I ve been in love with someone for 5 years, and I ve been looking for 3 years, should I continue to

Rhetorically, if you don't look for him, will you have this in your heart in the future? Of course, maybe you find a suitable marriage, and at that time, maybe you have found a suitable one. But in the beginning, people never know which is suitable.

People can only live once, do they need to leave regrets when they are irretrievable later? Do what you do now, don't think about the future.

Your spirit is really touching

Ay.. If you really love her

Then you go ahead

But don't you feel like you're wasting your time?

If she wants to see you, she'll show up

She hasn't been moved for 3 years, you think she's looking for it

Is it worth it ?

Boredom, youth is in a hurry, if you plan to bet yourself on this person then don't give up, let go of everything you have, it's okay to run away from home, ah, make yourself in pieces and stop it. At that time, your mentality may be who wants to marry me, I don't remember that much, as long as someone wants me

It may be that you are willful and break his heart.

I believe that if he loves you, he will take the initiative to find you when he knows that you are looking for her.

Don't give up.

Women chase men, interlayer yarn, it's not a big problem!

Take a look at the contact section.

It's been 3 years. Why give up...

Find him.,It's good to make a wish.。。 Don't let yourself regret it, no matter how it ends.

True love is to love and find it for a long time!

The hundredth and first proposal.

You know what your true love is up to, in case someone else is playing tricks on your friends.

Ask yourself if it's worth it. Is he worth your wait, don't want to say, I've been waiting for 3 years, isn't it a pity to give up now, someone who is worth your wait for won't let you wait so unconfidently.

Today's society is not a general reality. Good luck.. Help yourself to leave a way back. Don't hang yourself from a tree. Now there is no love in the sea and rocks.

Little girl, you are still very young, you don't know much about life, emotional life is just a part of life, and I guess you should be a little closed, get in touch with more new friends, don't stick to the original circle, you will slowly find life colorful. This kind of thinking is just a part of people's emotional life, a stage, some people are long, some people are short. You care about him too much, turn your attention, find out your interests, participate in more group activities, believe me, this is just a small part of life, you will encounter more unforgettable experiences.

If people always live in memories and fantasies, they will not be able to discover the beauty of the present life.

Hello. I've read your question so carefully. First of all, I think you are a very dedicated person for love.

But I think if you really love him. You should tell him when he doesn't have a girlfriend that you love him dearly. At least let him know.

Now that he has a girlfriend, I think you should have to face it. If you feel that he still wants to be friends with him, you should not give with love, because you will only hurt yourself more by doing so. Love should be slowly transformed into friendship.

In this way, you will be really happy when you are usually with him. In the same way, you will have a happy life of your own.

Love is great. But you can't give up your own happiness because he is alone. I'm sure he doesn't want that either.

What others think, that's something else, don't care what others think. Shakespeare once said that for every 100 people who look at Hamlet, there are 100 Hamlets.

Since you don't feel wronged, then go on, there is nothing that you can't forget, you can't let go, and when it hurts, you will naturally forget and let go. If you really love him, then go for it, nothing is impossible. There's no selfless love, and if you really don't feel wronged, then you don't come here to ask questions.

If you can't get it, then try a new relationship, time will ** everything. I don't know how old you are, you still have a few 3 years to waste... Fight for it, don't ask for anything else, ask for a result...

On success or failure, life is heroic, it's a big deal, change it and start again.

When I was studying, I met a girl I really liked!

At that time, I was not very sensible!

But I think I'd be unhappy without her!

We all chose our own paths after graduation!

She left me!

At the beginning of that year, I became a "bad person" and did things that even I couldn't believe!

We were separated for five years! Lost contact with her!

I got a girlfriend during those five years!

But they broke up in less than 2 weeks!

In the end, I chose to wait blindly!

Finally one day I received a **!

Picked up that ** I was happy for a day!

She told me she was back! I told her I was going to chase her again!

In the end, I succeeded! Now the two of us are happy!

None of us told each other what we had been doing in the last five years!

We all want to make these five years our test!

Personally, you'd better confess to him, even if he's in a relationship now, you say he knows you loved him, but does he know that you still love him? Although you say that you are willing to love him silently, in fact, you yourself want to know how he feels about you, even if you already know the answer, I don't appreciate the crush, the crush is a very uncourageous performance, and it is obviously unrealistic for friends to persuade you to forget him. Should you continue or not, you have the answer in your heart, but you don't have the courage to accept the answer, and I won't advise you to forget him, because I know that you can't forget him.

Lonely missing, I know we will never be possible.

I don't feel wronged if I should continue, but everyone thinks it's unfair to me.

You know it's impossible, so why insist on it. I've watched too many idol dramas, give up, this is a relief for you!!

This is the first love, the first love is just for memories, and when you think about it later, you will feel that it is a kind of beauty, and what you can't get is the best, you are still young, and society is very cruel, and you and him will change after a few years, or concentrate on your studies, otherwise the gap will widen after a few years, and you will feel that you are not qualified to practice him.

Don't judge the future because of the length of time!

In fact, it is not a question of whether you should continue to wait, but the problem lies with yourself. The answer to this question can be found in yourself.

If you really love him or her, then it is useless to wait even though you know that there is no result, even if you are confused, even if you are sad.

But there is no way for your heart not to wait for him or her.

If you love someone very much, your heart can't accommodate other people, you have to wait, there is no other way.

