Lost Confused How to go on the road, what should I do to get out of the confused predicament

Life is like a game, the sweetest laugh at the end, success or failure is often converted in an instant.

Life needs to have a systematic planning, need to lay a solid foundation first, first learn to survive and then seek development, and gradually realize ideals and goals.

If you really want to become a successful person and be invincible, you must not care about the gains and losses of the moment, you must have a long-term plan, and you can win a thousand miles by strategizing, and if you want to succeed, you need to have the following basic conditions: 1. A higher level of knowledge; 2. Solid material foundation; 3. Good personal quality; 4. Good interpersonal relationship; 5. Timely opportunities; 6. Have a series of long-term plans and short-term goals; 7. Good economic operation environment in the surrounding area; 8. Stable and harmonious family; 9. Indifferent mood, optimistic interest in life, open-mindedness, gratitude and other excellent qualities.

To be a man, especially a man, you have to be able to afford it, dare to lose, and win, I don't think you have gotten rid of your previous comfortable life.

Still can't accept that you can't get back to your original self and are embarrassed to take a taxi? Do you have to recognize and accept your current self Calmly face your current life Are you so unconfident in yourself In the past, when you made money quickly, others still gave you money Is the money given to you by heaven It's not that you rely on your own ability and hard work to fight for it, isn't it Your ability is still there And what you don't have now is the kind of confidence, hard work, heart, confidence, and courage You are still wandering in the life of the rich You can't go back to the mentality you first came out of Of course, think back to the hardships of these years If you want to start all over again, it will be very desperate, after all, a success really has to pay a lot of price and sweat, but there is a point that this money is lost by your addiction to gambling, not by your incompetence in your career, so if you can get back to your original self, accept yourself, and start over, I absolutely believe that you can succeed again, and there will be a lot less time, and there will be a lot less detours, because you don't have experience, please come on, I wish you success again.

Gambling is cured, and greed is insatiable.

Quit gambling is a good man.

Correct the family-oriented mentality, as long as the door of true repentance and happiness is always open for you, there will be gains and losses, don't worry too much about the ups and downs of the past, and suffer from mistakes in the years. Friends cherish everyone around you, no one looks down on you, only you occasionally belittle yourself. Pluck up the courage to face your family bravely, if you don't even dare to face your own family, what a gentleman.

Friend, you're going to stand up!!

In our lives, we will always encounter a period of confusion, and at different stages of life, we will also encounter different confusion, so when we are in a period of confusion, how do we get out?

1. The true cause of your own confusion.

When you are confused, what you should do is the real cause of your confusion, because sometimes the reason you see on the surface is not the real reason. For example, you feel lost because you can't find a job, but the real reason may be because you resist work, or because you're lazy.

So we might as well write down the problems we encounter, face ourselves openly, and don't have any reservations, unless you don't want to get out of the confusion.

2. Don't let yourself be idle.

The more confused you are, the more you can't let yourself be idle. Because if you are idle, you will find that you don't know what to do, "life is in motion", and it is not just about us to move, but also to move and be busy. If you stay in your room all day and don't do anything, even if you have a lot of money, you will be confused.

So, you might as well make a plan for yourself, what to do today, what to do tomorrow, even if it's not what you like, let yourself do it first, do it, and we will feel the fun.

3. Explore your interests.

For people who are confused, they should explore their interests and hobbies, and when they do something that interests them, they will let us slowly feel happy, and a good mood will make us more and more confused away from us.

For example, on weekends, if there are people who have their own hobbies, they will definitely do things that they are interested in, such as playing basketball, hiking, going out to take pictures, writing at home, etc., which makes people look very interesting.

4. Study. If a person who is in a full state of mind is still in a state of confusion, it is the time when knowledge is scarce. For example, some things I don't understand, some things I don't dare to do, some things I don't even know, I don't know what I should do, I don't know how to go behind the road, and I can't find a way to make money or the direction of my career, so I will be confused.

At this time, you should study, instead of wandering around without direction all the time.

5. Put it down. There are still some people in society who will also be confused, that is, they have too many desires, too strong desires, like to compare, and they are not easy to satisfy, and such people will often be confused, so they should choose to let go of such a situation. Let go of some unrealistic fantasies, some envy and jealousy, some insatiable mentality.

Relax properly, you can have a certain adjustment to your body and mood. But if you keep doing this, you're going to be in trouble.

The network is running rapidly every day, delivering all kinds of information that people need. It's also a quick thing to use well, and if it's not right, you will make yourself out of balance.

There was a time when I felt tired and confused. Now it seems that I don't know how to adjust. I don't know how to find a way for myself.

There are always times when a person is lost, tired, and in a difficult situation. If you have a clear direction in your heart, I think it will be easy to find your own way out, if you don't know how to seek, then you will have to turn a big circle. Maybe it will also make itself decadent and slumped.

Everyone has a lot to do and a lot to go before they stop breathing. However, there are many unsatisfactory things in life. But as long as we are firm:

The road is far and wide, and things are difficult to meet", there is no hurdle in life that cannot be passed. It's all about whether you want to walk or not, whether you want to do it.

At this time, I was a little tired and rested. Only with a good mentality, energy and physical strength can we walk the road well.