How long can you miss it? How long does a person s longing last?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I just asked a question similar to you: I had a nightmare the night before yesterday, I dreamed of a ghost, I woke up with a headache and I thought it was a bad omen, so I changed to a big red fitted sheet, and last night I slept alone and dreamed of the person I once loved, and suddenly I found my first love and wanted to see him again, but I felt sorry for my boyfriend for doing this, and I was very conflicted! I knew the dream was fake, but I always felt like a prophecy, or a woman's sixth sense, as if something was going to happen.

    Now I start to miss him a little bit, I like him six years ago, and I forgot about it temporarily after three years because I talked about friends, but I still think about it occasionally, especially after listening to the song "The Price of Love" and "Beautiful Mood", it is even more difficult to wake up from the past. So I feel like I miss someone for a reason, but I will still restrain my feelings, when I think that a few months ago I deliberately created an opportunity for him to stay by my side as a friend for half a month, and found that he had changed, and he was not the person he had ever loved stupidly, I began to stop loving, and my boyfriend found out all my psychological changes and began to be jealous, and cherished me even more for fear that I would leave! Slowly, I feel that what I cherish more is what I cherish now.

    But I found that I was very emotional, and I blamed yesterday's dream, it was too real! The real ones don't want to wake up!

    To stop thinking about a person, you have to think about his badness! I know, but it's hard to do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not everyone does it. My girlfriend and I have been separated for six years, but I still remember what she looks like, but I just keep it in a safe corner of my heart and keep it for the rest of my life. Life is made up of accidents, and you can keep them as a pearl necklace and treasure them like a childhood ** or toy.

    Don't worry, don't worry, turn this page and start a new line.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is just a kind of regret beauty, in fact, there is no one who cannot be replaced, what cannot be replaced is just that beautiful feeling, or love your current lover.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First love is always the most wonderful, and I have also felt this way from you, because I have never found him or contacted him, so I am still nostalgic.

    Think about it every day, read it every day. Seven or eight years (junior high school classmates).

    To be honest, I don't feel the same way I used to.

    So, you should keep this nostalgia alive!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Missing is the kite flying in your hand, maybe it will get farther and farther away with the passage of time, but there will always be a line, holding your hand, stumbling in your heart, gently pulling, you will faintly heartache ......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is normal. I used to miss a boy in middle school to the point of madness.

    A few years later, suddenly one day I realized that I didn't want him anymore.

    This is also normal.

    I suddenly met him at the station a few days ago.

    Although I don't love him anymore, I still think it's nice to be friends forever.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If longing is a treasure of the mood, why not, if it takes root and sprouts, it will affect your current life, then it may outweigh the losses.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The longing will stop before you find your next lover

    Who do you think of when you're lonely?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Three years? Too long Is it worth it.

    Go and let him know with practical actions, go to him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let him be a good memory in his heart!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no end to longing.

    It's also a beauty to put it in the psyche.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's better to miss than to see, it's really true.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you're so emotionally single-minded, that girl must be very good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How long it takes to forget a person's thoughts depends on how deep your feelings are for this person, if the feelings are not deep, it may be forgotten in three months or two months, if the feelings are very deep, it may not be forgotten for a lifetime.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it really takes a long time to erase this relationship and this memory of missing someone, it may take a year or two, maybe ten or eight years can't erase it, but it doesn't prevent you from having a new life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on how deep your feelings are for him, and the deeper the obsession, the more unforgettable it will be, and it will take one to two years.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In this case, it depends on how important the person is to you, and if it is someone you care about very much, it may take a lifetime to forget.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think that if you miss someone for a long time, the other person will not be sensitive. Some people say: If you don't forget, there will be an echo. And I would like to say that it is better to forget than to forget.

    When I was young, I used to like someone, the kind I liked for a long time. But I've never told anyone about it, and very few people know about it. It's always been better to be buried, and we get along as friends, although it's not a very good kind of good friend.

    It's just that you can meet when your friends get together during the holidays.

