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He broke up because of a different place, how could he fall in love with you in a different place again! Either wait until everyone graduates to see if there is a girlfriend and plan to develop there, you are deciding whether to confess to him, or you should first show him your attitude and see how he expresses his position, see if he gives you a chance, make an appointment with him! Everyone has their own lives during school, and if they are both alone after graduation, can they try to be together?

Why bother, let it go. Don't try too hard for a love affair without drama. Love Him because you haven't met someone who loves you.

Love is unstable now, and distance tends to create suspicion. I guess you should be his best friend by now, like a confidant, so don't spoil this connection. Wait, maybe it's really fateful to meet after graduation, and I'm talking about it at that time!

If you're afraid that you'll regret it, go and confess, even if you're rejected, at least you know that you can't do it. Long-distance relationship is very difficult to maintain, the most difficult thing is that two people are not together for a long time, lack of common topics, not to mention that there are so many good boys and girls in college, it is possible to change your mind, but not necessarily, it varies from person to person, if you are not too far away, it is good to meet often, I also have classmates in long-distance relationships, and I plan to get married after graduation, so I can cheer you up, come on.

It depends on whether he likes you or not, and if you don't like it, it's not very difficult to be in a different place If you like it, it's only possible if both of you work hard and are determined But in the case of him and his previous girlfriend, I think it should be very difficult for him to be in a different place

In fact, if you are not together, you will just feel that the person has been very good, and if you want to be together, it will be more painful to break up. People who often think about it are easy to dream that they like this kind of thing, and the more they control it, the more they like it, and they may meet someone else one day

Just look at yourself, no one can give you the right answer.

Sometimes pain is something that must be experienced, and there is no escaping it.

If you like it, confess to him, as long as you love each other in a long-distance relationship, it is not a distance in the distance, the important thing is to trust each other.

Being in a different place may just be an excuse, do two people who really like each other care about this? If he proposes to break up, then he certainly doesn't like his girlfriend very much; Otherwise, they will be broken up, and they will not be able to trust each other yet. As for what you should do, it is recommended that you go to the common language Q&A to ask questions, there are experienced people who are more professional in relationships...

It's no fun, because of a different place and such a hasty separation, you think that you are also in Wuhan, and you are also in a different place with him, but you can still show your heart to him.

As long as you work hard, at least you won't regret it.

Then confess, as long as the feelings are deep and there is perseverance, a long-distance relationship is not terrible.

The two of you, sometimes you need to give up something, or fight for it; It depends on whether it's worth it.

There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side.

Yes, I talked to a senior classmate during college, and when I graduated, I was assigned not in a city, so I have two suggestions for long-distance relationships, so I might as well take a look at ......The first piece of advice: mutual trust between lovers.

In fact, whether it is a long-distance relationship or not, the most important thing to maintain a good relationship between lovers is mutual trust. For lovers who are in a long distance, mutual trust is even more important. Of course, trust is not something we pay lip service to, but it is accumulated over time, for example, if we deposit money into a bank account, only by depositing money into it from time to time, the account balance will continue to grow, and we can withdraw it if we encounter problems.

Compared with couples who live together every day, a long-distance relationship will be fragile to an ambiguous **, a party message, will be you lie and say that she found out that she was not on a business trip, and you can instantly overdraft all the "balance" that you have worked hard to accumulate before. Therefore, in a long-distance relationship, mutual trust requires that we both do everything without hiding from each other: someone chases, someone plays ambiguous with you, you have to report to each other immediately, maybe the other party will not be comfortable at that time, but after time, he and she will feel the trust between you.

Of course, from my personal values, if you are not ready to replace our boyfriend and girlfriend, then please don't try to play ambiguous, and treat rotten peach blossoms with a quick knife to solve the mess, because dragging will only waste your suitor's time, and it will also hurt the person you love the most and the most precious trust between you.

The second piece of advice: don't easily convey negative emotions to the other person.

Compared with the coquettishness and petty temper between local lovers, long-distance relationships really don't do too much. When you encounter difficulties or troubles, you will complain and feel depressed. If the two live together, they can directly help you solve it or give you a hug, but for long-distance relationships, you can generally only face it yourself.

