How to deal with the cold war with your boyfriend because of the matter of borrowing money? 20

You're right not to borrow money.

First of all, you've only been dating for more than a month, and you don't have a deep emotional foundation, and you don't know him well enough.

Second, he borrowed money because he lost it, not because of the difficulties of life itself, in other words, not because he didn't have money in the first place.

It's not about your stinginess, it's me and I'm going to do the same.

And I want to remind you.

A person who is good to you doesn't have to always invite you to eat, buy clothes, or invite your friends to dinner and sing or something.

The key is to look at the details, you can't just rely on money to smash it out, don't you say yes?

He's having a cold war with you now, and he's cold and cold, and it's only been a little over a month anyway.

If he really values you, he will correct it.

If you don't like it.

You don't have any regrets, really.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

I hope you are satisfied with me, thank you.

Gambling for money? My dad sometimes buys football lottery tickets and often loses, but he has a certain financial ability, and he doesn't buy it often, he doesn't indulge in it, and he's very good to his family....I have a friend's dad who loses everything and is addicted and not so good to his family, depending on what kind of person he is

If you're a man, you shouldn't ask a woman for money, but even if it's a relationship, you can also ask your friends to borrow money

A man even pulls on his girlfriend for such a trivial matter. Please, it's not that we girls are stingy and don't lend you this little money, it's that you're too spineless. Not necessarily! It's a pity that this girl is the girl, in fact, girls are the most taboo boys to reach out and borrow money from themselves

I can't help it, in an instant, the handsome, the charming, and the beautiful ideas are gone, how can I like each other

Another cup.

In a word, this kind of man, don't do it, ask you to borrow money after a month, this kind of person is not a man at all, he is a little white face.

It's a good man, he won't invite you to sing and eat with your colleagues, the reason why you invite your colleagues to sing and eat shows that he is very attentive, if you are not with him anymore, he will definitely contact your colleagues or something, he belongs to the kind of hanging children, just playing with women, there will be no feelings, this kind of person is more, the last word, this kind of man, a second is not worth your cherishing, nostalgia,

For the sake of safety, it's better not to go back and forth!

If it's really so great just for home, how can you give up the part you leave to yourself or gamble it? So you can basically conclude that this is a **! If you don't do it more than once, it's still a scoundrel.

How? This is one of them; Singing and eating and enjoying him does not mean that he is generous, and may hide a greater purpose such as borrowing money. You are so considerate and so good, he is not satisfied, and he wants money before he gets married, it can be seen that he does not understand the character of being considerate and demanding, if you have no masochistic tendencies, why indulge?

Second; You're right, if it's a man, you shouldn't ask a woman for money. Before getting married, the girl was a treasure, and it was used to hurt, not like this. Otherwise, after marriage, firewood, rice, oil, salt, and miscellaneous children will be inconsiderate, and you will be able to bear it!

Thirdly. A scoundrel, **, there will be countless ways to entangle and ask, the only way is to stay away and treat it coldly. I can see that you are a self-reliant girl, and you really can't do it! There should be someone with a similar character to you to fight for the future with you! Don't waste your precious youth on useless people!

Parted. One of the positive reasons why a man asks a woman to borrow money is because he is in a hurry, and the negative reason is because he is used to eating white rice.

I think it's really contemptible for a man who already has a job and asks a woman to borrow money for living expenses. And it's just been dating for more than a month, hey, I'll go, such a man is disgusting.

Support your approach ......Let's find a way to ease it, (borrowing money for a month's relationship, it's a bit hanging.) ）

If you don't want to ruin your life's happiness, either you teach him well, or don't be with him.

The question is not difficult, you should tell each other what you think.

Did he lose? What do you mean? Did he gamble?

If a family is financially unstable and the man is not conscious, I think it is still divided, and the long pain is better than the short pain, think about it yourself, what I said is right???

If you forget it once or twice, it may be some special circumstances, don't worry too much. If this is often the case, then divide it.

Explain why you borrowed money, explain the usefulness (believe you are in a hurry).

I haven't finished reading the rest of the book! It's not your problem! This kind of man! Forget it....Hooked on gambling....If you don't let go, you won't be happy....

Wait for him to say good things to you.

The first time you broke up, your reason seems to be that he didn't celebrate his birthday with you, this reason is a little helpless, can I understand your strong sense of self-centeredness?

Men and women in love are very blind, but boys spend less time immersed than girls. It's easier to jump out of love.

Let's start with his question, first, birthday is a very important thing in the eyes of girls, and he hasn't been with you to show that his perspective has not been fully considered for you. Even if there is something he can choose a compromise to accompany you, it shows that he has begun to pay less attention to you.

Second, he asked you to borrow money to invite a friend to dinner, and repeatedly asked for it, which shows that he feels very normal for your request, and shows that he is extremely familiar with you, but among the people I contacted, almost no girlfriend borrowed money to invite someone to dinner, especially the money was from her father.

For boys, I think it's around 80.

Furthermore, your question, one, he didn't accompany you for your birthday, can this be used as a reason to break up? If you propose to break up, it means that you have already had the idea of breaking up in your heart.

Second, he asked you to borrow money, and you didn't want to borrow it, even if it was because of reality, but at this time you are less blind to a girl in love, which means that you are already reviewing this relationship.

