After talking about the relationship for 5 and a half years, I feel that it has come to an end

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The landlord is a person who deserves a better her.

    Meet the right person at the right time.

    After 5 years of love, this is a terrifying number.

    How much has the girl grown in five years? It's the same story as a story where men appreciate and women depreciate. Both of you wanted to enter each other's lives, but in this journey, the woman did not get self-sublimation, and still struggled with environmental impact, boring face problems, and lack of confidence in reality and economics.

    Even if you are not an international student, for people with ordinary education and hard work, economic and external appearance is a barrier that is easy to cross, but girls have no confidence in you and themselves. I think you guys need real communication, what exactly is she after? Love, or a comfortable life as a noblewoman in the future?

    Although her requirements are not very high, but this kind of immaturity that does not know how to ignore the eyes around you will make you face pressure in the future, life is the best teacher and the most cruel teacher, maybe girls need to know more and experience more.

    However, if you don't work hard now, try to find a job tomorrow. This set is similar to love, maybe it may be a difficult thing for the landlord to find another lover after separating from her. However, given that the girl has stubbornly not contacted and communicated with you, the possibility of this shaping is close to zero.

    I think it's good that you're separated from her. It is indeed a sad thing to read so much, but not have the opportunity to get in touch with some human thoughts and feelings, but to be numbed by one fact by one. As Picasso said, "I could have drawn as well as Raphael at their age, but it took me my whole life to learn how to draw like these children."

    When you are old, you think about what is precious, very late.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't have to involve too many constellations, it doesn't really matter.

    Girls want to feel safe. If your girlfriend has to buy a house, you can actually tell your dad, you don't want a car, and give you the money to buy a car at your disposal, so that the down payment will be better, right?

    It's good to plan for the worst, but you must think clearly about whether you are still in love!

    Let's talk about it!

    I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If the other party just likes the economy, and you really can't reach it, then what can you do? Can you emotionally impress her?

    Fate is natural, you can't force it, it's you who can't avoid it, it's not what you think, as long as you work hard, you can't do it, no regrets. Go with the flow, after coming back to talk, if it doesn't work, it means that you have no fate, when you break it, you will break it, put your energy into working and finding another girlfriend, and your fate girlfriend is waiting for you in the dark.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can feel that you love her, long-distance relationships are really difficult, I think you had better be able to talk about it, I understand your mood very well, after all, it is not easy for the two to be together, go back and face it with her, I think she needs you now, the result is not important, since you love her so much, why not fight for it, it doesn't matter where you are, the important thing is that your heart is not together, I hope you have a good result.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I won't say the big truth, I only know one thing, if you really love someone, don't care about the so-called things outside the body, love is sacred, true love can't be described with money and things.

    Since your girlfriend's family doesn't agree very much, then even if you combine it, will you get real happiness, five years is only 1 20 of life, do you really want to cling to the present and give up the future, what I said is just what I want to think about It's like you want to go back but you are planning for the worst, I hope you can go back to the past as soon as possible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings must not be built on material foundations! I remember a sentence in a TV series: If you want to test a woman, you need money.

    No matter how many years your relationship has passed, it still seems so pale in front of money. Do you think there is a need to continue this kind of relationship? You're going to ask her a question:

    Is she marrying you or a house?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A long-distance relationship must be full of contradictions in the end, I suggest that you better go back to solve this problem with him as soon as possible, if you have to study in Japan for a few years, it is estimated that the possibility of breaking up is very high.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, I think the girl of the Taurus actually thinks quite realistically, but he is not wrong, the blame can only be blamed on this society is too realistic, you better talk to him, if your five-year relationship is ruined on the house I don't think I know, then I don't believe in the so-called love. Maybe his family is putting pressure on your girlfriend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She's a little inconsiderate of you. Marriage is a matter of two people, but she gives you all the responsibility. That's why she ignores you, and her mom doesn't like it. Does it work to insist. You can only get married with material things She loves material things.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not that she doesn't love you, maybe she has her own struggles. I was in the same situation as her, but we broke up in the end. So, you can't blame her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The distance is far more terrifying than you think, I hope you can come back sooner and solve it sooner, and have a good talk.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Give her a breakup to see how she is, if she doesn't cherish it, why don't you miss it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Break up or hold on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't support you guys. Scorpio and Taurus are not suitable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is a very magical process for a love to grow from nothing, from bland to blazing, and then from blazing to bland. When the relationship returns to flat, it does not mean that there is no love between two people, but this love needs to be managed and maintained in a different way.

    When two people first start to fall in love, the fiery emotions make each other more tolerant, and they will subconsciously ignore many mistakes and shortcomings in life. But as the two people spend more time together, they get to know each other more and more, and the once fiery relationship is slowly returning to flat.

