How to manage a good love?

In the vast sea of people, two people from meet, acquaintance, acquaintance, or love each other, this is fate, fate does not need to wait, fate is fought for, is created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate, is the most rational, but how many people, when fate comes, can grasp it, cherish it! Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine. Love knows no distance or region, in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, cherish your fate, treat your love well.

Don't wait for the loss of empty resentment. I wish you happiness forever.

Managing a good love requires both parties to work together, that is, to support each other, understand each other, and respect each other, so that it will be a good relationship.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

If you meet the needs of the other party, then the relationship can run very well.

Give everyone a few steps, a scene, and you feel very uncomfortable with what the other party asks you to say. Most people will argue that what you said is not right, and if it is more intense, it will become an argument.

1.Meditation is a very crucial step. Quarrels arise when emotions are out of control. You know you love each other, you want to manage the relationship well, and you can't hurt the other person.

This step is very important, but not many people can achieve the first source elimination.

When you want to speak, don't say anything and calm yourself down.

It can be seen that the importance of controlling emotions needs to be cultivated slowly.

Consciousness is the beginning of change. You can see here, you're already more than most people.

2.Learn to apologize and not distinguish between right and wrong in front of your lover.

Don't care who's wrong, you first said that I didn't handle what happened just now, I'm sorry it's all my fault.

Maybe a lot of people want to spray me, isn't my status low when I say this, especially many girls. If you think so, please quit, we have different values.

There is another situation, I really am not wrong, why should I admit my mistake. The idea is quite right, even if it is used outside, it must have its own position.

But it's different, the other party is your lover. You want to make the other person happy, you love him, you can't hurt him.

Remember, whoever wants to change takes the initiative first.

Maybe you're really right. But you realize that you want your relationship to be better, and you know that this step can make you better, so why not.

3.Express your feelings, reminisce about that incident with the other person, and what you just said makes me very sad.

The other party is likely to realize that he will definitely make progress slowly and get better little by little in the future.

A little quarrel in love is pleasant. But the big noise is hurt. Mutual understanding. Communicate. Inclusion is important. Psychological maturity. Be responsible, be sincere with each other. True love will be sweeter.

Then your customer is God!

Believe in each other and understand each other.

Good love can really make two people progress together.

Good love is about growing together, and intimacy is not about transforming another person into being like you, but about learning from the other person and benefiting from your differences. By being genuinely curious about your partner's experiences, you can adapt to growth and change in your relationship.

The incredible happens when two people can grow, change, and embrace each other's growth. The combined force of two people is greater than that of one person, and marriage is not only a superficial union of two individuals, but also can witness each other's transformation, find the meaning of life, and make the world a better place.

Create a shared meaning in life.

Every relationship is the same as life, and the only constant is change. The key is for both parties to adapt to each other's growth, and it is precisely because people need to be exposed to a different mind that they will reap the benefits of growth in a relationship.

It is impossible for two people to have exactly the same worldview, or exactly the same needs. Marriage is the union of two different individuals, so there are bound to be many differences. There is no doubt that a change in spirit, or any change, can lead to conflict.

But it is these conflicts and differences that allow us to grow. We need to be open to conflict, which allows us to learn how to love each other better and how to understand our partner's different mind. When we understand this, we can grow both personally and in relationships.

Here are some tips to keep love going for a lifetime:

1.Intimacy isn't about transforming another person into being like you, it's about learning from the other person and benefiting from your differences.

2.Life is full of twists and turns, and so are intimate relationships.

3.Twists and turns are inevitable, but when you face them together and grow together in the face of adversity, you create meaning for your differences.

4.If you can get out of the ups and downs and create meaning, you can be together forever.

Summary: We may encounter many things in our lives along the way, but as long as two people have the same goal and the same mind, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

A good relationship should be changed by two people together, become better together, become a better version of themselves, and become each other's high-quality lovers at the same time, such a relationship will be more stable and happy.

Therefore, when two people are together, try to complain less and blame, and be more tolerant and friendly, so that two people will be better.

Good love must be a two-way street, and only this kind of love can make people progress together. When you meet someone you like, but you also want the other person to like it, that's the original intention of love.

This is true love. We all want to find a soul that fits with us, meet to see the sunrise and sunset, work together to move forward, and be with each other for the rest of our lives.

On the premise of staying together, only by making progress together will this be a good love. In the long river of life, a partner who really likes you can think about you everywhere in life, and can help you go better and better on the road of exploring life.

In love, it is to grow together, and never sacrifice yourself to achieve others. Sacrificing oneself to achieve others to the end is likely to make a mess of losses, and such examples are not uncommon in real life.

So how can we make progress together in love?

People will choose the person they like to be together, maybe they fall in love for a long time, or they may fall in love at first sight, but this is only the beginning of love.

When two people who like each other are together, there will be friction and collision in life, and they will also communicate with each other about their lifestyles, at this time you can go to see each other's treatment of people, how to deal with interpersonal relationships, learn from each other's strengths, improve yourself, and after a long time, you will naturally imitate each other, use each other's thinking to solve and deal with problems, which is progress.

Everyone understands that love requires both parties to be evenly matched, if the other party stagnates, your relationship will only fade day by day, and even the difference is too different and tired of each other, so when two people are together, they must closely follow each other's footsteps, so that you are good but I am not bad, both parties should be like this.

There are many such examples in life, and you can pay attention to the excellent couples around you, who have a harmonious relationship, work together in their careers, achieve each other, and have a very happy family life.

Finally, I wish everyone a good love.