What is the difference between Sha Yi s education model for Anji and Xiao Yuer?

In terms of education, I personally prefer a combination of Chinese and Western ways to educate children, everyone's education methods are different, but now China's overall education is related to money, and it is said that it is necessary to make money at every turn, if the child is bullied by a conflict with the child, the adult will hand over the child and fight back, and it is not good for the parents of both sides to fight, but now everyone goes out to work in order to live a better life, ignoring the education of children, they star rich, and can take care of children in all aspects, and they can't evaluate.

Just watched "Mom is Superman", and was completely fanned by Angie and Xiaoyuer. Anji is very loving and responsible, a little warm man, a little fish with a sense of joy, cute pistachios, the two brothers love and kill each other, of course, thanks to Hu Ke's education. We can see from the details of the brothers' relationship:

Once Xiao Yu'er was lost in the vegetable market, Anji was anxious to look for his younger brother, and after finding Xiao Yu'er, he kissed his brother a few times and asked Yu'er to promise that he would never be separated again, I was very moved There is another detail, eating in the restaurant, Anji has been feeding his younger brother to eat, and finally he eats it himself Hu Ke first taught the child to have love, the elder brother must be responsible, and take care of the younger brother, and secondly, Hu Ke is not arrogant to the child, but also pays attention to the formation of good habits of the child, Anji folds his own clothes, and the little fish left his mother at such a young age and started a few days of military camp career, The performance is really remarkable, I really learned from Hu Ke and saw a lot of my shortcomings, although we are not celebrity mothers, but I believe we must all be superhuman mothers!

Hu Ke has quite a set of methods for educating children. I remember that there was a Hu Ke who went out with these two children, Hu Ke drove the car, and Anji and Xiaoyuer sat in the back of the car. While driving, he usually takes care of his two children and communicates with them.

Angie was dissatisfied with their godmother, and lame her mouth learned from her godmother's crooked mouth. The two children learned from their godmothers to criticize their tone and expressions, which made people laugh. Hu Ke taught the two children that this was not right for their godmother, and said that if they thought it was wrong, they would raise their hands and admit their mistakes, and they would not tell their father Sha Yi next time if they didn't do so.

Later, the two children obediently raised their hands.

Once, Xiao Yu'er insisted on opening the "dinosaur egg" in the supermarket, and after Hu Ke clearly expressed that "you can only open it after paying", he suddenly exploded and cried, and Hu Ke also just watched quietly from the sidelines, waiting for the child to calm down. Crying loudly in public can be said to be one of the "eternal problems" in the world of bringing babies, and many young parents will feel embarrassed, embarrassed, and even forcibly pull their children. But in Hu Ke's view, this is actually not a shameful thing, the child's crying is just a way for them to vent, and parents should understand what the child's crying is for, if they are eager to respond to the child, it will make the child feel that this way can achieve the goal he wants.

When a child is crying, wait for the child to calm down before continuing to communicate, and letting the child cry blindly or scold and forcibly drag away will not solve the problem.

I think why they will cultivate babies like Anji and Xiaoyuer, it has an absolute relationship with their happiness, raise them with love, but they are not spoiled, let them feel the importance of themselves in the hearts of their parents, cultivate their sense of family belonging, and then release their nature, what they like, send them to learn something, and at the same time ensure that daily learning can not be pulled, nothing to take the children out to play!

I really like the slender eyes of fish. It is the most traditional way of education in China, and Sha Yi has done a good job.

Anji raises according to the book, the little fish raises according to the pig, the eldest takes the second, half easy, haha This is what I summarized from watching their variety shows. Seriously, it can be seen that the children are not squeamish, Hu Ke treats them like friends, Hu Ke is a little "partial" to Anji, so Anji is confident and looks like a big brother, Anji takes the little fish Hu Ke does not interfere, and recognizes Anji very much, but Hu Ke will also discipline when it is wrong. There is also a lot of training for them to do housework from an early age, which is very good.

In short, it is to educate children not to be squeamish, to be independent, responsible, and responsible.

Hu Ke said in an interview: "Who said that the boss should let the second child go? In situations where you can protect them from principled harm, try to make them think about whether the matter is right or wrong, good or bad, and let them find their own solutions to the problem.

The more adults interfere, the more intense their relationship will be, and adults give them enough space, and they will surely find a balance between them. Hu Ke's education method is inseparable from these words: respect, peace, and freedom.

To understand Anji and Xiao Yuer, I got to know each other comprehensively in watching the programs "Where Are You Going, Dad" and "Mom is Superman", the handsome Anji is known as "Northeast Song Joong Ki", and the funny little fish spit out a golden sentence from time to time, and the family is happy, which is enviable! Hu Ke's experience in educating children said three points on Weibo: equality, experience, and freedom.

The program also talked about the boss raising according to the book, and the second child raising the pig, and there is a deep truth in savoring it! Maintain a childlike heart and communicate with children on an equal footing; Let children experience more hobbies and hobbies of their choice; Create a free and respectful family environment!

Anji and Xiao Yuer love each other so much, it is really a model for educating children! After opening up the second child, as parents, I think they should learn the parenting methods of Hu Ke and Sha Yi. The key to the love between the two children:

Anji had to hold his brother's hand to fulfill his brother's duties, but his younger brother was unwilling to behave, Sha Yi told his younger brother as soon as possible: Brother is to take care of you, you have to listen to your brother.

Later, I took a closer look and found that almost every time, when Sha Yi wanted Anji to take good care of his younger brother, he didn't directly tell Anji to let him take care of Xiao Yu'er, but would communicate with Xiao Yu'er in front of Anji: Listen to your brother obediently and let your brother lead you. Including when Xiao Yu'er asked for a gift, Sha Yi also said to Xiao Yu'er:

This is what my brother bought for the children here, your gift, my brother will buy it for you in the future (not that your parents will buy it for you, but that your brother will buy it for you, awesome, okay!! It can not only establish the image that Anji will take care of and love him in Xiao Yuer's heart, but also make Anji next to him naturally have a sense of responsibility as an elder brother after hearing it. That's why we can look like a five-year-old when taking care of our younger brother.

Anyway, every time I watch Angie with a little fish, I forget that Angie herself is also a five-year-old child who needs to be taken care of. This brother's sense of responsibility really radiates from the inside out.

Of course, the most important thing is the full love of Sha Yi and his wife for Anji and Xiao Yuer equally.