can be controlled, otherwise you will get divorced sooner or later, gambling will really kill people, talk about it. If you don't quit gambling, it's only a matter of time before you break up. Good luck to a couple, the husband always goes out to gamble at night and comes home at dawn.

    He couldn't refinance with his wife, so the husband gave him some counseling and then made up his mind to divorce him. Don't put on a posture of indifference, so that if the man in the family has a bad habit of eating, drinking, and gambling, as a seventh dan, he will definitely be severely hit.

    If he doesn't listen, you should divorce him as soon as possible, because sooner or later following such a man will ruin his family. So it's more like this man who often gambles and doesn't come home at night, and the amount of money he has at home is not enough for him to gamble. Therefore, if such a man advises him not to listen, you should not hesitate to leave him and go to his other half and find one.

    People who are good to themselves, such as gamblers, must never be with real people. Regardless of whether you are married or not, whether you are mixed or not, whether you are divorced from him or not, you must cut off this kind of person as soon as possible. So people who gamble are very immoral, my people are not virtuous, and it is not safe to live with this person.

    Do you want to ruin your child's future? Don't use a complaining tone, otherwise it will be difficult for him to accept that he doesn't want to listen and talk to him with a coquettish feeling. There is also a bad possibility, even if he doesn't give him money, and if he really gambles and steals money, it's even worse.

    When the time comes, the whole family will be ruined. I think I should talk to his parents and ask them to get a passbook or two for your family. The passbook is written in your husband's or your name, just let the second child help watch it, but keep it secret and keep your mouth shut.

    Don't let him know lest he ask for money. This is just in case, if he really loses all his money one day, the money can be used on an emergency basis or on a daily basis.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The best solution is that the husband will go to **you follow**, so that the husband will definitely feel particularly faceless, and slowly he will not go out to gamble again, or you can quietly find the place where the husband gambles, and then report it anonymously, so that the husband will have no place to gamble in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think the best solution is to have a good talk with my husband and tell him that if this continues, the family may fall apart, and let him weigh the pros and cons himself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can let him go for two laps at night, so that he will be tired, and he can sleep a little longer, so that he will not go out at night.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In life, whether it is a husband or a wife, once a friend accidentally brings a hobby of gambling. Then it is tantamount to laying the root of the relationship between husband and wife. Over time, the partner who does not gamble will certainly not be able to tolerate the gambling partner.

    Opinions arise, and quarrels and fights become commonplace. In the end, he couldn't stand it anymore and filed for divorce. In marriage, if your partner is addicted to gambling.

    caused a breakdown in the relationship, and there was a crisis in the marriage. Both him and she have to think carefully, maybe he or she is forced to file for divorce. Have you ever thought about what kind of misfortune divorce will bring to this otherwise happy family, the expectant eyes of the elderly parents, and the crying of the young children.

    Once you get into the bad habit of gambling, you must resolutely quit gambling and stay away from those gamblers. Husbands and wives should care for each other and persuade each other with good words, and this family will definitely be happy. If it's the first time, you can give the child a chance, if it's the second time, it's basically hopeless, if you still want to pull him out of Mingqi, then be prepared for a catastrophe.

    Treat the husband who gambles repeatedly, and draw a clear line early. Because at this time, he thought that he was making up gambling money to make up the money, and you were just a pawn of his gambling money.

    If he loves you enough, no matter how much he gambles, he won't let you be wronged. You can talk to him well, you love him so you have a baby, if he still loves you and this home, otherwise he will lose you and the home. You can also understand him, gambling is also for you and your family, no one wants to lose betting, but if you lose to a certain extent, you need to be temperate.

    Leave enough money for your family's expenses, and you can gamble. It may also be that a lot of it is earned by him, but the expenses of this family are his obligation. If you can fight for some more financial power, it will not work, and then communicate with his parents to help him.

