Is it necessary to be in a relationship? Should you be AA in a relationship?

Updated on educate 2024-02-15
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The good one should be the meal ticket, the responsible will confess, talk sweetly, find a way to satisfy you, be good to you, this is the standard for girls to choose a mate.

    It's so bad, is there anyone else who accepts this man.

    In a blink of an eye, people are old and yellow, and their youth is gone, can they still love vigorously? I'm.

    Love or not should be very clear, while you are still in love, let's do things now, women can't wait for a lot of things.

    For example, I don't want to like my old clothes.

    I don't know, I guess I still care about what he talked about.

    There may be a reason, and that's all there is to it.

    Conscience findings? Men and women love, it is a matter of course, you should go every time to find a very favorite one, how much regret you missed it, I have also had it, it is all fate.

    I don't like it, I guess I don't want to remember it for the rest of my life, it's all pain.

    It's all tears when I think about it.

    Everyone likes not only the appearance, but also the inside, because they can help us find what we don't have.

    That's right, women are like this, not the same as men, so much hurt, how sad, men can turn around and forget about the next one or many, just like no one, and you, up to now, have been killed as a defeated dog, and you have always been in a weak position when you don't raise your eyebrows.

    But times are different, and women can be the same as men, and they can be dragged with many men at the same time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since it is a relationship, a pair of lovers, whether it is eating or shopping, it is impossible to adopt the AA system, the man should take the initiative to buy the woman with money, this is the best way, if the AA system is adopted, the man is too stingy to advocate this kind of crisis.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no need for two people to fall in love, there is no need to have love, there is no need to worry about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to, give him all the flowers, if you don't want to, aa

    Save yourself from losing too much after a breakup in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's okay for you to fall in love, since you're talking about AA?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think that every couple has their own way of getting along, in fact, in the past, most of us would think that when two people are in love, it must be that the man will pay more money, for example, two people go out to eat and watch movies, or the girl wants to buy some clothes and so on, the boy has to pay, otherwise he will think that the boy is particularly picky.

    But with the development of society now, I think people's sense of independence is getting stronger and stronger, and many girls are reluctant to rely on boys, so many people will tend to the AA system, and when I personally fall in love with my boyfriend, I will basically belong to a state of average spending, because my parents have taught me since I was a child that I can't take advantage of others, even my boyfriend can't get it for nothing, my boyfriend and I are not completely AA system, for example, if he invites me to dinner, I will invite him to watch a movie, if he gives me a gift, I will also give her a gift of equal value, so that we will not hurt our feelings because of money, and we will not blindly ask for it, and the two people are in a relatively equal state to fall in love.

    Of course, some people around me will also choose the AA system, no matter what two people pay half of each other, I think this is also worth advocating, because two people need to pay for falling in love, if it is completely dependent on the boy to pay, his pressure will definitely be very great, because many people have just come out to work for a few years, and they don't have much savings, and their own lives are also very difficult, plus their girlfriend's consumption, they will definitely not be able to make ends meet, if you really like this boy, I definitely don't want to put him under so much pressure on myself

    In fact, it's not just the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, my girlfriend and I will go out for dinner and have an AA system, and there will be no such thing as who takes advantage of whom, and we have no estrangement between us because of this way of getting along, and the relationship is also very good, so I still advocate the AA system in the current relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There should be no AA system in love, but there should be moderation in spending money.

    Love is two people who love each other walking together on the road of life, this road may be smooth, may be bumpy, but in this journey that belongs to you, you are not separated from each other.

    There used to be a very funny saying,"What's yours is mine, what's mine is mine”。In love, in fact, two people are in this kind of relationship.

    Everything you have is the other's, and everything the other person is yours. This is the normal thinking of people in the stage of love, whether it is possessiveness or control, this is the normal thinking of people.

    If at this time, you propose that all expenses should be AA system, it is like artificially putting a few big stones on the road. Although you can get around from the side, it still makes people panic when you look at it.

