What do you think about some men who oppose the bride price of a woman?

Now more and more men hope that the woman will not want the bride price or the house, feel that he is a potential stock, and he can achieve great things in the future, and hope that the woman will not want anything and blindly pay. Let a woman cook for you every day, give birth to a child with your surname, take care of your parents, clean up the house, and go to work on time. Every day when you come back from work, you have a delicious meal, so that you can work hard and have no worries.

But seriously, most people are ordinary people, and they have to have points in their hearts whether they have that strength or not. Now China is that there are more boys and fewer girls, no matter how ordinary a girl is, as long as she picks a little, she can find someone who is willing to marry her with tens of thousands of dowries, why do some men want to empty gloves and white wolves? I don't pay anything, I only know that women worship money.

Of course, there are many cases around me, my friend's wedding banquet and bride price The man took 2,000 yuan, and then the mother-in-law not only treated her badly, but those relatives in the man's family also disliked her as a rural person. I have heard a saying that the bride price of the man's family when you get married represents the amount of your weight in their family.

I don't know why, many people say that if a man gives a bride price to a woman, he is buying a wife? This is a custom in itself, which is actually to express how much you love this woman, how much you are willing to pay for this woman, and tell the woman's parents that you will take good care of their baby daughter, since you are not willing to do even the most basic custom for this woman. So do you really love this woman?

And to say, these people who give a bride price is to buy a wife, they are all people who can't pay the bride price, and not being able to pay the bride price is equivalent to having no ability. Since you are incapable, how can other parents trust their daughters to you? Parents must want to give their daughter to a capable person, ** some parents will hope that their baby daughter has been raised well for decades, and followed a man to endure hardships, this man is not motivated, and he is not capable.

I don't think any parents would like their baby daughter to a man who says he loves his daughter, but doesn't even want to give a bride price.

Men and women marry, you love what I want, I hate those who have conflicts because of the bride price, they slander each other everywhere, they can talk about getting married, if they can't talk, they will get together and disperse, the man is unwilling to give the bride price, the woman can choose not to marry, the woman wants the bride price The man is unwilling to give, the man can choose not to marry, it is clear that it is good to get together and disperse, and the person who has to go around to slander the reputation of others, this kind of person is the most calculated!

Marriage and love market, market market, you and I are willing, you can't buy and sell, the man can't take it out, and he feels that his love is lost to money.

The man thinks that the bride price is high and ruins the marriage, because the woman's love is lost to money, and their love is lost to reality. After watching the love supremacy idol dramas of various countries for so many years, the reality is that money is equally important, the man can find another object that he can afford the bride price, and the woman can find another object who can give her bride price. George Bernard Shaw said that there are 20,000 people in this world who are suitable for you, and I hope there will always be one person, and you have love and bread.

Because the bride price broke up ten days before the wedding. Local folk customs are all for bride price. The man took the initiative to give 100,000.

My family married 50,000 yuan to buy a car and appliances for the boy. Then the man kept dragging on and did not give the bride price, and finally gave a two-year passbook with the old woman's name on it. I wanted to take it out and buy three golds, but I was blocked.

Then the two families had a quarrel. Parted. Since the man has made a promise to give the bride price, he should give it happily, my family has a dowry, what's the point of him dragging it out!

I think that making some things clear in advance is a sign of responsibility for both parties, such as the bride price, the man does not need to blame, and the woman does not complain! I don't want to hate it in my heart, I can't get it, I don't say it's a grudge, the times are changing, it's no longer the era of a lifetime and a couple, and marriage is not a necessary choice! If it's suitable, it's together, and if it's not suitable, it's scattered!

It's understandable that my father-in-law said that if he wanted a bride price, he wouldn't marry my daughter-in-law, but he didn't ask for a bride price and returned the dowry, and the house was bought together. However, after marriage, I found that this is better for me, at least my status at home is higher, and I can be at the same level as my in-laws when I am filial to my parents, so I think it is better for both parties to pay together financially when they get married.

Divide the place and the folk customs, and the bride price for our marriage here is given back to our daughter, and the two of us use it to live. And there will be a lot of dowry. In a matter of two people, because the bride price is successful or not.

