What is the experience of chasing girls seriously, but not succeeding?

That's not enough! If you are really ready to confess with your heart and ready to take care of her for the rest of your life, you will see if you can succeed!

Of course, it is to eat a trench and grow a wisdom, accumulate experience, in fact, after a long time, you will find that chasing girls is also the most suitable for yourself (note, the suitability mentioned here is the suitability obtained by analyzing many objective factors, not subjectively feeling suitable, when you first like a person, no matter how you look at it, you feel appropriate) is the easiest to succeed.

No matter how much you like her, don't put your position too low, appropriately lower your position, that is called a gentleman, too low, it is called inferiority. If you praise her as a god, then you will definitely be dealt a good person card in the end, remember, gods are not with mortals.

Two people like each other together, and if she doesn't like you, you won't regret it after working hard.

I feel that everything I have paid has been in vain, and there is no turning back.

I found that when I was chasing a girl before, it was easy to lose myself and unconsciously impose her thoughts and values on myself, regardless of whether I wanted it or not, which is an obvious manifestation of no ego, which is absolutely undesirable. If you lose yourself, you are no longer equal, and even if you catch up, you will not be happy in the future. I feel more and more that the most important thing to chase a girl is self-confidence, this kind of self-confidence is that you still think she will like you from the perspective of a girl, so I don't recommend ordinary people to chase higher than their rank, because they will unconsciously feel inferior.

If you don't have that kind of self-confidence, build it, such as learning to dress up, get fit, learn to play guitar, learn to dance, etc., even if you don't catch up, you have become a better version of yourself.

There is a kind of girl who is very serious about pursuing, but you can't catch up. At this time, there happened to be a boy who was hanging and was a boy, and she agreed to say a few words casually. This is the true portrayal of men who are not bad and women who are not loved.

Boys, don't kneel and lick and put the initiative in the hands of the other party. I chased a girl before, the first time I chased it, I committed a big taboo, kneeling and licking, epic kneeling and licking, this girl is very ordinary, that is, the kind of obscurity in the class (different majors). Every day, I go to the dormitory to deliver meals, fruits, and snacks to buy a dormitory.

At first, it was okay, she was very happy to deliver food, and she had to take a group photo of them eating snacks together in the dormitory when they bought snacks in the dormitory.

When I could afford to buy ice cream for a dozen dollars a piece, I didn't want to eat it every day. When I can play with the computer and no one cares, I don't bother to turn on the computer. When I'm good enough that you won't leave me, I don't have to be you anymore.

can endure loneliness in order not to be lonely; I can't stand the loneliness, but I am lonely.

There is a lyric that sings very well, those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear. This is the true portrayal of love, no matter how much I wrote above, but when I meet someone I like, these things seem so pale and powerless, and feelings are simply uncontrollable.

I'm chasing a girl very seriously and hard, but I've been rejected, should I continue to chase her?

1. You should continue to pursue it, because it is likely that this is a test for girls against boys.

If a boy likes a girl, he will pursue her with all his heart, inviting her to dinner, watching movies, buying gifts, ......It can be said that it is very painstaking. The man thinks that if a girl likes a boy, she will agree to the boy's pursuit, and the two come together and become a sweet couple. But the result is often the opposite, and the girl will reject the boy, which makes the boy have the intention of giving up.

In fact, boys should not give up at this time, because many girls have their own careful thoughts, thinking that what is easy to get, boys will not cherish. Therefore, there will be some resistance to the boy, which is exactly how the boy will be tested. Boys must understand this truth, and they must move forward bravely and continue to pursue the girl they want.

Second, if a girl is particularly reserved and refuses, the boy should pursue it even more, so as not to miss a good relationship.

Some girls are more reserved, although the children she likes and enjoy the pursuit of boys, but because of their introverted personality, they will reject him. Boys should carefully analyze the reasons why girls reject themselves, so that they will not miss this fate and they will not regret it.

3. If a boy really likes a girl, he must firmly believe that it is easier to get true love by persevering.

Some feelings will change, at the beginning girls don't like boys, but when they see that boys have been pursuing themselves, they will change their minds, thinking that such boys have a tenacity and a spirit of not giving up, and they may fall in love with him when they know girls. Girls will think that when they let their children pursue themselves, they will work hard, so after they are together, they will not break up easily, and such men are very reliable.

It only makes sense to go both ways in a relationship, if you try hard to pursue the other person, but still do not get the other person's consent, you can choose to give up.

You shouldn't continue to chase, because the girl has already expressed a clear refusal, indicating that she is not interested in you, and if you continue to chase, it will cause a lot of trouble to the girl, and you will also be very hurt, so there is no need to continue.

It should not continue, because after you have put in your efforts and seriousness, the woman still does not like you and clearly refuses after seeing your seriousness and efforts, at this time we should politely push to the boundary of friends and stop pestering each other too much.