Originally, there was a long distance between the two, and the work, life, and study environments were also very different, and occasionally a ** was full of venting negative emotions and complaining, maybe you just wanted to vent and listen to each other's comfort. However, you may not know that he is far away from the world, not only has to face a poor life, but also constantly reassures you. Over time, he will also get tired and will plan.

In fact, as adults, controlling emotions is the most basic maturity, and what we need is a partner on the road of life growth, not a drag bottle that only complains.

Girls don't talk about long-distance relationships, because I'm also from the past. The long-distance relationship is really wronged, I can't see it if I want to, I can't hug it. Even when sad and sad there is no comfort from him.

I am in a different place with him, I never dare to quarrel with him, I am afraid that I will break up after arguing, all the grievances are held alone, I am afraid of saying my grievances, he said that I am hypocritical. Girls, you have to remember that you are his girlfriend on the phone, but does anyone know if there is another one by his side? If you have a long-distance relationship, just talk about your grievances, quarrel if you want to quarrel or fight, don't hold back that this will make you sick.

Don't grieve yourself anyway.

There are several types of people who are not suitable for long-distance relationships:

1.Low sense of security.

I especially need companionship, I have separation anxiety, and it is difficult to get along with myself. As long as you have time, you will expect the other party to respond to you, and only if the other party does not respond, you will start to be emotional, cranky, and finally the other party will be annoyed, and the relationship will enter the freezing point. People with dependent personality do not understand that healthy love can only happen to adults with sound personality, not that one party is dependent on the other, but that they respect each other, appreciate each other, and are moderately dependent and independent.

2.Not confident.

People who are not confident are often easy to be empathetic, and will attribute all the other party's reactions to themselves, for example, the other party may be in a bad mood today because of the work is not going well, and they are not very enthusiastic when interacting, and the first reaction of the unconfident person is why is this so, is it not interested in me? Got a new love? Cold violence forced to break up?

Instead of: Well, he's not very happy, what's going on, I'll find out about the situation and see if he needs help.

3.There is no ego.

This type belongs to the confusion, and I don't understand my emotional needs, and I don't understand that the other party is suitable for me, pure love for the sake of love, basically being led by the other party, and finally finding that I wasted time, and the non-good person I met only blamed myself for my bad luck, and I didn't find the reason from myself at all. There is a high probability that the future will still follow the feelings.

In addition to the distance reasons, long-distance relationships are more anti-human, and other abilities required are actually similar to same-city relationships. Finally, Wu Hanwu has a piece of advice: if you can't end the distance for more than two years, and you can't see each other often during the period, it is still recommended to be cautious, because even if one party can tolerate loneliness, the other party may need companionship.

Human beings are emotional animals, and relying on morality to restrain feelings cannot defeat people's real needs for emotional veterans.

If two people have different life trajectories, they will come into contact with and face different people and things, especially in first- and second-tier cities, and there are too many people and circles that they can come into contact with in their spare time. Gradually, the trials and frustrations that long-distance couples need to endure are also increasing. Because in addition to the test of time and distance, the worldview, outlook on life, and values of two people will gradually move away from each other, becoming two parallel lines, and moving forward at different growth speeds and development directions, which will lead to the handling of many things, and the ideas and practices of the two people will collide and become unbalanced, and they will slowly become people of two worlds.

Don't allow yourself to give unwillingly, or give with a premonition that you will regret it in the future. Paying for love should be wholehearted or even imperceptible, and the sense of giving will make you feel that the other party owes you, youth, career, and feelings, once it becomes a bargaining chip, love will become a transaction, and when you can't get anything in return, you will collapse.

Whether your family agrees with you to live with him in a different place, and whether you are willing to leave your friends, leave your family, and go to live with him in a city.

How confident you are in your pants to tear yourself.

If you go to a different city, will you be able to adapt to the new life and new environment? And can you find a job you love, and can you rebuild your network in a new environment?

If you have determined that each other is the only one, that you can leave your family and friends and live with him for him, and that you have the confidence to solve all the problems encountered in the life of two people, then you can consider running to him and gambling for love!

Even if you encounter any difficulties, you will face them yourself! Over time, the dependence on the other half will not be so great! It is quite possible to get used to a person!

Both men and women sometimes need support and understanding. The effect will be better together.

Also, separated from the two places, how can you ensure that your boyfriend and girlfriend have no suitors? Even if we trust each other, won't accidents happen?

Therefore, it is best not to be in a different place in love!