I m confused about my child s study habits, is there a good way, please let me know, thank you!

No matter how good the method is, someone has to implement it, there are many methods, there are many on the Internet, you just find a suitable one for the child, by the way, he has to agree, you have to supervise.

So what is his habit? Study, let it be, just put a little pressure on it, learn three hours a day in elementary school, five hours in middle school, and high school children will be sensible, don't care.

First, first of all, cultivate the habit of concentrating on learning.

To cultivate children's habit of concentrating on learning, my personal experience is:

1. Strengthen the regular training of students in the classroom at the beginning of the semester, and in the first few weeks of the semester, they would rather learn less knowledge, but also be willing to spend time cultivating students' habit of listening carefully to lectures.

2. Whether students are attentive and serious in their studies and homework has a lot to do with parents. Now some parents require their children to do homework attentively, while chatting with others or watching TV, or even playing cards or mahjong at home, so that except for a very few children with very strong self-control, other children are simply impossible to concentrate on learning in such an environment, so teachers and parents should strengthen coordination and create a quiet and relaxed home learning environment for children. Usually at home, when the child is doing homework, parents try not to care too much about the child's situation, do not accompany the child to do homework or ask the child to help do something, let the child do homework quietly, so that the child has a small world of highly concentrated thoughts, so that the child's concentration on learning habits will gradually develop; Of course, when the child is learning, we must not ignore it and let it go, and we must control the child as a whole, loose on the outside and tight on the inside.

2. Set a strict schedule for your child's work and rest, and pay attention to habit formation from an early age.

The schedule is actually to set the rules for students to live and study, that is, when to study, when to play, and when to rest. Because it is in the nature of children to love to play, we cannot deprive children of their right to play. If your child doesn't play happily, he won't be able to concentrate well when he learns, and he won't be full of energy.

We only need to let the child develop when to learn and when to play from an early age, so when the child reaches the learning time, he will consciously sit on his desk and start reading and doing homework; Ask students to give themselves a schedule of work and rest.

1. The habit of listening attentively. Do a good job of preparing for the class (not just reading it, but be able to ask questions), use your brain and hands, and concentrate during the class (notes are sometimes very important). Generally speaking, the knowledge taught by the teacher is carried out according to the syllabus and examination syllabus, so it is important to pay attention in class.

2. The habit of making a plan that is actually feasible. Learn to set goals for yourself (big, small, long, short) in learning, so that there will be a direction for learning; Then sort out your own learning situation, find out the weak links, existing problems, and knowledge points that are easy to lose points; In addition, allocate time reasonably, formulate learning tasks in a targeted manner, and implement them one by one.

3. The habit of continuously improving learning ability. You can learn to master the ability of speed reading and memorization, and improve the efficiency of learning and review. Speed reading and memorization is an efficient learning and review method, and its training principle is to activate the potential of "brain and eye" and cultivate the formation of eye-brain direct reflection reading and learning mode.

For the practice of speed reading memory, see "Elite Special Whole Brain Speed Reading Memory Training", practice with software, more than an hour a day, a month's time, you can double the reading speed, memory, comprehension, etc., and finally improve the efficiency of learning and review, and achieve good results. If your reading and learning efficiency is low, you can practice it well.

4. The habit of integrating knowledge points. Classify the information you need to learn and the knowledge you need to master, and make it into a mind map or knowledge point card, which will make your brain and thinking clear and easy to remember, review, and master. At the same time, learn to connect new knowledge with what you have already learned, and constantly integrate and improve your knowledge system.

This promotes understanding and strengthens memory.

5. The habit of doing questions and reflections. When doing problems, you should learn to reflect, classify, and sort out the corresponding solution ideas. When you encounter the wrong questions (carelessly do it wrong, you can't do it), it is best to collect these wrong questions, and each subject has an independent set of mistakes (the set of mistakes should be classified), and when we review before the exam, they are the key review objects to ensure that there are no more mistakes and points on the same questions.

