What should I do if someone I really like is only willing to be friends with me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you like it, say it boldly. If you like someone, you don't need to hide it, as long as you sincerely say your feelings, the other party can still be friends even if you don't agree. If you don't say it, you can only be friends. Come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This situation. Very.

    Her relationship with you is not certain. She can only be your friend.

    You try to confess, but it won't work.

    You try %50You are not %0

    You tried, anyway. No way.

    If it becomes. Then both of them are happy to pull!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Starting with friends doesn't make progress.

    Keep hinting.

    Usually it takes a bit of effort to make him change his opinion about you when something big doesn't happen.

    Let's do it bit by bit, step by step.

    It's just a dead fight, and there will be a chance.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friend is a deception

    I don't even have the courage to confess, so I keep deceiving myself

    If it doesn't work, you'll have a new progress

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Experience the happiness of being a friend! Take your time one step at a time!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Being friends is also a blessing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I should have started with friends.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The first step in the long march!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's good to be friends!

    It's time to test your patience.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course it can't be, it is recommended to find an opportunity to make it clear to her, I really don't want to, I just die, forget it, there must be grass within ten steps, don't waste your youth, people's lives are full of troubles, when you are young, you are troubled by the desire that cannot be realized, and when you are middle-aged and old, even having the desire itself is a luxury to hope that people who really like how to be willing to be friends, and then take a look at it, or want to have.

    It's hard to love someone, you know you don't like him, but you still want to be by your side in another way, even if you don't like him in your heart, as long as you can be by your side, even if you can't be together. He knows what you like to drink, what kind of fruit you like to eat, what kind of clothes you wear, and even the size of your underwear. He knows exactly what you like, he knows that you don't like him, but even so, he wants to be by your side, whether it's to be your spare tire or a flower messenger, he is willing.

    As long as you are happy, he will be at ease. I believe that many girls have some friends of the opposite sex around them, and you just treat them as brothers, or even as good sisters. He is willing to be your confidante, he knows that you don't love him, so he is willing to be by your side in another capacity, when you are happy, he is happier than you, when you are sad, he is more heartbroken than you, you are out of love, you cry heartbreakingly, he is so painful that his breathing is painful.

    How he wants to tell you how he wants to give you happiness. Don't want you to be hurt. But he was afraid to say it, and in the end he couldn't even be a friend.

    He loves you as a person, not anything about you, and even if you don't have anything, he will like you just as much. I've never hugged you, but I can feel your warmth. I like to see the way you eat, the way you eat is so good-looking in my eyes, I have seen everything you look like, your wayward look, the way you look, the way you are angry, when you are sad, and the most embarrassing time is good-looking in my eyes, and I am as good as my brother in your eyes.

    You say that you owe him and you have to repay his kindness, but for him, you don't know that he has no parents, and he is not afraid of heaven and earth, but he is afraid that you will suffer. Even if your heart is full of others, I still want to care about you, protect you, and like you, even if it is for you to give my life. As long as you are happy, I will be at ease.

    I'm always there waiting for you, hoping that when you turn around, you'll see me and find me. Be the first to appear in front of you when you need it. I like how you are willing to be only friends, and if you look at you more, you still want to have it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you really like to live with people, you can't be willing to be friends.

    Why do some people become friends, either one or both parties have not really liked it, mistakenly think that they like it, or there is no way to be together, so they can only accompany you in the last way - the relationship of friends. Because of the reluctance to be a familiar stranger.

    But I think the most painful thing is that the two people obviously still like each other, but all aspects of life are not suitable, so more and more incompatibility is exposed, and they start to quarrel, to big quarrels, and finally break up.

    In fact, no one is wrong, in fact, everyone is at fault. But I think it's most uncomfortable to talk about ordinary topics in the form of friends. I can't love it, but I pretend that I'm fine, afraid that the other party will see it, but I want to show it, and I torture myself until I can't stand it anymore.

    I can't let go but I pretend to let go, I hide that everyone likes you, and sometimes I hide it from myself, because only in this way can I continue to move forward, and not just me to stay in the cold autumn and winter of 2020.

    I thought about the summer I wanted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Unwilling. Because you like this kind of thing, even if you don't say it, it will be written in your eyes. I used to want to stay by your side as a friend, so that I could have you for at least a lifetime, didn't I?

    Yes, naïve me, I always think that I am talking and chatting with you as a friend, but I don't know that every word, every question, is just to know if you have been doing recently, the more I feel that I have let go, I will still find that your inadvertent words, after all, can still stir my heartstrings. I'm sorry, I really want to be by your side like this for a lifetime, just silently watching your joys and sorrows, and quietly paying attention to you, even if you have something to rely on in the future, it doesn't matter, because you are very happy. However, I don't like it, it always appears in front of me inexplicably, and tells me harshly that I want to be with her by all means, because you really like her.

    So, I'm sorry, I can't continue to be friends with you by your side. Selfish I hope I will never receive any more information from you, and from then on I will be like strangers, forgotten in the rivers and lakes, maybe I can make me forget you. Good bye.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That's not right, that's not liking.

    Liking is wishing the other person good, not possessing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The eternal topic between men and women is the love between men and women, and when they are still young and ignorant, spring love is overflowing. There are boys they like, and boys have girls they like. Some people are red-faced when they meet the person they like, and some people are enthusiastic in the face of the person they like.

    So, what kind of behavior do girls like boys?

    If a girl likes a boy, she will rely on the boy as her own and will treat the person she likes wholeheartedly. And the attitude is different from other boys. The first manifestation of the difference is to remember more clearly what the boy commands.

