I really doubt that I owe them in my last life, who helped me solve the depression Thank you

I'm here to help you, first of all, don't embarrass yourself too much about this, make your own thinking clearer, and look at things from the perspective of the whole thing. First of all, do you want to live like this? You should be a girl, right, I'm also a woman, I may understand you better, and I also know the trivial things that two people are together, and it is precisely because of these trivial things that they are the most annoying, isn't it?

No one wants to deliberately ask for any money from the other party's family, we just want to be recognized by each other's families, and the meeting gift is of course given, but we will not embarrass others, if there is really no one, forget it. The people who followed him were not his family or not. Besides, it would be annoying if you didn't give it or pretend to be stupid!

It seems that the conditions of his family are not very good, right, I have known a rural person before, and the people in his family are too earthy. They always think that their son has found someone in the city, and they may also think that as long as they are in the city, they are rich and should be rich. When it was his father, he said an inexplicable thing to me, he said that my family depends on you.

Let's be honest. I didn't understand what that meant at the time, but then I thought it wasn't right, I didn't know what I was trying to do to feed the family. Later, as you can imagine, it will be settled with him.

It can be seen that different living environments cannot be together. What I mean by this is that your in-laws have the same living environment as you. It's important that you think for yourself.

Another way is to stay away from their families, don't live with him, since you can't be separated, then it depends on whether your boyfriend listens to you or not, you have to mobilize him to buy a house with you somewhere else, preferably in another city, it sounds a little bitter, but who makes you can't leave him? This is your own choice, you can't blame anyone, and you can't regret the decisions you made, it is our obligation to support the elderly, but also in the case that our economic conditions are acceptable. The old man doesn't understand you, and it's not going to be easy for you to live in the future.

Therefore, you still have to think carefully when things have not developed to such a bad point, once you make the wrong choice, it will be a lifelong unpleasant thing. Believe me, even if you want to die with him, you have to try your best to change your current situation, only you can change it, no one can control you, believe me! As long as you think about it, then if you do it, it will definitely be better than your current life, okay, I won't say more, you think about it yourself, I wish you happiness.

Your situation is really terrible, in our words"It's not one person's fault, it's the sadness of an age. "

But I'm a man, so I'm going to stand in a man's position to help your boyfriend, 1, they're just like you, they're your boyfriend's dearest and beloved, no matter whose fault it is (use it first.)"Wrong"He can only maneuver around it to achieve the best balance.

2, your boyfriend should love you, (otherwise you won't just complain,), he won't lose you, but in the same way, he can't leave them, flesh and blood, but.

3. You also love him, if you are given a switch, their family is very good and excellent, but your boyfriend has such shortcomings, will you choose? You are married to him, not his family, 4, all reactionaries are just paper tigers, and internal problems still have to be solved internally, 5, the long march of thousands of miles, you have already taken the first step, (an era), continue to work hard.

Fixed their living expenses, and made it clear that there was too much.

..Dizzy. Listened to your experience. I am sad for you. How did you get greedy for so many people?