How to get there? I m confused, I m confused, how do I get out of the confusion?

Light a cigarette and look at the wife and lovely son who love you in your sleep, for them, what grievances are there that men can't bear? First find a job that can make ends meet, and work hard, the money is not easy to earn, but it is slowly rising.

Actually, I really look down on you who can't get up when you encounter setbacks at a young age, since you are already a father, you should understand your own responsibility, whether you should work hard to stand up and let your wife and son live a better life, or continue to escape, since you are not capable of raising your son Then why did you give birth to him in the first place, reflect on yourself, don't blindly find objective reasons in the outside world, and blame the son on reality. Is the obsession with gambling a reality that makes you obsessed? I hope you can think about it, I wish you to regain your self-confidence as soon as possible, and strive to let your family live a happy life together.

The world doesn't seem to be suitable for people like me."

The economy cannot be independent. Nothing was accomplished, and his life was very bleak. Obsessed with gambling and famine", there are many people who are worse than you, haven't you seen them so?

cynicism makes me feel inferior and afraid to face reality", I believe you yourself know that this is an excuse.

The fantasy of the past seems to be so powerless in the real world", powerless just because you can't practice it.

I tried to cheer myself up. But it doesn't help", if you really work hard, it can't be useless, there will be some improvement, if you don't improve, it can only say that you didn't really work hard.

It's not that you're not strong, it's not brave", now you're not strong or brave, why do you have to deceive yourself?

The reality is terrible. It's horrible!! The cruelty of reality can only be regarded as a drop in the bucket compared to self-pity and self-pity and complaining.

Do you know what the problem is?

1. Calm down and understand yourself, when we are confused and don't know what job to do, it will change our life, we should first calm down, understand ourselves, and see what kind of job we are suitable for;

2. Put the knowledge we have learned into practice, when we are very confused, so that we don't know what work we want to do, then we will take what we have learned to find a job that is similar to the knowledge we have learned;

3. To do the work we like, when we are confused, we don't know what work we want to do, then we will do the work we like, of course, this is to choose the work that will make us feel happy when we have a choice;

4. Understand your own ability, everyone's work ability is different, when we are confused and don't know what work to do, we have to do a detailed self-understanding of our work ability, so that when we are confused, we can make the right choice;

5. To find a decent job, in this case, the first thing is to have such the ability to work, as long as we have such the ability to work, then we will go to find a decent job, when we are confused, we will make a decision;

6. When we are confused and don't know what kind of work we want to do, we will learn a technology in our hands, because we have learned a technology, which is very secure for our future life;

Here are some suggestions that might help you get out of the confusion:

Seek support and advice: Seek help and advice from friends, family, mentors, counsellors or counsellors. They may be able to give you different perspectives and insights to help you see things more clearly so you can find the right direction.

Self-reflection: Take a moment and look at your thoughts, feelings, and goals, and think about what you really want and how you can achieve them. Writing it down or sharing it with others can help you better understand your heart and needs.

Take action: Even if you don't know what to do, don't let confusion get you from doing nothing. Try to do small things like exercising, learning a new skill, or trying a new recreational activity. These actions may bring you new revelations and help you get rid of your confusion.

Accept reality: Sometimes, our confusion can come from anxiety and fear about the future. However, we can't fully control the future, so it's important to learn to accept reality.

Accept and let go of the things we can't change and focus on the things we can control and change.

Seek inspiration and inspiration: Reading, going to a movie, or going to some social events, etc., may give you inspiration and inspiration to better understand your direction and goals.