Hello, I am a student, and I would like to ask you some psychological questions that are bothering m

Set yourself a goal, in the long run, not one stage, but one stage ......at a timeSometimes it's not a bad thing to be sensitive, just like me, I'm very sensitive, but my teacher told me a sentence I think I should give it to you: sometimes it's not about thinking too much, just be yourself, in fact, 80% of what a person thinks about is his own idea, not many people will be so boring to talk about others, even if you hear clearly that others are talking about you, then you have to think about it, whether you are not doing well in some aspects, if so, you have to correct, If not, you can immediately refute it, so that they have nothing to say, it is impossible for a person to make all people recognize, as long as most people recognize then you will succeed, if you lose the recognition of most people, then you have to take a good look at your heart, reflect on it again, remember not to complain, remember that it is normal to be stressed, remember to find ambition for yourself.

You know, you haven't been in a relationship with someone for so long that it's so depressed that a lot of things are complicated by yourself. You say that you are very sensitive, but in fact it is a kind of inferiority complex, always feeling that others are laughing at you and talking about you. Have fun, find a good friend around you to chat, your table mate is okay, honestly say these things about you, he will give you a different opinion.

Maybe you are currently going through a stressful study stage such as the college entrance examination or the high school entrance examination, which is a bit stressful, coupled with the lack of communication with your classmates for a long time, which makes you feel distressed. Through your description, I think you are a very good student, delicate, thoughtful and self-motivated, so be sure to work hard, this is a test for you, and when you overcome it, you will mature. The solution is to make friends with the classmates around you, don't hide yourself too much, and believe that you will be able to do a good job ......

I'm sure there's a psychology teacher at school who can help you out, or you can just talk to your favorite teacher, don't be embarrassed.

You are indeed a little sensitive, but adolescent children will be a little sensitive o ( o Sometimes you force yourself not to think about it but will think more, so please don't refuse, sometimes you don't figure it out, you will always have such distress. Learning, in itself, is the process of constantly surpassing being driven down, surpassing being driven down, and this is not a reason why you are not motivated, you just need to look away. Why do you want to worry all the time and think about the appearance of more troubles, happiness is very simple, do what you like to relax Quietly stay alone for a while, adjust yourself This everyone understands.

Be natural, okay?

The first question is that people are like this, the more they don't want to think about it, the more they will think about it. Don't give yourself a hint of "don't think about it, don't think about it", but say to yourself, "Just think about it for a while", and it may be fine. Some things, some emotions can't be avoided, it's better to face them openly, they are nothing great!

The second question, after reading so much, I feel that you are not afraid of others surpassing you in the end, but afraid of being different because you are not as good as others, everyone has their own characteristics, you have to be good at discovering your own shining points, rather than always caring about other people's opinions.

The obsessive-compulsive disorder of adolescence is very normal The more you pay attention to it, the more it reinforces this concept In turn, the month annoys you Let it be, don't care about it, it's boring, think about the worst outcome, try to accept it, just tell yourself that I'm like this, it's not good, I don't care, I repeatedly tell myself in my heart that it's going to get better, in fact, think about it, who are you, are you a star, everyone else has their own things, how can there be so much time and energy to pay attention to you, talk about you, and think too much about yourself.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

It's similar to my previous experience, but it doesn't seem to be as serious as you.

I think first, maybe you have an inferiority complex. The second is to care too much about what other people think. I think your grades should be good, it may be that these internal factors plus external conditions make you a little sensitive, how to say it, there is a saying, go your own way, let others say it.

Everyone will have the sensitivities of puberty, but the difference between small and big is not too much to worry about. If it's really too serious to affect your studies, then you should take a good look at a psychiatrist.

I think that's a good thing.

That. 1. When college students encounter psychological distress, they can not only identify their own troubles, but also be willing to take the initiative to seek help and actively solve problems.

That. Second, young people have a positive attitude towards psychological counseling.

Third, the work of the University's Mental Health Education Center is influential and effective.

Hello classmates, this situation is relatively common, don't have psychological pressure.

First of all, it is certain that there is still love between you, but your boyfriend seems to be mentally immature enough, and he is very naïve in dealing with some things, and is often in a kind of self-contradiction.

Secondly, you still have feelings for him, and this feeling is likely to be a continuation of previous habits, and as for the future development, it is indeed difficult to say.

In the end, I think you can talk to him and explain the matter, and if the matter is resolved, it will slowly develop; If it is difficult to have an effect, it is still recommended that you cut through the mess quickly, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

To add, you are not young anymore, marriage is not the same as love, after marriage, it is more like water, and there will not often be the vigorous love of the past, if you don't have a mature heart, marriage is like a purgatory for both parties. For love, feeling is important, and reason cannot be ignored, I wish you happiness.

Your boyfriend is a bird, you can throw it if you want, have you ever thought that in his psychology you may be just a piece of clothing?

Everyone should take a lesson before falling in love That is to love yourself well You have not done it Secondly, if you choose to be together, you should learn to be tolerant and consider the problem from the other party's point of view Choose a person It is hers now, why bother with the past Cherish it is the king I wish you happiness!

At a cursory glance, I think it's complicated, but I'm still more insistent, the most important thing is for girls to let themselves live well, and people who really love you won't let you be wronged. No matter how much he once loved you, but at least now, he can't guarantee you, so what's the future?

Take care of yourself, I think no matter what happens, there will definitely be such a person on the road of life. Perhaps, it will be him.

So please be kind to yourself, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, keep a good attitude, deal with these problems well, and there will always be a time when they will be solved.