The family is the school of habits, parents are the teachers of habits, and children's education is to cultivate good habits and create a healthy personality for children by cultivating good habits.

1) The first step in habit formation --- to raise awareness, or rather, to guide the child to become interested in forming a habit.

2) The second step of habit formation --- to clarify the code of conduct, so that the child is clear about the specific criteria for developing a good habit.

3) The third step of habit cultivation --- to carry out role model education in a timely manner, so that children can develop a kind and yearning feeling for the formation of a good habit.

4) The fourth step of habit cultivation --- persistent behavior training, so that children can develop a good habit from passive to active and then automatic.

5) The fifth step of habit cultivation --- and the best evaluation and reward and punishment, so that children can develop good habits in the successful experience.

6) The sixth step of habit cultivation --- form a good environment or atmosphere, so that family life, school environment and even social atmosphere can become the supporting force for children to develop good habits.

Make a study plan and stick to it. Developing a study plan is an important way to develop good study habits, and the plan indicates what to do when and when. You can list a short-term plan or a long-term plan.

It is best to let the children make their own study plans under the advice of their parents, and the parents supervise the implementation. For example, Xiaojun likes to watch TV, so he can skip cartoon time when making plans, which can make it easier for children to accept. In the long run, it can not only cultivate good study habits, but also cultivate children's will to persevere in doing things.

Nurture your child's interest in learning.

1 Reading with children, parents can read the newspaper, a good study partner is very important.

2 When children are learning at home, parents should not engage in some recreational activities, and a comfortable learning environment is very important.

3 Don't compare your child's grades with other children, analyze the reasons for this phenomenon and reflect on whether you have any responsibilities.

4. The child's room should have his own desk, and there should be several books on the desk that he or she likes to read, such as "Grimm's Fairy Tales", "Aesop's Fables", etc.

For this situation, I personally feel that it is a little late, and the child must develop good habits when he is young, and it is difficult when he is older. At present, the only way to do this is to understand him, move him with affection, and cultivate his good habits!

In high school, most of the rebellions are habitual, and it is difficult to change them, so they can only be guided; What are the specific practices based on the actual situation; Ask a college student tutor to teach by example and learn the benefits of good study habits; Or make an appointment with her excellent classmates to study together at home, which needs to stimulate interest in learning.

1. Train children to think more.

The most basic is that primary school is arithmetic at the beginning, and cultivating children's brains can make children understand some examples of what the teacher says, which is also a way of thinking with many benefits, the simplest is, 2+3=5, then 3+2=5Or some such examples, this is actually called the brain knows how to turn around and think, when doing things, the child knows whether there is the same example before thinking about it, then he knows what is going on, and it is also applicable to learning. Similarly, if you encounter various problems in your studies, you will also think about whether you have learned the same type of problem.

2. Train children to practice repeatedly.

In the process of teaching children to write, we must let the child practice repeatedly, because the child is interested in too many things, he may write this word because he is interested in an unfamiliar word, and in the process of writing this word for the first time, he may not remember the word Qianlu Xu. Therefore, parents can train their children to practice repeatedly, and at the same time, it is best to be strict and not sloppy, otherwise children will form a habit and do not know how to write well, so they will always be sloppy with parents and teachers.

Good study habits are the foundation and guarantee that determines a child's future success.

1.Cultivate children's habit of concentrating on learning.

Give children a quiet and comfortable home learning environment, and do not interfere with or disturb children.

2.Set a strict schedule and develop good habits.

Help your child make a reasonable schedule of when to study, when to play, and when to rest.

3.Develop children's ability to write homework and think independently.

Parents need to know how to let go and let their children do it on their own. Do not supervise on the sidelines, do not accompany the child to read, and complete their homework independently.

4.It is customary to train children to do their homework and check by themselves.

After completing the homework, urge your child to do a self-examination.

5.Learn the habit of organizing and packing school supplies and checking school bags.

Learn to take responsibility for your own affairs.

Good habits benefit children for life.