    In a relationship, spending money is inevitable。Whether it's eating, watching movies, or traveling, you can't do it without a certain economic foundation. And in this spending, although it is impossible to be absolutely AA, both parties should be restrained.

    Boys shouldn't feel like spending money for their girlfriends is superfluous. Like that person and being willing to pay for him, this is the foundation of a relationship. And money is a very important part of these contributions.

    Girls shouldn't take it for granted to spend boys' money. No one owes you, likes you, and is willing to pay for you, which shows that this boy really loves you.

    And if you really love him, you shouldn't spend too much of his money. Girls should also be independent and self-reliant, don't squirm when it's time for a guy to have a treat, and don't hesitate to pay the bill when it's time to pay the bill.

    In a relationship, it always takes two people to work together to keep the relationship going. It is impossible to AA in the process of love, and it is impossible to always make one person pay.

    Long-term one-man dedication will make this relationship deteriorate. It is a love relationship in itself, and it becomes like a relationship that costs money to hire. This will make the boy have no sense of dependence on the relationship, and will feel that this is a relationship maintained by money.

    Every couple has a different idea, and my wife and I have never had an AA system. In our current life, I am basically responsible for expenses, and she is responsible for saving money.

    Every relationship is a treasure to be cherished, boys should be atmospheric, and girls should also be conscious。Don't let these things ruin your love, or it's too late to regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay, I feel like it's nothing, you can AA when necessary, especially the kind of people who are more picky, you can do this, because this method is to relieve our impulse to consume,Let's also distance ourselves from those who are clearly separated from us. It still feels doable. Especially when you first met.

    You can do that.

    I've been in one before, and I never bring money when I go out, which makes me feel very unhappy every time, because I know that as a girl, every time I spend money, boys are not shy, it's really okay. Later, I slowly rejected this situation, basically did not pay money, and was only responsible for my own consumptionI don't care about anything else, he told me backstage, why don't you pay for him, I said why every time you pay money, you don't have any hands and feet? Eat soft rice for girls?

    Later, he began to fight unevenly, this and that, and a bunch of nonsense.

    Later, I ignored him directly, I told him, if you want to go out, pay for it yourself, or go out by yourself, anyway, I won't go out with you, if you bring money, look for me, don't look for me if you don't bring money, I just told him like this, I didn't expect him to remember directly, every time I go out with me and ask his mother for money, I am AA every time, but I'm still not happy, as a boy so stingy, I feel that there is no need to get along anymore, I can break up with him.

    Later, because of various willingness, I broke up with him, because I couldn't stand the boy like this, he treated you so badly at the moment, and after getting married, he didn't search you more, so how could he live, how hard it was.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Falling in love should be AA system, it is not easy for everyone to make money, and the love period belongs to the stage of understanding each other, everyone should AA system, which can better reflect the equality of men and women, and also avoid the contradictions that may arise in the event of a breakup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This knowledge is profound, and every time I let the man come out, it always seems too purposeful. You said that you want the woman to come out, but it is not smart enough, so many people have proposed the AA system, but some people will ask, if two people are so clear when they are in love, is it still called love? But you don't know that my unknown ambiguity is not the sweetest suspicion in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, because the contribution of both parties in a relationship should be equal, the status should be equal, of course, if one party does not care about this and wants to pay, it is okay.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, this will make people feel very tired, everything has to be taken care of, and the woman will not feel your love for her at all, and it is impossible for two people to fully realize the AA system together, this kind of day is not as good as being single.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think the AA system is very good, the AA system in love is more fair, and it will not put pressure on the other party, so that two people will be happier to get along.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think that the AA system should not be implemented when falling in love, which is easy to make the relationship feel distanced, which is not conducive to the deepening of the relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Spending money usually doesn't get you anything.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Very supportive of the AA system, falling in love is when both parties first start to know each other, and it is also the time when the relationship is first and purest. The AA system is a good act and men and women are equal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you fall in love, the AA system will hurt your feelings, and when you go out on a date, everyone can take turns to pay.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Generally speaking, when it comes to falling in love, this situation will be relatively rare. Because if you say absolute AA, you will inevitably feel a little rusty emotionally, and you will doubt the other party's feelings for you.