    This is a very normal process in itself, but in this process, many people will feel that there is something wrong with their love. As you described in the title, the two of you have been together for 5 years, and time has already known each other well enough, and love has been integrated into life. The tiredness you feel at this time is most likely due to the pressure brought to you by life and your fear of future life, not necessarily the emotional problem.

    The reason why you think this way is simply because of people's self-avoidance psychology, and the subconscious responsibility is shifted to the other half who are used to appearing in life. This is actually a kind of avoidance psychology, which affects your judgment and makes you misestimate your feelings.

    For a couple who have been in love for five years, they may lack some communication and communication in their lives after they are used to each other's existence, and you may be a little tired of this lifestyle.

    I think you should change the way you manage your relationship, which will be better for both of you, and the best way I can think of is to get married. If you enter into marriage at this stage, I believe that your relationship will be sublimated, because you will be able to rediscover the feeling of being in love, and you can also rediscover the meaning of this relationship.

    You should get married when you are in love at a certain stage, otherwise the longer you are in love, the more likely it is that the two will not reach the end. I guess that's the best way to go about itIf you want, please bring a wedding dress for your girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It may be that if you feel tired, it means that the novelty has passed, and there is no special expectation for him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The two of them have been in love for five years, and I feel tired of falling in love, because they have been together for too long, and I think five years is still too long.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Over time, a lot of feelings have changed. For example, husband and wife, the original love is warm, but after marriage, it will slowly become more affectionate than love. If you feel too tired after five years of dating, you can consider separating.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes. Because two people will not manage this relationship well, this relationship has come to an end, which will make both people very tired.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Many of these feelings have changed over time. For example, couples used to love passionately, but after getting married, they gradually become more affectionate than love. After five years of dating, if you feel too tired, you can consider separating.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you feel tired, it means that you haven't reached the limit or there may be a chance, but when your patience reaches the limit, it may be a direct breakup.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes. Because the two people are very tired in the relationship and feel very tired, it means that the relationship between the two people has come to an end.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After practicing for five years, I feel more and more tired, so I think this relationship should come to an end. If two people can't be very comfortable together, then don't be together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Every period has a bottleneck when you need to make changes to keep the relationship fresh.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, this is a very normal phenomenon, you can talk to her, talk, and confide in your heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, such a problem is very serious, and the consequences are also very serious, so we must learn to stop losses in time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Summary. Hello dear: The question you asked A 6-year relationship is not as good as a relationship that goes back for a week The answer for you is as follows:

    What you haven't been able to get out of is how she betrayed you, just because you care too much about it, so you can't forget her, and then you can't help but think about the pain and hurt she has for you that you can't face, in fact, you haven't forgotten her until now Thinking about her and hurting you again and again, but have you thought about it? She doesn't belong to you and doesn't deserve your love for her, since they are all separated, then you should be an experience in your life, and she is just that passerby, the road is still insisting on working hard to walk, I still have to find my own lover who is worthy of my love, instead of torturing myself, seven years maybe you really paid a lot but have you thought about it, a fruit that has changed its taste is really difficult to eat again. If you are still together, then you have to think about it, who is not a saint or a sage?

    It's a good thing that mistakes can be corrected, but how can there be people in the world who don't do wrong things? Maybe your forgiveness brings you eternal happiness, and it is said that suffering is a blessing or a curse, so since you choose to be together, then you have to choose to accept everything from her, right? Finally, I wish you a happy day!

    Hello, I have seen your question, I am sorting out the answer, and I will give you the answer in 5 minutes, please wait a while.

    Hello dear: The question you asked A 6-year relationship is not as good as going back for a week to give you the answer as follows: What you have not been able to get out of is how she betrayed you, just because you care too much so that you miss her, and then you can't help but think about the pain and hurt that she can't face for you, in fact, you have never forgotten her until now and thought about her again and again and hurt you, but have you thought about it?

    She doesn't belong to you and doesn't deserve your love for her, since they are all separated, then you should be an experience in your Qingji's life, and she is just that passerby, the road still insists on working hard to walk, I still have to find my lover who is worthy of my love, instead of torturing myself, seven years, maybe you really have paid a lot, but have you thought about it, a fruit that has changed its taste is really difficult to eat again. If you are still together, then you have to think about it, who is not a saint or a sage? It's a good thing that mistakes can be corrected, but how can there be people in the world who don't do wrong things?

    Maybe your forgiveness brings you eternal happiness, and it is said that suffering is a blessing or a curse, so since you choose to be together, then you have to choose to accept everything from her, right? Finally, I wish you a happy day!

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