How can I reject a girl who confesses to me, and at the same time keep the friendship from being spo

You're such a big idiot.

Actually, I think you're starting to like her.

You should accept this girl's confession. Try dating her for a while and you'll find that you like her!

When we met, it was the same as before, and nothing happened when we did anything. If nothing happens to her, then be friends again. It mostly depends on how she thinks of your relationship now.

Send her a QQ email and tell her what you mean, I think it's better than telling her in person, and finally tell you that you don't want to lose her as a friend.

You pretend you don't know, and then sometimes you deliberately tell her that you've always wanted to have a sister like her, and she'll figure it out slowly.

Treat it calmly, and Tancheng is relatively good. To put it bluntly, we can only be good friends. I can leave 1 chance for both of you.

I've also encountered this situation, as if nothing happened, let's get along as usual, the more I think about how to solve it, the more embarrassing it will be, as long as we can get along, it will be good after a while.

This is a difficult problem, you don't understand the explanation, you will always be entangled, if you say too decisively, you will become a passerby or an enemy, so you can only pretend to be stupid first, and then inadvertently say that you have an intention of someone, so that the other party knows the difficulty and retreats.

You can invite her individually, do it once, and have a heart-to-heart conversation. In the conversation, express your gratitude for her love. And bless her for finding a better home. Finally, give her a small gift as a token of appreciation. Hope to help you, goodbye.

It's hard to do this in this case, because you can't have it both ways. In most cases, it is impossible for a man and a woman to become friends after an unsuccessful confession, because it is awkward to meet and it is sad for you to let someone you once liked see that you are with another person.

Refuse directly, don't contact him again after refusing, don't ask him for help, and avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

Many people dare not refuse the confession of others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. When you reject this kind of friend's confession, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and your imaginary future.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. Don't refuse face-to-face.

If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and Minchai does not know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

4. Issue a good person card.

Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, give him enough face and let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to cheat on him, this doesn't want to cause him any harm. Now many people know the good brand of Hanyan Youyi. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.