I am forty one years old and divorced. The woman is sixteen years old, and her family is going to do

From the time you decided to be together, you should have thought that there would be such a day, if you are firmly with her, if you are truly in love with her, then you have to face this problem bravely, what if her family comes, do you care about your age, and she is too different from her, plus you have had a failed marriage, divorced, and besides, your age is about the same as her family, so you will have some scruples, afraid that the atmosphere will be embarrassing, and even more afraid that her family will oppose you being together.

In fact, you can relax These problems are all considered when she decides to be with you She has considered them all Since she can still choose to be with you She is ready to face it You have to believe in her determination Then since she A girl can do that Bravely pursue what she wants and love and overcome all kinds of difficulties You are a man and no matter the social experience and experience are longer than her, you should take the initiative to face her family more actively Ugly daughter-in-law always has to see people Don't say that you are a big man What is there to be afraid of Besides No matter what, they are your beloved family, and even if she doesn't say it, she won't want you to be afraid to see her parents, and the man she loves on one side is her relatives on the other, and in order to avoid putting your one in a dilemma, you should be careful, take the initiative, and stand up first, knowing that you are her future dependent.

So, just wait for his parents to come, show that you're sincere enough, serious, don't need to worry too much, anyway, look at her parents' opinions, and then decide what to do, remember, the worst outcome, even if they don't agree, at least, she'll still be on your side, from the very beginning, you actually have a key win, so what you have to do is just try to get a result that everyone is happy with.

Face it as you please.

Actually, the two of you have a good relationship, if you don't have children.

He shouldn't have told his family in the first place, it was unacceptable to ordinary family members.

When they got married, they had children.

Tell him about his family and he'll be fine.

But that's it.

You can often please his family (such as doing housework, buying gifts, starting with the, hehe, agree, it's easy to do).

I sympathize with your concerns, because my boyfriend's family is more incomprehensible than your boyfriend's family, and they remind his son that my boyfriend wants to be in a relationship with me because my parents are divorced. This feels ridiculous. But from their point of view, in fact, they are only worried about whether his son's marriage will be interfered with by those divorced factors.

In other words, what they want is their son's marriage and harmony for a long time.

I think the ideological work here still needs your boyfriend to play a leading role, so that your boyfriend shows how much he loves his girlfriend in front of his parents, I believe that parents who are worried about whether their son will divorce must love their son very much, the person his son likes, I think his parents will never object, can it be said that parents are bossy parents, but who is still so domineering now, so when your boyfriend opens up the way into the house, the rest is your daughter-in-law to behave well, The main thing is to show your sincerity. Think more about them in everything you do, don't be afraid of hardships, and life will gradually get better. My boyfriend's parents are now accepting of me because I'm doing pretty well.

Facts speak louder than words, so what's wrong with being married? Nowadays, young men and women are not the same as falling in love and getting married, but they are just missing a piece of paper, and their family has a little impression of you, that is, they have been married, or they have heard of it! So intuitively I feel bad!

Then impress them with real actions!

It has also been said a lot above, and it is very important to please, especially for the elderly! It's a good idea to send a small gift diligently, it's winter, you should send something warm, you can have your boyfriend send it at the beginning, and you will come forward in person after a while! Pay attention to dressing, don't be too mature and fashionable, and try to give the elderly a feeling of simplicity and generosity!

Pay attention to a few subtleties: for example, when you eat, you sit close to the rice cooker and help your family serve meals by the way; Chat more with the elderly, because the elderly are lonely, and their wealth is only in the past. If none of the above work, a last resort.

gave birth to a big fat boy and then took it home, the raw rice was cooked and cooked, and the mother and son were expensive! Wonderful.

Now the problem is that your boyfriend's family won't let him take you home. You also don't have a chance to express yourself. That being the case.

If his family doesn't know you. I think it's up to your boyfriend to stay at home for the time being. Wait for a while to calm down.

You and your boyfriend appeared at his house as your first love, intentionally or unintentionally. Let his family get to know you anew. Accept you.

Of course, you yourself have to be a good wife and mother in the future. In that case, I think you will live happily together. I wish you all happiness!

The main reason why his parents will disagree is because they are afraid that you will leave their son in the future. There is no parent who does not think about their children, and there is no kind of person who will reject sincere and kind people, let them see your sincerity, and they will agree.

To influence his family with his heart, it is better to handle the relationship before marriage than after marriage. , you have to let his family know that you love each other very much and will live a good life, start from small things, and treat his family sincerely. People's hearts are long, and after a long time, they will accept you.

Since your boyfriend loves you very much, there is nothing left, after all, parents still respect their son's opinion in the end. If your boyfriend doesn't tell the family, maybe it's better, but it's okay, take your time. In the future, you treat your boyfriend well, treat his parents well, and reassure his parents that you are a good daughter-in-law and will not leave their son.