    If a girl is interested in a boy, as long as the boy explains something, she will record it in her heart, and occasionally provide you with some surprises. For example, you can do what you like, or give a surprise gift on your birthday. Another manifestation is that he will be very patient and gentle with men.

    Once a girl likes a man, she will be very patient with this man, and her usual savagery will become gentle, and she will accommodate the boy in everything in life. When a girl likes a boy, she thinks about him even after a breakup, and she will contact him from time to time. If a girl breaks up with you, but contacts you frequently and harasses you, it means that she is in love with you.

    Girls like boys' performance and always speak for boys in front of others. When a girl falls in love with a guy, she will often defend you in front of others. If you defend you in front of outsiders, it means that this girl likes you very deeply.

    There are four aspects of a girl's liking of boys, she will remember the things the boy tells very clearly, treat the boy she likes more patiently and gently, and will continue to harass and contact the boy when she breaks up, and defends the boy when others count or criticize the boy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My point is: I don't want to be friends with the person I like. Of course, I won't be her boyfriend, I would rather be a lover. I will also make a comprehensive judgment to see whether to pursue it or not.

    If you like it, don't pursue it, it's a crush. Crush is a person's chaos and a kind of self-torture. For the person you like, if you don't act and don't confess, then there is no hope.

    For those I like, because I am not willing to be just friends, I will take action. But whether to pursue and develop into a lover, I will analyze and judge in advance. Because liking is not love after all, I will judge whether both parties are suitable, because liking is not necessarily suitable.

    If it's not suitable, don't act. If you feel like it's appropriate, go for it. If the other party already has a lover and is emotionally stable, then I will also choose not to pursue it, not to interfere with the other party, and to affect other people's lives. Unless the other person is interested in getting out of the current emotion, then I can pursue it.

    Since you like it, then take action and be willing to be only friends, which means that you don't like it enough, or you don't have enough courage. Of course, there is a possibility of failure if there is pursuit. But at least there is a result.

    The above is my point of view, if you agree, please like and follow. Have a good life and all the best!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Willingly, or even not being friends, since they can't be together, they just like it unilaterally, it's better to either say it to make themselves happy, or directly alienate and be a passerby. Some people may not be able to go with you for a lifetime, but there are many good memories in life, even if it is a passerby, you might as well let him become the scenery in your memory, don't force it, the force of crossing the line will only make both parties painful memories.

    It is not certain whether you like it to the point where you have to be together, for example, you may also like celebrities, but obviously you can only watch from afar. So if the liking doesn't let you take a step closer to him or doesn't make you willing to muster up the courage to confess, then it's nothing more than a shallow hazy feeling to create a like, and it doesn't have to rise to the level of love, so being a friend, or a stranger is the best choice.

    If you like it very much, then be brave enough to approach her, to get to know him, to walk into him. If there is an opportunity, the two parties may be together after contact, or they will give up decisively. If you are not willing to be friends, then try to be together, and if you fail after trying, you may be willing to have no regrets.

    A lot of people are people you like, maybe because of your personality, maybe because of your appearance, maybe because of a certain moment. Some likes don't have to be together to last long, maybe being friends is a good choice.

    There are many beautiful perfections in life, and there are also many regrets and beautifulness. It doesn't have to be perfect, after all, sometimes a little regret is also something that must be experienced in life. It may be the right choice to be willing to be friends with someone who can't walk ahead, maybe you can also keep it in your memory, and then make this person a passerby along the way, and you will find that you like it or not.

    Of course, if you really like it very much, it's better to let go and pursue it, there is always a little braver in the formation of love, maybe you can meet and fall in love, maybe you have no fate, like strangers. But these are the trajectories of life, and they all bring you a lot of memories and growth to a greater or lesser extent.

    If the person you like, he doesn't have the will to like you or even just wants to be friends with you, then making it is the best choice to face a new relationship. After all, there is no way to force love, and entanglement after hard work will only make both parties exhausted and finally receive pain.

    Life is very long, there are many different scenery on the road ahead, you will meet a lot of different people, there will be different degrees of liking to appear, maybe at some moment you will be together, maybe one day you meet an unforgettable like, but there is no way to be together, but after thinking about it, you will find that it is also a good memory.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, happy to answer your questions. I think you should have a crush on him and don't dare to confess to him, so the way to get along with him is to be a friend. Although I am unwilling, accompanying him is also a favorite way, isn't it?

    In fact, the relationship between friends is the most ideal relationship, feelings, love will deteriorate, it has a shelf life. The relationship between friends will not be, it will be a lifetime, telling each other their hearts and encouraging each other. Isn't that enough?

    Someone once said that if you don't have it, you can't lose it. Without loss, you won't suffer from gains and losses, and you will not suppress yourself. The wine glass is too shallow, and it will not be long for the future.

    The alley is too short to walk, and the gray hair is gray. It's not that I can't keep my heart when I'm young, but that the years have panicked people's hearts, and the biggest regret in life is not that I missed the person I love the most, but that I made a wrong confession and overestimated my ability. Because if you come near him, you will never come back.

    All the great realizations were once incurable. You know he likes people, so why bother to show him your heart. It makes the relationship even more awkward.

    Adjust your mindset and be a good friend. On the contrary, it is even more precious. Your unwillingness is not chasing others, but your own heart full of expectations.

    The difference between letting go and giving up, letting go of a life that was originally your own. To let go is to let go, and it never belongs to you. What is more suitable for you is to let go.

    Get along in another way, and the friendship lasts forever. Isn't it a kind of great love.

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