Is it really impossible for us to continue between us?

Retrieving a relationship is a technical job, I will teach you how to save a relationship, not 100 percent, not 0 percent, everything is in yourself, everything is in your mentality, when your mentality is not strong enough to re-examine the relationship, well, just when I didn't say it! In fact, I think the best recovery is actually not to recover, and of course I can't do it.

Well, after the breakup, if you want to redeem it, you still need to deal with it coldly.

What is cold treatment? During this period, you can collect each other's information through relatives and friends, etc., and properly understand each other's dynamics, but don't bother each other, the meaning of cold treatment is to calm down both you and the other party, at this moment you are thinking about the other party, but although the other party rejects you, even very ruthlessly refused, the attitude is unusually resolute, but this does not mean that the other party does not want you... Don't be fooled by the illusion, of course, the degree of thinking varies according to the actual situation, what do you think of you?

Maybe thinking about the happy time you get along, maybe thinking about your good, maybe the other party is also hesitating whether to regret whether you shouldn't break up, and maybe even thinking about your bad, hehe

How long does cold treatment take? This depends on the person and the specific situation, some people half a month is enough, and some people may be three months! During the cold treatment time, maybe the other party is also curious about how you are?

It is possible to eliminate the negative attitude towards you, and the smaller the negative attitude towards you, the easier it is to change the mind about you! During this period of cold treatment, you need to think and reflect positively, and you need to "reinvent yourself.""(This needs to be carefully experienced). When your new self enters the other person's life anew, you can think about it, what kind of novelty is it?

At this time, you are intervening as a friend, and you are not abruptly going with the flow, and I believe that the other party's rejection of you will not be so strong, and this is a good start

Okay, let's introduce it here first, the landlord can add or ask me, I am an expert in psychological counseling and emotional counseling, and I will answer all replies patiently.

Well, feelings are not one person's, it is a matter of two people, you alone pay, it will not last long, I am the same as you, so I gave up, find someone who loves myself, loves me, learns to forget her, starts a new happiness again, and believes in my own ......

It seems that your two fingers are very strong and your words are very hurtful, and this needs to be corrected, otherwise it will cause greater contradictions.

He let you go, it's his fault, as a husband, you can't talk about your wife like this, it's not easy for people to pat you with Wei, wash your clothes and give you children.

As a wife, you can wait for the two of you to calm down emotionally, and talk to him well, so that he will not say that kind of hurtful words in the future.

Don't talk about killing him, that sounds horrible. Remember, how can there be no contradictions when two people live together, they must dilute the contradictions through communication, or one party makes concessions, otherwise life will become more and more difficult, and even eventually lead to the marriage being difficult to maintain!

This decision should be made by both you and your significant other, as only you truly understand your own feelings and needs.

If you have some problems or difficulties with your significant other, consider sitting down and having a good talk to figure out how to solve the problem, or if you find that you have different goals and expectations for each other, then perhaps deciding to end the relationship is best for both of you. Whatever you decide, hopefully you can respect each other's decisions and hopefully you can find a better way to handle the relationship.

This is the case, only.

You yourself know best, if.

You can continue if you think it is necessary.

Now I really feel tired, I thought I could be very happy, however, because of your words, I completely lost confidence in feelings, and I no longer believe in any so-called feelingsIsn't it?

I really don't know how happy we were together, and this happiness is only a memory of the past and not a lifetime. Now I don't know how I should face the future life, maybe, just when you say that sentence, maybe I have thought that our relationship has come to an end, although I really want to redeem the relationship between us, but I find that I have gone farther and farther apart, it is impossible to be together at all, just when we are really separated, suddenly I have nothing and no confidence in the relationship. Perhaps, we are destined to have no fate.

Time actually flies very quickly, 2 years of hard work have passed in a blink of an eye, and these two years are the most difficult 2 years I have lived, even more difficult than the two years when you went to South Korea, I know, I have really lost you, I will not belong to me anymore, but I know that we are impossible, to be honest, I can't forget you at all, I really can't do it, whenever I think of you again, I will use alcohol to numb myself, and I won't think about you anymore. It's really sad to have this kind of day, why is it so hard to forget you? To be honest, it was really sad when I really decided to give up on you, but I knew we really couldn't.

That day, when you appeared in front of me again, I didn't know how to face you, I was really sad to see you, every time you hurt me unscrupulously, but I gave you a chance again and again, in fact, to be honest, I really wanted to give you a chance that time, but I didn't come, because I felt like we couldn't go back, to be honest, I don't know what's wrong, when I gave you that slap, my heart was broken, and I don't want to give you any chance. Maybe from one day onwards, we say goodbye completely!

Because I'm really tired!