Start small, start with sincerity.

I believe that sincere efforts will always pay off, and influence the two old people!

I bless you all!

As long as two people truly love each other, I can solve big things and overcome them. Be brave to love.

It's useless to talk too much.

You just have to accept yourself.

You also know that your boyfriend's family will not accept you, so you accept them first. Otherwise, you will disperse, and there will be no result.

Clear up any misunderstandings his family had about your previous marriage and let them really get to know you.

Use your sincerity to move others.

I hope you are happy.

Chop first and then play, it's better to have children, you can't push it if you want to, and now people are still a bit feudal.

It doesn't matter, as long as you insist, they'll agree.

If you really love her, chase her to the end! If you don't have confidence in yourself, give up!

Does your family have money, why does he want your family to pay for the decoration of his house, won't he make money?

You are 28 years old, how can you be so ignorant and so easy to deceive! You don't even know she's 16 years older than you, that's unthinkable. Divorce is afraid that your parents can't stand it, will they be able to stand it after knowing these situations?

The most important thing is that she treats you badly and can't do it, do you want to live this for the rest of your life! If life is as you say, it will be too boring, as a man you are still young, you should make a decisive decision, deal with it cleanly, and start again, that is, to find someone with some kind of defect, as long as the person is good, it is good to you, and it is much better than now. You're right or not!

Dizzy, you don't even know when you're 16 years older.

I don't know if I'm 16 years older, but she looks like she's only in her 20s?

Alas, the key is to see if he treats you well, and if he is okay, make do with it, otherwise leave as soon as possible.

What did you like about him before you got married? Is it just age.

Leave early Big**! Besides, there is no difference between 44 and 29 years old? Huh, didn't you find out? If you want a divorce, your family should support it, if he doesn't divorce, you can appeal, and the court will support your lawsuit.

You deserve it, you have a wife and children and still do so many things, she also has problems, knowing that you are married and have children, and still dating you, so both are cheap, poor your family has to worry about you. The ending is sad.

Love alone is not enough, you haven't thought about your wife, what should she do? What about the damage you did to her? You can't be without a conscience. And what about your children?

I advise you to think clearly, if you decide to be with her, you have to work hard against all odds, you have hurt a lot of people, don't be too selfish, think more about others, otherwise you will have nothing left one day.

You're too cruel to your current wife, you and the person you love the most have hurt innocents. How cruel. Why didn't we get together because of customs before, but now we still have to be together because of all customs, I knew it was like this, why bother in the first place.

It's really not worth it for your wife. It's also not worth it for that girl.

People like you are really hated.

Insist, there are many films with this kind of plot on TV, and in the end, they all insist that the two of them are together.

But if your child finds out that you are lying to her, she will think that the world is full of bad people, and 16 years old is puberty, and it is easy to rebel.

It's hard to say, but you can try to communicate more with your child and let him trust this father.

Exercise more, eat more vegetables... I used to be very short, but then I grew a lot taller with more exercise...

Most of the 16-year-olds of women are basically not long, but not all. 150cm is indeed shorter, but you can wear high heels later. Also, you can do Tai Chi, which stretches the bones. My favorite thing is to play basketball, and I can't even grow taller if I don't want to.

Calcium supplementation and exercise. In fact, most of this inherited from genes can only change by 30 percent the day after tomorrow, and at present, it can only be calcium supplementation plus exercise. Go to the pharmacy and buy that liquid calcium.

Don't worry, it's only 16 now, and you still have to grow a few years Actually, height is not a problem, eat more nutritious things, don't be picky, and exercise more.

Girls generally can't grow longer after the age of 18, and the effect of milk is actually not very significant, chemistry class has said that zinc helps grow taller, you can try to drink the kind of calcium plus zinc oral liquid.

Exercise more, supplement calcium, don't worry, let it be.

Hehe, sister, I'm 20 now, and I'm only 1.5 meters. Everything is sprinkled with its own sake. We are "short" and have our own advantages. Have confidence in yourself, and you will be the most beautiful when you are confident.

In fact, it is very painful to grow taller for a while, I was always teased when I was young Silly big man, I am now barefoot 190, and the summary experience is: I have been very nutritious since I was a child, I sleep on my back, my shoulders have not been pressed, and I have basically never drunk milk. I guess it has nothing to do with milk.

But there is a lot of exercise. Hope it helps.

You're still struggling with that.

It doesn't matter how high it is, just don't look down on yourself, it's all the elite.

It is not possible under traditional morality, but it is perfectly normal in this situation of freedom of marriage, congratulations ...

You can get married first and then get a marriage certificate when you are old!

Wait a few more years, when you're old enough to get married.