Why is it that the first woman a man meets is always older than him?

In psychoanalytic theory, it is believed that children in the Oedipus phase (around 3-5 years old) will develop paternal complexes (girls) and mother-love complexes (boys). This is an inevitable process in the growth of people.

If the task of growth in the Oedipus period is not completed, then the phenomenon of "fixation" in psychological growth will be formed, that is, at a certain complex, our psychological development will stagnate.

Elementary school children will "fall in love" with their teachers of the opposite sex, which is the manifestation of the "father-love" and "mother-love" complexes.

In middle school, many students are "puppy love" (I have always objected to this term because it is inaccurate and suggestive to students, which is an inappropriate and unscientific "label"). We are just borrowing this word here to illustrate this phenomenon), in fact, it is also an alternative expression of the "father-love" and "mother-love" complexes.

If, in adulthood, a boy falls in love with a lady who is more than 10 years older than him, then we can almost conclude that this psychological complex is also a role.

If we want to solve this psychological complex, we must awaken the growth process of childhood and make the heart grow again.

This, of course, is the theory of psychoanalysis. Provide it for reference.

Can you not take the special as ordinary, many of my friends like to have their first love with their classmates, so many sisters and brothers.

I was my boyfriend's first love and I was a year older than him.

Yes?? No way??

How am I not??

Between men and women, why does a man like a woman younger than him? It's not just the silver ants because they are young and buried.

The nature of a man! The more women, the better ......Women are men, and the higher the quality, the better. I can only tell you which virtuous one you want. Stealing before marriage is a moral issue, and after marriage is a legal issue, you have to be careful.

I would rather choose to date for five years and have an emotional foundation.

That only proves that this man is insatiable.

If you can't let go, you won't fall in love with another woman.

Prove that this man is not with no love! Such a man is more worthy of cherishing.

I want to have such a good thing.

It's up to you, whether you haven't felt it for a long time.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a lonely time.

The pillow, the traveling companion when lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ... At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society?

Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers... When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ...

To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you?

Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you bless him silently, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet you.

The real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

It should be happy to love someone deeply, but the probability of a man loving a certain woman is very small, there are many things in their world, such as smoking, alcohol, etc., as well as family, the Gu family is a good man's style, but a man who ignores a woman because of the Gu family is not a good man. Love is to respect and trust, and to have a sense of responsibility for this woman, and he is not respecting this woman and has no sense of responsibility for this woman, is this kind of love considered deep love? I don't think it counts, such love, if it were me, I'd rather not.

No matter when others have no right to take away your happiness, you can be unhappy for a while, but you can't be unhappy often, if sadness is frequent, then it is better to write and leave early, let go is also love.

Men are like sand in your hands, like the metaphor of happiness, and sometimes, the harder you hold on, the faster it will drain.

Love is mutual, it doesn't mean that if you love him, he must or may fall in love with you too.

As a woman, marrying a man who loves you deeply is far happier than marrying a man you love deeply.

Try not to text him just yet, give him a quiet space to reflect on what the problem is.

Wrong; My wife and I can write a book, but she is going to divorce me again, and we have been married for two years and have had three troubles;

Women looking for men, not scumbags! At the very least, you must be a little higher in thought, and no matter how bad it is, you must find someone who has a little sense of responsibility and a little face! One is emotional, and the other is that even if there is something inappropriate, it will not go to extremes.

Don't have money, you will pounce up, pounce on your life and it will be gone, don't be big-chested and handsome, drill into your arms, drill and drill into the palace of Hades.

He's a ruthless person, you're just a plaything in his eyes, he's so good, you wouldn't ask such a question.

There may be a mother-love complex! Let's take a good look at it.

It all depends on what you think. In short, the scumbag doesn't want it. It is recommended that you find the kind of person who doesn't talk about it, but does more for you. Nothing is said. What you do is what you do.

He said that he had hurt each other in love n times? Then he's a ruthless man!

You can't see it by looking at the mouth, but you can see the action.

Those who do not aim to get married are hooligans.

A woman's ignorance is a disservice to a man.