    After all, two people who really love each other should not worry too much about the economy. Men are willing to spend money for the women they love, and the girls are also willing to pay. I don't care too much about material things, but more about spiritual companionship and satisfaction.

    Therefore, whether AA is normal or how both parties look at the concept of consumption, and whether the two people have a good discussion, both parties can agree. If both parties feel that this is the best way for each other, then it is okay to do so.

    If it is only proposed by one party and the other party reluctantly accepts it, then there may be some mustard in such a relationship after a long time. Therefore, it is still necessary to consider the jujube and dissipate it in combination with the actual situation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It can be normal or abnormal, it depends on whether the two of you are before or after marriage, and what is the relationship between the two of you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is no need to AA in love. Love is always hazy and beautiful, and romance is poetic. It's too clear that love has deteriorated and tasted.

    Love sublimation.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There have always been different opinions on whether to AA between boyfriends and girlfriends. Some people believe that men and women are equal and should share the expenses equally, while others think that men are different and that men should take the initiative to bear the financial burden. However, I personally believe that men and women do not need to insist on AA, but should be considerate of each other and give moderately.

    When falling in love in the early stage, you should pay attention to emotional communication, understand the other party's economic situation and payment concept, and then decide the payment method according to the actual situation of both parties. Sometimes, girls can take a step back, including taking the initiative to give and be considerate of the man's burden; But the man can't blindly take the upper hand, and should take the initiative to take his own responsibility.

    In daily life, it is necessary to respect living habits and consumption concepts. Since you have chosen to be together, you should be considerate of each other and don't care about every penny. In addition, it is also possible to strengthen the bond by sharing expenses and giving gifts to each other, rather than relying solely on money.

    In short, the relationship between men and women is not a simple AA system of sedan chairs, and the closure of the state bridge is such a mutual understanding and considerate emotional relationship. Rational communication and moderate mutual contribution are the keys to a healthier and more stable relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether boyfriends and girlfriends should AA or not is a bit controversial. My opinion is:

    1.In the early stages of a relationship, a gentleman's boyfriend should take the initiative to give more. This can show your sincerity and generosity and make your girlfriend feel invested in you. is too concerned about money, but not envy the auction is conducive to creating a romantic atmosphere.

    2.When the relationship is stable, the AA system can show your girlfriend that you value an equal and reciprocal relationship in some daily consumption situations. But on special occasions, such as dates, birthdays, etc., it will seem romantic for the boyfriend to pay more, which is an expression of a sense of ritual.

    3.If the disparity between the economic conditions of the two sides is too great, it is not realistic to fully AA. In this case, a reasonable proportion should be divided according to the specific situation of both parties. Don't put pressure on each other's financial situation, which will affect the harmonious development of the relationship.

    4.Regardless of whether it is AA or not, boyfriends and girlfriends should understand each other and be considerate of each other's situation when consuming. Don't be too calculating, and don't force the other party to pay completely or pay for it yourself, it will make people think that you have a calculating mentality.

    5.The correct attitude is Brother Qiaoxian, whether AA or not, when consuming, you should pay with a heart of "I want to give you the best". Rather than blindly overemphasizing "should or should AA". It's important to express your heart, not just the amount of money.

    Therefore, in general, the ideal state is that the boyfriend pays a little more in the early stage of the relationship, and the relationship is stable and the boyfriend still takes the initiative to celebrate on special days. No matter what the situation, both parties should be considerate and not cause emotional distress for a little consumption. Hopefully, these tips will give you some help in your love life!

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