You have to gather and disperse, don't slander behind your back, and feel that there is no lower limit to the people who slander behind your back. There is another point that everyone is quite controversial about, that is, having children. Indeed, a woman needs to conceive a baby in October, which has a great impact on her work and career.

Some of them also have a great impact on physical health. There are also women who even give their lives in order to have a child. So women are very hard, men love your wife.

The bride price can be given according to the economic situation. In the early stage of marriage, the woman has invested more in childbirth and housework, and at the same time has worked a lot, and there is no intersection between the two to form a family, it cannot be denied that the woman is more worried about the marriage of the non-person, the bride price represents the sincerity of the man, and the woman will also have a marriage, most of the woman's parents will give the bride price to the young couple as the start-up capital of the small family.

China is originally free marriage, and if you think that marriage is expensive, you can not get married, and I don't understand why so many men scold women for bride price... Were you forced to get married? . .

Places where there is a preference for sons over women generally have a higher bride price, and in areas where men and women are equal, there is generally no bride price or less bride price.

The people who oppose it are men who have no ability, men who lack self-confidence, or men who have poor family conditions and have no confidence in themselves. A capable man will not object, the bride price and dowry are the start-up funds given by the old couple to the young couple.

The opposition is not the bride price, but the kind of unrealistic demand, the bride price is a process of marriage, and it is indispensable in traditional culture! But now some of the demands for the bride price have changed from the original meaning, and have become comparisons, vanity, buying and selling, and even threats!

This kind of man is not worthy of a wife, and the blind dedication in marriage is not due respect, and if you meet an unreasonable in-law again, you should do what you should do. If a man really loves you, you can't give up the bride price? For the sake of the daughter, it would be outrageous to have that parent, so why not, don't let your youth feed the dog, and there is nothing.

There is no bride price here in Chongqing. Under normal circumstances, the two families with similar conditions are responsible for the house and decoration, and the woman is responsible for the car and electrical appliances. If the man's family conditions are not good, rent a house, or the woman's family buys a house.

Now this generation is married almost only in the family, so parents hope that their children will be happy and create more material conditions for them, so that they can have a better life in the future.

How simple is this, if the man has sisters at home, do you think he wants his sisters to get married and receive a bride price? Of course, you don't have to be the best to marry yourself, it's best to post it upside down.

It's nothing to ask for a bride price, but when I saw that the bride price was given to the boys of the woman's family to marry their daughters-in-law, it was not uncommon. This is probably opposed by most people, after all, as a woman, the bride price will generally be sent to the husband's family with the dowry, so that the young couple will have a basic living start-up capital and will not return to the pre-liberation period as soon as they get married.

The woman should not take the initiative to mention the bride price, the man must be self-aware, the bride price should be given on the initiative, the woman should not sell the child, the dowry should also be given, it is a conscious thing, this really reflects the quality of the family, my cousin married a daughter-in-law, the woman wants 100,000 or to the mother's family, but also to buy a house, the woman said that there is no money and nothing to take, as a result, my aunt sold the house and sold the car, went out to work in her 50s to repay the debt of 300,000 yuan, especially good to the daughter-in-law, I didn't want anything, the mother's family also accompanied me, and the pregnant mother-in-law was unwilling to serve me for two months, Let me eat leftovers and rancid vegetables every day, I don't even have noodles on my birthday, she has done everything to me, is it my life is not good, or am I giving her face too much.

You love me to get married, you don't want the woman to accept the bride price, you don't want to get married, until you find someone who meets your heart, you can get married, but why are you against it? I've never heard of a man against a woman giving a dowry.

It's not against receiving, it's against unrealistic receiving.

I still have to have a bride price, I'm a man. Disgusted is the kind of person who asks for a sky-high price, regardless of the actual situation.

If you don't want to pay the bride price, you can just make it yourself, and there will definitely be no money for you to pay.

What you said is not right, to whose family to give birth to, to the elderly, what is the use of the old man asking for that, the son can't do it, the grandson can do it? If you think wrong, give birth to yourself, don't always use having children as capital, as a woman, you have no regrets for the rest of your life, which is what you should do

According to my father, other people's children don't conjure up out of thin air. Since you want to marry back. Why don't you give a dowry?

The number can be negotiated between the two companies. The white wolf with empty gloves is really not what a man should do.