Third, your friend just said that you may not be able to adapt to his customs, but in this era, in fact, many customs are slowly changing, not old-fashioned, and you immediately hesitated, you fell to the bottom all of a sudden, indicating that you actually do not love him as much as you imagined, because when you really love someone, these will not appear in your mind, maybe you say that you are old, you must think about these, but you must know that love him, thinking is often beautiful, do not love, will compromise.

In fact, you don't love him as much as you imagined, you just want to re-enter the original beautiful relationship with him, but this is impossible, women's intuition is sensitive, but sometimes men can better distinguish whether a woman really loves him or loves him in the illusion.

You don't love him, you only love the original feelings, and in the end you also said that you are afraid that no one will love you like that again.

In fact, why should life be so pessimistic, he is just your current emotional experience, he may feel that the time is dark when he leaves you, in fact, there is no need, love is not betrayal, when you find the next one, when your love is fully devoted, I promise, there will never be him in your world, even if he stands in front of you, you will automatically filter him.

My advice is to leave, because you are not suitable for him, he is not suitable for you, you are too self-centered, and he is a lifer!

Since he doesn't spoil you so much and doesn't accommodate you so much, then if you think about your married life, you have to accommodate him. You say he's a bit selfish, so can you put up with it for the rest of your life? Think about it, but how you deal with it depends on your determination and attitude.

It's just my personal opinion, it's a little realistic, it's a little cruel, right, hehe, no way, this is life.

Breaking up because I didn't give you a birthday present? I don't know what your boyfriend thinks. But as a man, I tell you explicitly:

I can't stand your temper. Maybe it's a difference between men and women. Maybe other women are similar to you.

But again, most men can't stand it. You have a birthday, your boyfriend doesn't give you a gift, your boyfriend doesn't do well in some places, you can be unhappy, you can criticize your boyfriend, and you have something to say. What does it mean to break up and not pick up ** if you move like this?

Isn't it fun?

It's all small things, if you like it, go to someone, if you don't like it, pull it down, it's as simple as that.

The two of you will look at it separately for a while.

Do you think it's necessary to be angry, ignore him if necessary, sit down and talk about it.

How does it feel like a play house?

1. Bloody battle to the end, 2 surrenders, 3, you win.

You manage a little more, and it's a long-distance relationship, it's dangerous, and besides, you're really immature!

I don't think it's necessary, you're like this, how big of a deal is it that he can cold you for so long, it's too ruthless. You have to keep your dignity, don't force him step by step, he is bored, then let him be quiet, if he is quiet for too long, or ignore you, then there is no need to say anything, he just wants to find an excuse to cold and violent you, and then force you to break up, just leave quietly.

Everything your boyfriend did was just to let you know that he was really angry and hadn't reached the point of breaking up. If you really want to break up, you won't know about it, and everything will seem normal and unaware. Why, because I don't have to let you know what I've done, we're okay with each other.

Quietly waiting for his **, he will take the initiative to reply, believe me.

It is recommended that the landlord still make an appointment to talk in person, ** text messages or something have no effect on your current situation, and talking about this matter in person will have a thorough result. Even if it is a breakup, this kind of thing must be made clear in person, and it is impossible to acquiesce to this without saying anything.

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How can you not suffer from gains and losses after falling in love? We must communicate more, communicate more, understand more, be more tolerant, trust more, and be more considerate... Love needs to be managed by both parties, not unrequited love and wishful thinking...

In fact, when we encounter this kind of thing, we can only make a bet on ourselves, that is, you try to ignore him, don't care about him, and when he finds out, he will naturally ask you or take other ways to make you notice him. If you do this, she still ignores you, then it means that you have lost.

Let me tell you, as a man, he believes that you are married, and that is a commitment to be responsible for you for the rest of your life. If he wants to imagine that he will be with a woman who quarrels with him all day long for chasing after the wind and shadows, and texts and beats ** all day long, everyone will go crazy.

What you need is trust and calmness. Trust your boyfriend, and unless there is definite evidence, don't suspect him casually, or even scold him. Give him free space.

You hit a **, and if he breaks it, don't hit it again. He may have something to do. When he is free, he will naturally contact you.

Think about it: if you want to live together, and you have to have dozens of ** text messages to stop when you have a little quarrel, affecting each other's work, then how can you live together?

Ay! It's all your fault, you're in too much of a hurry, ignore you, and you don't have to rush.

Then you were also by her, what are you going to do with such a man, so careful.

A really good man won't have a cold war with his girlfriend, if you really want to talk to him, you can deliberately argue in front of him, and then suddenly laugh at him yourself, although you sniff a little, the man who loves you will laugh, because he doesn't want to have a cold war with you anymore, and the text message doesn't reply to him directly, and sometimes girls should also be the main ones.

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Pull it down, dear. If he really loves you, how can he ruin the relationship between you that is so hard to build because of this little thing? Or maybe it's a **, in short, it's better to be cautious.

This man is broken up, although I don't know what the situation of your relationship has developed, but a man wants to borrow money from his girlfriend, and threatens to break up, is this man still reliable, and he must ask his girlfriend for help for any difficulties.

Oooh. Get married first, and you can lend him your money.

Supplement the ground floor. Parted. Even if you lend him to reconcile, this matter will always leave a knot in your heart, and you will not be able to go back to the previous one, so you can simply break up now.

In some ways, your boyfriend really cares about you too much, or maybe he is too lonely inside, and then he has some mental problems (which is not a good way to say). You can use this trick with him, or release some threatening words, such as breaking up or something, if he wants to react violently, then he loves you, if not, break up, the child ......