It depends on whether he loves you or not.

If I don't love you, it's useless to wait.

If I love you, I suggest you talk about it.

It depends on the year and month, and if he loves you and you love him, you just keep waiting.

You're going to be the same as me. I'll tell you. If you still love him, wait for him. Nothing is worth it. The premise is you, does he know?

What has he committed to during these three years? How many times did he promise? It's useless to always promise without keeping it. Don't wait!

A person is always so reluctant when faced with a choice, since they have persisted for 3 years, why not stick to it? Even if we are wrong in the end, it is better than looking back and thinking about it for 3 years and regretting it, we are always afraid of the result, but when we give up and know the result, it is actually the greatest cowardice and the greatest sorrow.

Stick to your ideals, even if sometimes they come later than we think.

Hope you get what you want. While it may not be the best, it is true that you need it the most.

If you really love him, stick to it. If you don't have someone who loves him or he has love, or if he can't fall in love with you, just give up, find someone who loves you, and you'll be happier, at least he won't make your heart ache.

If you can see the results, just wait.

If he has someone he likes, you wait for nothing.

Why don't you tell him, do you have to wait for the man to speak, if you love someone, you have to confess to him, this is your right, and of course it is also a ray of hope for you to strive for!

When you feel tired, you can give it up.

The key is that in these three years, have you still been in touch with each other, and do you understand his basic situation in these three years? You know what's going on in his heart? Does he have you in his heart?

How do you feel? Love? If love is spoken, even if you can't hold back the illness, you will miss the relationship, love says it out loud, even if you lose, it can prove that you have tried! Isn't it?!

Not necessarily, but it may also be too dependent on him.

He is the source of everything that comes from you, more than your life!

In your world, he is the sky and the focus of your attention, and other people and things are not important to you.

Truly loving someone is unrequited and endlessly giving!

His joys, sorrows, and sorrows are your barometer and govern your emotions!

And so on and so forth!

Attachment to love is the highest state of loving or waiting for someone.

Well. The love in everyone's own heart is different, everyone has a unique love in their own heart, and some people hope that person can stay with them for a lifetime.

people just want that person to be happy, five years is actually a long time. Anything can happen, the time is really too long, you may be able to hold it, but the other party. Who knows?

In the end, it is often themselves who are hurt, and whoever gives more will hurt more. Love is not non-existent. Just hope that you will be able to keep your love fresh!!

Don't make the other person feel lonely!!

Just saw! What is the highest level of love? The hand of the son is a realm, the mutual affection is a realm, and the promise of life and death is also a realm.

There is one of the most dignified and abundant loves in this world. It is a long-term infiltration, a kind of warmth that is integrated into each other's lives.

Let him be happy without burden.

The highest level of love is: forget me, don't be as painful as I miss you.

I have a lot in my heart, and I can help him with his right difficulties....

In three years, anything can happen, maybe in these three years, she got married, or maybe in these three years, Xinyun sentenced you to become strangers. In three years, you also have the possibility of falling in love with other people, so don't waste three years waiting for an unknown!

It depends on whether it's worth your love.

No, I would rather be arrogant and lonely than humbly wait for the pursuit.

Possibly, if we haven't met a better fit for us in these 3 years.

I think if you don't have the courage to confess, then you should record, don't be nervous, let the other party listen to it when you send it, and the outer packaging should be in line with the other party's heart! Thank you

Oh, you're in the same situation as me, you're just a year longer than me.

It wasn't until later that I slowly figured it out.

This kind of love is not love, but dependence.

What is the point of such love even if it is together.

You don't have to know what she thinks.

Because then she will take your efforts for granted.

If she really loves you, she will definitely come back to you.

It's not worth the wait.

When you think about her, how can you think about yourself?

Is she really worth your attention?

Everyone has the right to love and not to love.

No matter how much you care about her.

Instead, she would find it disgusting.

It's been 5 years, or I don't like you.

Otherwise, I just want to be ambiguous and confidant.

Even if she is hurt, you care about her.

Maybe all she was looking for was a replacement.

Wait for the love to pass.

Business ...... business as usual

If you want to blossom and bear fruit, it's best to say it in person, so it's more sincere, and if you are rejected, you can come back with a hurt and continue to be friends. Or wait for the next opportunity.

Brother, give it up, I haven't dared to express it for five years, one is not courageous, and the other is immeasurable. I don't dare to say it, and I'm afraid to say it, and I can't accept the worst. If you can't pass this level yourself, don't think about passing other people's levels.

It's only been five years, I've been waiting for 8 years, what do you think I should do?

I don't know how to say it, I'm having emotional problems now as you said, and now I'm also worried about this, I don't know what to do, I just wait for her, or wait for someone who is tempted by myself, there is no way.

As long as you really like her and work hard then you can definitely do it, but it doesn't mean that she will wait for you, you have to think clearly and make sure that you don't want anything in return, even if you like her for a few years until she still doesn't like you, will you still persevere?

Three years? My ex-girlfriend and I have always been in love with each other, and we haven't survived the three years of separation, there will really be a lot of variables in three years, the kind of loneliness that can only be missed and not touched, once we encounter an episode, our hearts will gradually be taken away; Even if there is no episode to disturb your minds, when you meet three years later, you will find that she is no longer the person you have been waiting for, and the wonderful person you love so much will only remain in the memory. Three years has changed a lot, unless your significant other is an isolated dead housegirl.