    Later, we both graduated, and although we worked in the same city, we rarely met, and we didn't want to meet inadvertently like in idol dramas. In this way, I liked him again for many years. The people around me don't know why I haven't been in love, but I, knowing that it's impossible, haven't let go.

    Maybe it's become an obsession.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Day after day, year after year, if you miss it, then of course it will take a long time to prosper depending on your feelings for that person.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Missing is a kind of emotion, not that you can forget if you want to, it takes time and energy, you don't think too much about this person, then the miss will be reduced a little.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it's okay to think about it once in a while.

    After all, people have feelings.

    But it's always better to put it down.

    Be fair to your current or future partner.

    It's said that it takes twice as long to forget a person as it takes them to get to know each other, and I've done it, and I think it makes sense.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you like someone in particular, you will never forget her thoughts.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you can forget the thoughts you give to a person, it depends on how deeply you miss this person.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Missing a person can be remembered for a lifetime and can never be forgotten. As time goes by, even if you hide the person you miss in your heart, such thoughts can't erase your memory. Missing is originally a kind of torture and a person's pain, but this kind of pain will become a kind of torment in life.

    But after this state, it becomes a kind of beautiful happiness.

    This is the most beautiful memory, which contains too much longing, which can make a person think about it for a long time, and the appearance of the other person often appears in his mind. When you miss each other, you will even have a state of insomnia, always hoping that the other party will appear in your life, but this kind of longing will get deeper and deeper, and it will always make a person worry.

    Missing a person will not forget, but will become deeper and deeper, because the heart can never let go of the other person, and always want to know the state of the other person's life. But this situation will make a person feel like a year, and always feel that time passes very slowly. But once two people meet, time is like flowing water, and it always feels like it can't stop.

    Thinking about it for a long time will change the state of a person's life, this is a kind of breathing pain, sometimes it feels very sweet, this feeling will never be forgotten, it will be remembered in the heart. Because of the thoughts, it will make people feel very happy, and when they think of the old days, their faces will be full of smiles. Because I have never forgotten it, I have been thinking about it, and I will remember it for the rest of my life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It can last up to a year or even two years. As long as you like that person all the time, you can keep going for as long as you miss.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As long as you have each other in your heart, the thoughts will not stop. Missing is a kind of spiritual love, which seems to be nothing, but it really exists in your heart, day and night, all the time, every minute and every second torments your heart.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Missing a person can last for a year and a half, or it can last for a lifetime, depending on who the object of the miss is, whether you can let go of that person in your heart, and for your relatives, you will remember it in your heart for a lifetime.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Missing a person can last a lifetime, and the one I miss most is my brother, but he is no longer by my side, but I will think about him for the rest of my life.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is no time to miss a person, 15 years ago, my grandmother passed away, and now I still miss her very much, I miss her very much.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It will take a lifetime if it is long, and it will only be 1 month if it is short. This is a division of people, of course, it also depends on how heavy the weight of this longing is.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After getting along for a few years, it is still too difficult to let go, I can only put this feeling in my heart, and my thoughts will dissipate with the passage of time, and I am looking forward to it slowly!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Missing is a very magical existence. It hurt a lot at first, but as time went by, the thoughts softened a little, the pain was less, and it was much warmer. I think as long as I have a clear mind, I will never forget it in my lifetime.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    From graduating from college in 2009 to now, I still think of him suddenly. Now in a city, fortunately, the city is large, and the probability of encountering it is more than 1 in 10 million.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The thoughts of those who have truly loved are only temporary, but they will be remembered in their hearts for the rest of their lives!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Can't forget a person who shouldn't be forgotten, even if it's painful, but also willing, can't forget a person who should be forgotten is a kind of torture.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I liked him for five years, and I think about it tomorrow, and it seems to have become a habit. I've been waiting for each other to be excellent versions of ourselves.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can always remember that when you miss someone very much, you will always remember her, miss her, and will not forget because of the passage of time.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Like me, no one will mention it. After many years, I always think of it, I dream of happiness, and I wake up from my heart!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Memories are terrible and beautiful, it is impossible to forget a person, but in the depths of your memory, maybe someday, a certain moment, a certain time, something, will make you unconsciously remember, but it is just remembered, because life has to go on.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You may never forget it for a lifetime, and you may not miss it every day after a long time, but occasionally you hear a song, a sentence, and accidentally go to the road you have walked together, you can't help but think of him, and you can't forget it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Throughout my life, whenever a person is troubled and depressed, she will think of those sweet pictures of us together, and I want to forget unless I meet someone better than her.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I haven't seen him for a year after the college entrance examination, there is no news, and he has been hurt enough, almost a year is enough.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    1 month is equivalent to an hour.

