My boyfriend who has been talking for 8 and a half years broke up, how hard can I get the approval o

First, after you broke up, you took the initiative to contact him, I think he is not generous enough, men should let women, second, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, if his psychology is more inclined to his mother, even if you get married, he may also help his mother if you encounter conflicts with his mother in the future, of course, you can also be a good daughter-in-law, third, if you love him enough, your family does not object, you are sure that he loves you enough, You can ask him to help you say more good things in front of his mother, and when you have time, you can go with your boyfriend to see his mother and prepare some intimate gifts or something, people's hearts are always warm, and ...... is always warm8 years is not easy, it's like passionate love transforms into plain family affection, believe what you believe, follow your heart, and don't forget, don't lose yourself in the face of wrong love.

To quote a quote from Park Hae-mi, I will never give up on the people I like! Try it yourself, but remember, you must not lose your dignity in the process of exchange, because love is equal, try your best to get it back! Fate is not over, love will come eventually!

Come on! As for his parents, I think you just need to be filial to her with the boy, in fact, the mother-in-law begins to oppose you, the more you coax her, the more she loses her temper, you only live with the boy, really love him, and his family is good, after all, live with the boy for a lifetime, you don't have to deliberately please or coax his parents in order to fulfill the two of you, no need, love doesn't come like this Even if it is because of this, you will be sad in the future, and if there is a contradiction, you can only coax her! Don't be misunderstood!

If you can't let it go, you have to fight for it, since there is no problem between you, the only way is to talk to his mother, and it will be natural to open this knot.

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, but my parents are particularly against this relationship, how can I get my parents' affirmation?

The first is to communicate with the parents, ask them what they think about the relationship and what they are dissatisfied with, actively change the parents' preconceptions, and obtain the affirmation and blessing of the parents.

In fact, many parents are very fond of their children and want the best protection for their children. Sometimes I take my children to fall in love and my parents are very optimistic about each other, which is also for the sake of the happiness of the children. I have been in love with my boyfriend for two years, but my parents have not been optimistic about this relationship, and if I want to get the approval of my parents, I must communicate sincerely with my parents, and I hope that they have a true view of this relationship.

Second, if your other half is not able to face it with you and cannot see his responsibilities and responsibilities, you should carefully consider this relationship in the midst of your parents' continued opposition.

When we choose our other half, we all hope that the other person can provide happiness and security for our future life. But if he finds that his other half has no responsibility when he is in love, and when his parents oppose this relationship, he shrinks back and does not face it with him, then such a person is not worthy of his life. In the midst of the parents' continued opposition, the relationship should be carefully considered whether to continue.

Loving someone can face unknown risks and hardships with her, provided that the other party must have a sense of responsibility, if the other party does not have any responsibility at all, then such a payment will only make themselves suffer.

Parents are opposed to this relationship, at this time must not be stubborn, try to communicate with parents, listen to parents' opinions, and make decisions and choices carefully.

First of all, you should tell your parents about the advantages and disadvantages of the other party, and you should also tell your parents that you will often take care of yourself in life, no matter what you do, the other party will help you, and never let yourself do it deliberately to say that the other party is good to you, and your parents will be moved, and every parent wants their children to live happily.

You can let each other come to your home more, take care of your parents more, take care of yourself more, and then your mother and father will also believe that seeing is believing. You can see that the other party cares about themselves very much and is very good to themselves. In the end, you can agree.

You can say good things about each other in front of your parents in your life, and you should also tell your parents that you have been taken care of by the other party in your life, and the other party loves you very much in life and does not allow yourself to be wronged.

I think you're going to have to think about this man no matter what the situation.

First of all, if he really obeys his parents and wants to break up with you even if he loves you very much, it means that he has no say at home. What do he listen to when his parents say, and what should such a man do if he has something to do at home in the future and waits for him to make an idea?

Secondly, could he be using his parents as an excuse to break up with you himself? This is also common. Maybe he doesn't have feelings for you anymore, maybe he has a crush on someone else, in short, he doesn't want to tell you the real reason, but he is willing to break up.

Such a man should be kicked away. How far to kick and how far to kick.

Again, he is a filial child, and his parents do not want him to be with you because of various considerations, and this situation needs to be solved by both of you. First know where his parents' concerns are, and prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem. I believe that there is nothing that cannot be solved, and if he really has to marry you, then it is impossible for parents to watch their children live unhappy and stop them.

The key is to see his attitude.

Therefore, it is recommended that you ask why he is breaking up with you and his attitude on this matter before deciding what to do next.

Don't want this kind of man, if you insist on being with him, you will have a very miserable life in the future, because I have a friend who is like that! Friend, let it go, it doesn't belong to you, it won't be happy, bless you!

Not being assertive is obviously an excuse If he really likes you, he will be with you no matter how much he likes you, and my boyfriend's parents are against it, but we're still together.

I'm also from Zhejiang... I know that some unenlightened parents have a kind of resistance to their daughters-in-law in the field. It's just that you will dislike outsiders. Weakly ask about the family background of the landlord and her boyfriend's family.

This kind of man, get rid of it early, useless man.

No matter what the trouble is, it's useless. It's like a child who doesn't grow up.

Since he listens to his parents so much, let him be, if he is reluctant to be together, he will still listen to his parents in the future and don't care about you.

If he loves you, then he should be with you against all odds, no matter what that difficulty may be.

Instead of blindly following your parents' arrangements.

I'm such a bastard person, I've been in love with my girlfriend for almost six years, and yesterday I broke up with her, the main reason is that considering my parents, her personality is not suitable for our family.

If he really loves you......Then he won't be so dismissive of your feelings, I think we should see this kind of thing a lot in the real world and in movies! This has to be seen in your own situation! It's not like you can do whatever others say!

If he really listens to his parents and doesn't care about your feelings, then he is not worthy of your sentimentality!