    If the relationship is not good, he will add punches and kicks, and you don't have to be obsessed with him because of the child, and it is important to save your life. I believe it hasn't reached this level, but at this stage, I still have love not long after giving birth, so I don't have to leave. Don't listen to the nonsense that wants you to leave, and don't care about the nagging of others around you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you should file for divorce, the man who is addicted to gambling has lost himself after the royal rent is lost, and he will not think about the family, and will not think about you Zhen Senzhao, and continuing to be with him will only make him more sad.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it's better to mention divorce. Living with such people makes you feel bad about life and you don't see hope.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think it's time to mention divorce; After all, he still has a chance to correct it, you have to teach him a lot, and slowly let him quit gambling.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Legal analysis: If the husband gambles and the wife can divorce by agreement with the husband or divorce by litigation, in the case of voluntary divorce between the husband and wife, after signing a written divorce agreement, apply for divorce registration at the marriage registration authority in person; Divorce by litigation is a lawsuit filed with the people's court, which is adjudicated by the people's court.

    Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1079 Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    If a person is tried by a high civil court to handle a divorce case, mediation shall be conducted; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person who has lost money;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. My husband, who is addicted to gambling, often doesn't go home at night, is there any need for my marriage to continue?

    Hello! Let's get a divorce.

    My husband, who is addicted to gambling, often doesn't go home at night, is there any need for my marriage to continue?

    My husband, who is addicted to gambling, often doesn't go home at night, is there any need for my marriage to continue? Hello! Let's get a divorce.

    The child is still too young, I only hope that he can change like before the liquid, he doesn't like to gamble, goes to bed early and gets up early, works hard, and doesn't want him to answer like he is now, so convex, and he only has gambling in his eyes.

    Talk to him.

    But I don't know what to say, he said that he thinks I'm annoying, he has no patience with me at every turn, he likes cold violence, and he likes not to go home at night, his parents don't care about him, he can't move, he can't care about the hall, and he is also 35 years old, I don't know why he became like this, he doesn't eat well, he doesn't sleep well, he doesn't get up until noon every day, he is lazy, he doesn't pay attention to hygiene, and the whole person has no more essence and no hidden mind, you see, where are you playing games tonight, you haven't gone upstairs to rest, saying, there is no Internet upstairs, He is amused and wants to play the game, how can this work, you live by yourself, when he does not exist.

    How can it work, the child is too young, I don't have a job, no one takes care of the child, the family's income is hand-to-hand he comes to pay for the skin, if you don't change, this family will really be over.

    But he didn't listen to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    1. Sincere communication.

    Husband and wife are destined to be together, and they must consider in the direction of a lifetime of trembling limbs, rather than going in the direction of a while; Whatever comes across, be sure to communicate.

    There is no such couple, who can really do it, respect each other like guests; So it's normal for two people to quarrel and quarrel; At this time, communication and exchange can solve the problem; If something goes wrong, they will go toe-for-tat with each other, and the final result will be unhappy.

    Ask your husband why he doesn't want to go home; Of course, if you don't come back once in a while, don't take it personally; If this is the case for a long time, be sure to be aware of the situation; Find his thoughts, and know how to deal with the relationship between two people; If you're not doing something wrong, be sure to ask him.

    Of course, in the process of communication, you must also know how to show weakness, and tell him how lonely and lonely you are alone at home; He feels your love, tastes your helplessness, and he will think for you; No matter how many conflicts there are, you must think of using communication to deal with them, which is the only solution to the problem.

    Second, it is better for him.

    Life is going well, life is colorful, no one will think about tossing their own life; Many times, people will lose their way because they are not happy.

    Reflect on whether your love for your husband is really extreme; Think about it, when he returned home, did you let him experience the warmth of home; Have you ever taken off his shoes or hung up his bag? Have you brought him tea or water? Have you stewed chicken or scalded duck for him?

    Have you boiled water for him and washed his feet yourself? You haven't done anything for him, how could he possibly come home.

    Be sure to be doubly good to him in life; As long as he comes home, personally serve him the tonic soup you have prepared for him; When he experiences the happiness of home, he will feel how pointless it is to stay in the outside world!

    Women must think about giving meticulously, and don't think about it, always taking it from men; Otherwise, he just doesn't go home at night now, and in the future, he may develop into not going home during the day.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If the husband doesn't go home at night, the best way is to treat him in the way of others, if the husband doesn't go out to at night, then this kind of man is best to leave. If your husband doesn't come home for other reasons, then you can never go home at night and give him a heavy blow to Lucha dates.

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