    Missing is a thing that stays in the mind, but thinking will never let a person only know what to think, and the liquid teasing will also allow a person to have infinite energy, and will continue to struggle for what he wants to do, just to be able to get closer to the person he misses, and get closer, one day he can stand by his side and shine with him, and this is the power of missing.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    My mom made noodle soup with tomatoes and eggs.

    Be sure to use fine noodles, cook until seven or eight ripe, blanch the tomatoes and fry them with oil and sliced green onions, add water and simmer for a while. When the orange-red oil splashes float up, put the noodles and eggs in and add a little salt or oyster sauce or hoisin soy sauce to make it fragrant. A bowl was served in front of him, and his glasses were covered with a thick layer of mist.

    My memory of that time was a small one, nestled in a pile of quilts on the sofa, the world in front of me was dazzling because of the fever, my mother was in the kitchen like Mrs. Weasley, directing the ingredients and kitchen utensils to ping-pong collision, and after a while, she would come out with a bowl of steaming noodles, and after eating, she would stare at the TV that was brighter and more colorful than usual until the world was dark.

    Maybe it's because the memories of being sick at home are quite good, the noodles made by my mother are too delicious, and I'm very stubborn. As a result, every time I have a cold, fever, sadness, or miss, I will want to eat such a bowl of tomato and egg noodle soup. When I first went to college, I once burned in the dormitory and didn't eat all day, and at night I was so hungry that I started to study the takeaway with tomato and egg noodle soup near the school, and carefully observed the comparison, who knows if the moment I opened the lid will be a surprise of five million or a sure next time.

    After that illness, I tasted all the noodle stalls in the school cafeteria, and learned to make them for myself, but I couldn't perfectly reproduce the taste that my mother could make in ten minutes.

    So whether it's when you're sick and helpless, or when you're the happiest and happiest, the best taste you want to eat at that moment is probably in the hands of your mothers.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When you are lonely and helpless, in the dead of night, or when the familiar images of the past come back to you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    How long can a longing last for you:

    A minute may be less.

    A lifetime may be longer.

    It's just about how deep the love is.

    Separation is bitter, lovesickness is sweet, longing is true, love is beautiful, separation is bitter, people say lovesickness crying.

    Do you know what it's like to miss someone?

    The atrium is like a withered grass, and when the wind blows, it trembles!

    Do you know what it's like to miss someone?

    I always hold my phone in my hand, dialing those Arabic numerals over and over again, but I never have the courage to dial it out!

    Do you know what it's like to miss someone?

    When the ** rings, there is always a fluster.

    When I saw the caller ID, I was deeply lost!

    Do you know what it's like to miss someone?

    Always sitting in front of the computer, staring at the screen.

    But in my mind, I thought: At this moment, are you **? What are you doing?

    Did you sense my thoughts?

    Is it a spirit that makes you feel uneasy?

    Do you know what it's like to follow someone?

    Let go of all pride and dance with the wind!

    Quietly admiring you, this is my happiness!

    Do you know what it's like to follow someone?

    Abandon all your achievements and let him go.

    Even if it is strange, it is courageous.

    Do you know what it's like to follow someone?

    One stares, one smiles, one kisses.

    Let all your efforts feel no regrets!

    Do you know what it's like to be in love with a person?

    I was thinking about him, but I had to pretend that nothing happened.

    His slight smile tugs at your heartstrings.

    There is no language, but it is as if I see the fragrance of roses floating in the air.

    I don't want it to last forever, just looking at him is like having a lifetime!

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